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MastersPuppi
08-01-2002, 03:46 PM
I'm sure this has been done before, but I'm sure most topics here have been done before. And, Lord knows Pixies keeps growing with new members daily! :D

So...what I want to know is... What is your fetish? Do ya have more than one? Start talkin' people!! ;)

Remember, a Fetish is something you crave and love to the point of excess and obsession. :o It's not just a *mere* enjoyment!


My fetishes are as follows:

Asphyxiation:
I love being choked when having sex and even when masturbating! :o I've never been "choked out" (made to pass out from choking), but I do ever so love a firm hand or rope around my neck!

Ass:
For some odd reason, this obsession lies mainly on male asses. I'm not similar to an "ass man" in the fact of thinking someone has a nice ass on their body, but I have an actual obsession for asses. I love playing with them. I love spanking them. ;) I love biting the fleshy cheek!

Biting:
I love biting others and I love to be bit! I love the way it feels to have teeth upon my flesh, sinking in deeper and deeper!

Blood Lust:
This goes along with both the biting and Vampyric Erotica. I, personally, don't care either way for the taste of blood, but *my* blood lust stems mainly from fantasy.

Nipple:
It doesn't matter if it's on a female or male body, I just plain love nipples! I especially love larger nipples (yes, men can have large ones as well). I love to suck on, bite, and play with nipples. I think they are just beautiful things! :D

Vampyric Erotica:
I love the myth, fact, and culture surrounding Vampyres and Vampyrism! There is something seductively sexy about Vampyres. They are a mystery and alluring.

I am sure there are more that I cannot seem to think about at the moment. I'll be sure to update if any come to me! ;)


~Puppi :heart:

dicksbro
08-01-2002, 03:48 PM
You left out the big one ... Pixies! Great fetish (LMAO)! What a place to be excessively obsessed! :D At least that was the first thing that came to mind. :)

Got to think about the others.

AlphaKitten
08-02-2002, 12:56 AM
I love having my toes sucked. Ears bit, and anything having to do with the neck... softer touches. But I also like to pin people down and be tied up :)
~AlphaKitten <meow>

heatluvintxn
08-02-2002, 07:34 AM
Biting is a big one for me also....which also comes form the love of vampire folklore. I like to bite and to be bitten.

I also like spanking, whips, blindfolds, and being tied up. I give and recieve. :D

mack606
08-02-2002, 10:26 AM
I'm one for biting also...just to the point where you draw blood....I have a real fetish/fantasy involing women taking control of me... I think its a little weird cuz im mainly the dominate type oh well :D

M.A.
08-02-2002, 03:32 PM
I have a big spandex fetish. I know that spandex really doesn't get a lot of recognition as being a fetish, but the amount of people who wear this incredible fabric seem to always have me in a state of delerium.
I love the way spandex looks on a female body. Really brings out every curve. Fantastic stuff!

Play4n6
08-02-2002, 07:59 PM
Great topic Puppi... )

My fetishes are as follows (in no particular order):

Nipples
Feet
Asses (especially butt cleavage)
Hands
Hair
Long fingernails on women
Dirty panties
and many more.... :)

Wicked Wanda
08-02-2002, 09:07 PM
Being dominated by another woman.
Exhibitionism
"out of control" sex
3 sums


Wickedly

WW

mack606
08-02-2002, 11:01 PM
hey i just noticed ths other one i have while talking to a friend...i like shorter women (around 5'0-5'4) i just thought that one should be added for me

Clint
08-03-2002, 12:25 AM
I can sum my fetish up into one word..........


SKIPTHISONE!!!!


*LMAO

Harley Q
08-03-2002, 01:05 PM
LOL @ Clint :D
I love having my earlobes bitten. I never got them pierced, so I think they're more sensitive.

Thinker
08-04-2002, 12:13 PM
Mack, that isn't a fitish. It is genetically engrained. Most men perfer shorter women and most women perfer taller men. This harkens back to the days when a women needed a big man for protection. And the men needed a women that they could protect, and not one that was big enough to beat them up.
Anyway along the lines of this thread. I don't have any fetishes that I know of, but maybe I have one I just haven't found yet.

thun
08-05-2002, 03:58 AM
i'm on the dominant side. I like to tie up, torment, tease, play with women.
My curent obsesion is with electricity. Violet wands to be precise.

The former was tickling. (gf blindfolded, me tickling her with a freather [real feather], even her clit, even inside her pussy... :D

Prophet Reality
08-05-2002, 11:27 AM
Godd topic thread. I have several, but here are a couple.

It seems that I am in the right company for Biting. I like to bite women, where ever they will let me.

I also have a fetish for lactating women. The sight of a woman squirting her milk gets me hard instantly.

I also like to see a ejaculate, kinda ties together.

A.K.'s Sex-Pot
08-05-2002, 12:57 PM
This sounds crazy but i have a fetish for people with fetishes. Nothing turns me on like a man asking me to do something a little unusual, or quirky that's personal to them.

I have a particular fetish for men with clothes fetishes though. When we get in to the bedroom, and i'm wearing an item they particularly like, they just say, 'leave that on!' - that's great!

roxanne916
08-05-2002, 09:36 PM
I have a thing for hands.....not sure why! Men who are good with things mechanical and just plain old good with fixing things set my motor going! LOL

Don't ask about my hands...i crack my knuckles and am used as the jar opener in the house.

heatluvintxn
08-05-2002, 09:40 PM
I can't believe I forgot this...tickling...

ultimatesubbie
08-20-2002, 09:59 PM
My goodness - where do I start with fetishes??? I am more inclined to be "passionate" about a particular fetish for a while, and not constantly. At the moment, it is enemas, fisting - both anal and vaginally - and medical/doctor fetish.
My natural submissiveness is coming out in me at the moment more than usual :D and I also have a great passion for nipple torture and anal plugs. Pain in general is my big fetish, but I believe that for me, it is too general to be deemed one fetish only.
I have a part-time Mistress who I dont get to see often enough, but she will often lend me out to other Mistresses and Masters for their use and abuse :D . I dont regard myself as a switch - my natural instinct is to be purely a submissive, and a damn loyal, obedient and sexy one at that!

Lisa910
08-21-2002, 10:37 AM
Fetishes,,,
Mine are pain,,in anyway and having sex with someone who has on pantyhose(ya know crotchless) seeing a guy in pantyhose gets me wet right on the spot,, :cool:

katekate42
08-22-2002, 09:46 PM
This is a pretty recent thing, but I really have a thing for my boyfriend's bum- it's just too damn sexy. I think part of it comes from the fact that we've been trying more anal play lately (only a little bit with him on the receiving end though, which I hope to change). I think it's the amount of trust that it shows, not to mention a whole new way to give him pleasure. Ah, hell, I'm just a dominant kind of gal... :D

Sweet_Candy
08-25-2002, 04:38 PM
I enjoy being bitten. As the heat of the play increases so should the pressure of the bite......lol

Being tied up, and talk nasty to me....lol, both on my list of turn on's as well

amale
08-26-2002, 01:02 AM
thanks friends for the open discussion, my wife loves to be bitten during sex, but i dont like it some how, i like to make love with passion.
i have a feeling that all these depends on each other mind and imagination. IS IT SO ?

Eros
08-31-2002, 06:35 PM
Hmm..never really noticed I had any, but lately things have came to mind. I love women with tattoos, especially tribal stuff, that really turns me on. Women with toys, dildoes...what have you..that's always an instant hardon. And probably the strangest..I love women with short hair..don't know why..but I do!!

rodent
01-19-2003, 06:10 PM
Lisa910,

Maybe you could help my wife with enjoying sex in hose. I love them and her in them. Frankly any woman wearing them drives me crazy... I would love to make love to her with both of us in them......

Lisa976
01-19-2003, 11:35 PM
Rodent-
How can I help you,,this is a fetish my husband doesn't really get into either sooo lemme know,,,you can e-mail me as well,,,let me know
Lisa

rodent
01-20-2003, 01:32 AM
Lisa,

I think she needs to know that there is nothing wrong with it. Just fabric that happens to really turn some of us on. Makes me harder than steal. I love the feeling of quality ones caressing my body and hers.

Anyway, I really do not know beyond that. Some people can handle fetish things, others can not. I really like mine....

I did get her so wound up one time that she bit my chest as she came. Really left a good mark too. Never was to turned on in my life as that night. I banged her into oblivion during that session. I just wish she would wear hose for it. I can promise her the same results...... especially after some public teasing.....

PS post a pic and I will do the same in return (in hose)

Rodent

like_it_rough
01-20-2003, 09:16 PM
hello everyone, I'm new here and just wanted to say hello. can you see me waving?? :)

airhog
01-20-2003, 10:06 PM
A 24 volt car battery, some battery cables, and a pink tutu. Now thats a Fetish!

sw_juggalo
01-21-2003, 10:56 AM
I must admit my top two would be... First.... Biting, being bit.. I love it!! Second would be hair I defanetly have a thing for hair..

Lilith
01-21-2003, 11:08 AM
sw_juggalo~ we REALLY need to hook up;)

celticangel
01-23-2003, 07:13 PM
big bikers is my thang----one in particular that makes me.........(must be the leathers!)

Lilith_82
06-12-2004, 07:52 PM
Alrighties.. my fetishes...

asphyxiation.. like the thread starter, I rather enjoy being choked, strangled, etc, but I am very careful as to who I let do this to me, as in my past someone (NOT consentually) almost killed me that way. So y'know, I will train my lovers to do it properly and safely.

Pain. I DIG pain. Being whipped, spanked, pinched, slapped, being bent and tied funny, whatever. I love it.

Oral- I LOVE giving oral. Men, women, it's all the same (in my love of it, that is).

Ass- and mostly because of my lover's ass... it's just so... my god, it's bitable. His ass turned me on to other people's asses.

Lingerie... I know that seems tame, but I absolutely love wearing it. I love dressing up in it, even just for myself.. and dancing around the house in it. It makes me feel so pretty!

BDSM- I'm a switch, so I get off on both ends of it, and I'm a Sado-Maso, so I enjoy both ends of the whip. I like bondage, mind-bondage, humiliation, rules, control (taking and giving up), pain, giving and receiving, etc. I just love kink.

SuzyQ
06-13-2004, 09:52 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by A.K.'s Sex-Pot
[B]This sounds crazy but i have a fetish for people with fetishes. Nothing turns me on like a man asking me to do something a little unusual, or quirky that's personal to them.

I never realized I had this fetish too. I love to be with people who have fetishes( men or women), and talk about them and sometimes participate. I am so glad for this thread and for Pixies. I find more stuff about myself. ( and I wasn't even going to read this thread).

MrValentine
06-13-2004, 10:02 AM
Hi all
Ever since I can remember, I have had a fetish for womens toes and feet.
I just love sucking on pretty toes, licking soles and getting footjobs.
I love to look at them too. It drives me wild when the sun comes out and all the girls are out in sandals etc.
Unfortunately my last girlfriend thought it was pretty weird and so she never really got into it,.
If there are any girls out there who have a fetish about having their feet worshipped, please feel free to pm me. lol

cowgirltease
06-13-2004, 11:21 AM
*raises her hand to that one*^^^^^:D

MrValentine
06-13-2004, 01:06 PM
Originally posted by cowgirltease
*raises her hand to that one*^^^^^:D

lol. You are into that too? I am definitely going to have to get to know you better. :slurp:

cowgirltease
06-13-2004, 01:17 PM
Originally posted by MrValentine
lol. You are into that too? I am definitely going to have to get to know you better. :slurp:

Yessssssssssssssss I am baby, In the worst way.;) :slurp:

Rick Forbes
06-13-2004, 03:30 PM
Toe sucking (giving), butt play (both giving and receiving), and cumming on my gal's face, tits, and ass cheeks.

The thing I love most of all, pussy eating and G-spot stimulation, doesn't count as a fetish, right?

MrValentine
06-13-2004, 04:16 PM
Originally posted by cowgirltease
Yessssssssssssssss I am baby, In the worst way.;) :slurp:

Mmmmm. Tell me more. I have a feeling that the 'worst' way is the best way! :slurp:

darogle
06-14-2004, 02:55 PM
foot fetish, anal play, bondage, water sports, voyeurism, exhibitionism, verrry oral, oh good lord....this could take all night! LOL

To be honest, I don't really obsess about any one thing or kink. I just enjoy everything and want to experience everything. Some things get me off more than others do, such as those above, but I'm open to just about anything.

cowgirltease
06-14-2004, 03:47 PM
Ahem...........^^^^^^^^ I know better.:p

darogle
06-14-2004, 03:49 PM
shhhhhhhh :P

imaginewithme
06-14-2004, 05:57 PM
Originally posted by darogle
To be honest, I don't really obsess about any one thing or kink. I just enjoy everything and want to experience everything. Some things get me off more than others do, such as those above, but I'm open to just about anything.

I am pretty much the same way as he said. I wanna do it all, I don't know of one thing that really sends me over the edge or that I love more than the other. I do love when he gets more controlling tho....does that count?

JustSomeGuy
06-15-2004, 12:05 AM
I have a fetish for tiny (petite) women. I'm 6'4, 230#, and I absolutely go crazy for women that are small. Tiny breasts, tiny feet and hands, tiny ass...I like short, petite women.

I like 'em so much I'm getting hard as I type this.

Also redheads - long red hair I will die for. Everyone of my girlfriends (and now my wife) has been a redhead. Natural, please.

One last one - white cotton panties. No, I don't like to wear 'em. I like seeing them on my tiny, petite, redheaded women! It's the "innocent schoolgirl" type thing I think, I dunno. I love to smell them, wrap them around my cock and jerkoff with them...and of course I love to see them on women.

OK, thanks for this thread. Gotta go take care of my cock now! :hot:

Irezumi Kiss
02-11-2007, 03:37 PM
:bump:

My main fetishes without question:

- natural big breasts
- thick, curvy, zaftig bodies
- freckles (facial and body)
- tattoos, particularly SuicideGirls.com type-tattooed punkish-bad-girl women
- dark, brunette hair on a woman, any length
- threesome & group sex erotica/porn
- creampie porn

then my stylistic, seasonal fetishes:

- girls who wear glasses
- women in flip-flops with painted toenails
- women in summer dresses
- women in t-shirts & denims

then my sub-fetishes, which I don't wholly understand why I like them, can't readily admit to other people and which comes to the fore periodically when I need something different or extra to get me fired up against my usual grain:

- yaoi manga
- preggo porn
- petite, skinny, almost waifish girls with NASSATOL (no ass at all)
- lite bondage/domination/humiliation kink
- lesbian erotica/porn (not the simulated pornstar shit, but the real, literary kind)

Something I'd like to try to understand but can't seem to buy the book on just yet:

- peeing fetish

I was looking at this book called "Pisseuses" and even though the photos were very elegant, tasteful and beautiful...something stopped me from buying a book full of urinating pussies in black & white...I dunno...

dicksbro
02-12-2007, 04:32 AM
Generally things that don't cause pain or belittle a person are turn-ons. Fetishes, I don't know. Maybe oral sex. If it's not a fetish, it's definitely a turn on. I guess another is I like seeing ladies undressing and fondling guys (pictures or my wife doing it with me) and, guys tenderly undressing and fondling ladies.

Oldfart
02-12-2007, 06:33 AM
I've heard a lot of preferences, but no fetishes, as I understand them.

My understanding of a fetish is something without which it doesn't happen, or happens in a vastly inferior experience.

dicksbro
02-12-2007, 07:22 AM
I think you're right, OF. I really don't think I have any true fetishes. Good point.

Loulabelle
02-12-2007, 08:07 AM
As I suspected:

http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/DictionaryResults.aspx?refid=1861611127

a sexual fetish is linked to a 'non-sexual' part of the body or inanimate object, therefore a love of nipples or arses cannot be considered a fetish. If you were inexplicably aroused by a woman whose body was, say, covered in beermats for example, then THAT would be a fetish.

ReaperWoman
02-12-2007, 08:26 AM
:bump:

My main fetishes without question:

- natural big breasts
- thick, curvy, zaftig bodies
- freckles (facial and body)
- tattoos, particularly SuicideGirls.com type-tattooed punkish-bad-girl women
- dark, brunette hair on a woman, any length
- threesome & group sex erotica/porn
- creampie porn

then my stylistic, seasonal fetishes:

- girls who wear glasses
- women in flip-flops with painted toenails
- women in summer dresses
- women in t-shirts & denims

then my sub-fetishes, which I don't wholly understand why I like them, can't readily admit to other people and which comes to the fore periodically when I need something different or extra to get me fired up against my usual grain:

- yaoi manga
- preggo porn
- petite, skinny, almost waifish girls with NASSATOL (no ass at all)
- lite bondage/domination/humiliation kink
- lesbian erotica/porn (not the simulated pornstar shit, but the real, literary kind)

Something I'd like to try to understand but can't seem to buy the book on just yet:

- peeing fetish

I was looking at this book called "Pisseuses" and even though the photos were very elegant, tasteful and beautiful...something stopped me from buying a book full of urinating pussies in black & white...I dunno...


I found myself nodding in agreement throughout most of your list. The main fetishes are definately shared completely. The seasonal ones, less so. Glasses on girls/guys is definately a turn on.

And the peeing fetish is something I've often been interested in. I'm not sure whether I'd fully enjoy it but I want to try it sometime, understand it better.

I have a strange... well since the definition of "fetish" has been explicitly stated I'll have to call it... an "attraction", to guys being sexually involved with each other. Seeing a guy give another guy a bj, or anything along those lines, really seems to get me hot, fast.

wyndhy
02-12-2007, 09:25 AM
i think in general conversation, any compulsion or hang-up a person has about a body part, object, physical characteristic or sex act can be called a fetish.

but even the "less general" people, like shrinks and sexologists, have some disagreement about the terms sexual fetishism (different from just plain fetishism) and paraphilia, i.e. whether it can only be an inanimate object, a practice that is just considered unusual in said fetishists culture, something that must be used if the fetishists is going to feel any sort of gratification, something that is harmful or dysfunctional, or whether it's just that little bit of extra kink some of us crave, whether it needs to be a hang-up for a long period of time, say longer than a year, or if it can just be something we get off on only for a little while, etc.

in the strictest sense, definitions of (just plain)fetishism even apply to religion, idolatry, totemism, vodoo … there's even commodity fetishism (a term karl marx coined as a sort of ironic description of the social importance capitalist societies place on property and other inanimate objects.)

anyway, we’re just a bunch of pervs shootin the shit so, speaking for myself, i think fetish is a perfectly acceptable term to describe anything that gets you off just that little bit more than the "normal" genital stimulation. this is just my two cents, not meant to be confrontational.

Oldfart
02-12-2007, 09:39 AM
Lou,

What's not to love with a woman covered in beer mats?

WildIrish
02-12-2007, 12:11 PM
I wouldn't describe my wants, needs & desires as fetishes. They're more like "cravings". I don't know that any are unusual, though I suppose that depends on who I'm talking to. What is an entertainable concept here is shockingly unacceptable in some venues, though most likely taking place under cover of darkness.

I've made no secret of my love of licking a cum-filled vagina, but it's not something that I pine away my days desiring. It's something I get in the mood for.

I love pampering Mrs. WI's feet and I've had them bring me to orgasm a few times. I've become suprisingly (and very strongly) aroused while helping her try on a pair of sandals. I enjoy giving her gentle foot rubs and have been known to place soft kisses about them. My cum across her painted toenails is quite sexy in my mind. But I don't want every sexual encounter to be focused on or necessarily even include footplay. It's an arsenal in my cache of sexual weapons.

Everyone knows I really love breasts, and large diameter & pale nipples as well. Kissing them and watching the areola crinkle up as the nipple rises...wow, it's surreal. Climaxing upon them and then bringing her to orgasm with my hands while continuing to kiss them is very gratifying to both of us. But we each need to be in the mood for it.

I've been interested in watching Mrs. WI pee, but I don't necessarily crave for her to urinate on me. Like ReaperWoman, it's just something I'm interested in learning more about.

I long to be tied down and sexually teased. I want you to hover your panty clad pussy inches from my nose, my tongue. I want to see wisps of pubic hair peaking from the edges, and smell the strong musk of your femininity. I want to see you reach into your panties and touch yourself, then remove your hand and waft it over my tongue...making me strain for the slightest taste of your wetness. When you tire of this game, lower yourself onto me and let me worry your panties aside to get to my treasure. When I've had my thirst quenched, you can begin your onslaught on my genitals. Bring me to the brink of climax and deny my release. Rub your nipples on my cock and lick them both together. Bring me back to the edge and change your mind yet again. Make me scream for it! And give it to me.

I guess the best way to describe it is that I desire the satisfaction of my cravings, fetishes or not.