I'm back, and in need......

[RedHertz]

Hello all, I am back from my trip abroad, welcomed by break up and betrayal. So, I am in need of some male fun and excitement. Who is new, and hot?

And to all the ladies, what is the best way you deal with a break up?

[jennaflower]

So sorry to hear about your broken heart... unfortunately the only thing that I know that helps deal with a break up is time... and moving on to other wonderful experiences :)

[BamaKyttn]

dunno I had fun when this one guy pissed me off so I did his best friend...... hehehehe but I'm just an evil bitch

[RedHertz]

Very funny Bama, i like your style. I know all needs time, and I have been left in limbo, but I just have to hope that all will work itself out, and either I will move on, or life will be kind. What has been helping has been being here. I had forgotten how much fun this forum is. It is like coming back to old friend, and good supportive ones.

Thanks.

[Prophet Reality]

I am sorry to hear of your situation Red Hertz. It is a shame that some men can not be as honourable as the rest of us. I hope that you are able to recover and if there is anything that I could do, please feel free to ask.

[Mr. 3G]

Ummmwelcome back....how long were you gone?

When I read that I pictured Croc Dundee explaining how his first marrigae broke up and he couldn't figure out why she left. He only went "walkabout"
When the girl asks how long he was gone he sez," Idunno...two years?" He gives her the first look of approval when she responds (cynically) that she didn't know why his wife would leave either.

Bummer when you lose somebody. Trust me I know. Mine wasn't betrayal and the there's NO chance of getting back together for me - not in this lifetime anyway. I believe this is where I'm supposed to say TIME...time heals everything. Ya ya ya . Get laid. SOON. You'll feel a lot better. Good luck.

[Scarecrow]

Good to see you back RedHertz sorry to here about the break up. Your freinds here at Pixie's will do all we can to help you through the troubled times.

[m45]

WoW so sorry to hear about the bad times.

unfortunately the only thing that I know that helps deal with a break up is time... and moving on to other wonderful experiences

moving on to other wonderful experiences in the time ahead is the answer.

That is what it took for me... I am not one of the ladies,, However a break up is a break up,, been through one... sucked big time.

Look to the good in the days ahead... and keep moving on..

;)

[axe31]

theres allways the get out with your freind and trash him
tell all about his nasty habits and sutch
i hope you meet some one more worthy of your
love

[gekkogecko]

Hm, really tough one. Jenna might be on the only right track, which means...well, life really sucks until you can deal with it. Thing is, I have delt with this issue by basically being poly...but this sort of lifestyle isn't for every one. And it certainly doesn't hurt any less when someone does do something to you that can be read as a relationship-ending betrayal. But it does usually mean there's a shoulder to cry on when it happens.

(I know I'm going to get asked, so...) Yes, for the record, my wife is also poly. We talk to each other, we deal. We've both had other people hurt us, and I think the fact that we can bitch to each other about it not only helps the immediate reaction and outlook, but helps our relationship.

[legend]

welcome back RedHertz :)

[Bilbo]

I for one am very glad to have the lovely RedHertz, back home

[Coach Knight]

I'm not suer if I'm considered new anymore and hot, well it is always hot here. But welcome back and I'm sure I, as well as many others, will help you forget about that other guy.

CK

[ChuckNDuck]

I'm definately new, and I think the pixies women voted me hot. :) Email me if you'd like to chat privately..

[email protected]

[Aqua]

Welcome back RedHertz... I too am sorry to hear of the break-up... But I'm sure you can count on Pixies to help you through this, and have a bit of fun while you're at it! ;)

[Glyndwr]

Welcome back Red

Sorry it couldn't have been under happier circumstances.

[Collegeboy]

Welcome back. I am so glad that you have come here for support and very glad I could have introduced you to this wonderful place. I love you. Hopefully we will continue to be good to each other.... I think I am going to give you a call......

[Steph]

I would run straight for a new haircut, followed by drinks with a bunch of crazy pals! Good luck, RedHertz!

[dicksbro]

Glad to have you back RedHertz. Sorry about your welcome home, but hope your trip was filled with fun and good memories. We'll keep fingers crossed that the future will be happy and bright for you.

Suggest Pixies twice a day for a start :)

[RedHertz]

I have never experienced such a wonderful wave of support. Thanks. Such a great "fam" here. Things are going well, I have definitely taken the take myself out on the town, have some martinis and live my life on my terms. Life is better when you just gulp it down, no matter how sour the after taste. I have no regrets, and a lot of new friends. Thanks all. We have to help eachother, I mean what is connecting with people on line all about? :)

[roxanne916]

Red,

Welcome back. I am sorry that you came back to bad circumstances.

Come up to my neck of the woods. I'll spring for the bottle of cuervo, have the limes and salt already, and will get some chocolate. Usually works for me.....and I have central air conditioning.

Hugs.