Anal With My Lady Partner

[Outback Man]

How do I get my lady partner interested in anal sex? I really enjoyed this experience with my previous partner but am unsure how to convince my latest partner to give it a go.:confused:

[jennaflower]

be patient with her.. while in the heat of the moment... slowly move yourself into better position.. first using your fingers.. or your warm tongue... she will get the idea... if not.. then express your desires verbally to her.. you might be surprised..

[LixyChick]

Yes! What jenna said!

[MissX]

Sometimes using a toy works, I know that when MrX starts with my vibe gently teasing my ass it makes it so much more fun for him :p

[Steph]

I agree . . . take it slowly. When you're going down on her, you can tease her anally with a finger . . . good luck!

[katekate42]

I completely agree with all the other posts. Also, if you and your lady are pretty communicative, just go ahead and ask, but I wouldn't bring an ex into it- makes her feel like she's having to live up to a standard. I know when my boyfriend asked for the first time it was very hard for him, but once I knew he was interested I was fine with the idea. You might be surprised at how curious she might be too :)

[MissX]

and the thought of exploring together can sometimes be all the incentive required...