big scare

[axe31]

i took the plunge and called gary seems he was trying
to get my help an ex of his got in touch to tell him
that he's h.i.v posative that gary needs to get him self
tested there is a very slim chance if garys posative
then i could be too thats scary its even to soon for
me to be tested nothing would show up this
is every gay/bi mens nightmare.
i think i calmed gary down

ps remember safe sex may save your life

[Lilith]

I imagine it is.....I am glad that you were able to make Gary feel a little more secure. I am worried about you and know that the waiting will be horrible.I know that you are a caring, loving man, that is evident from your posts here, so I know that until you are given the A.O.K. you will ONLY have SAFE SEX.....
I will send positive thoughts your way...and towards Gary as well.Please get tested as soon as is possible and keep us posted..... you can always pm me if you need to talk...((((hugs))))

[jennaflower]

Axe...

You have expressed what every sexually active person fears.. safe sex or not.. the risk is always there (albit a much smaller risk if safe sex is utilized). My thoughts are with you.. as are my prayers.. that this will be nothing more than a scare..

I have been told that one can be tested 6 months from first being exposed... which would mean if the first sexual experience between you and Gary occured more than 6 months ago.. getting tested now.. and every month for the next year will be an option to satisfy your fears..

HUGS to you... and Gary too

[Grumble]

Hey Buddy,
You are a wise man insisting on safe sex. I know you are a decent caring person, you just have to read your posts here.

Get tested mate, my best wishes, thoughts and prayers are for a negative test outcome.

we care about you axe Ol chum.

[axe31]

thanks for the support the test can only be done after
three months after posiable infection takes your body
this long to produse the hiv anti-bodys that the test
looks for. gary should hear today

[axe31]

good news gary got the all clear so we can relax this
is the only time i have had this scare iam very careful
about s.t.d and keep my self informed as a sexuly
active bi man puts me in a high risk groupe if you can
call one sex partner in months active i will still get
tested in a few months to be 105% sure :)

[Lilith]

Thanks heavens or where ever!!!!!!! So glad you are safe!!!!

[Aqua]

Glad to hear about the negative test results for Gary! That must be such a relief... I'm sure everything will be fine when you take your test.

[Eros]

Glad to hear everything is in the clear Axe...I'm sure it's a big relief. As far as safe sex, I should own stock in Trojan by now as many as I've been thorough!..LOL

[Grumble]

great news Axe :)
Good on you Buddy

[GermanSteve]

Good news, Axe. Continue on the safe rail. Best wishes ;).

[IndulgenceX2]

Congratulations on the good news, axe31!
And thanks for posting the safe sex reminder.

[legend]

great news Axe! :)

[Murphy]

Glad to hear that things are going better for you! I hope my advice in the other thread was helpful in getting you and Gary to talk. Best of wishes that everything remains ok!

[Sassy Rose]

Axe, I am so happy to hear that Gary tested negative. It is wise of you to go ahead and get tested anyway. You are in my thoughts and prayers.