How to give a good blowjob, from a man's view point!

[cockalot]

Not that I am naive or anything, but some good wet pointers for a good blow-job, from you men would be nice, what say you...

[classydj]

Don't just go up and down. Focus mostly on the head by using your tongue, especially on the underside of the head. Also suction is good, and if u r REALLY careful a LIGHT dragging of the teeth can be nice.

ClassyDJ:cool:

[Lovediva]

I slowly start kissing my way down toward his belly, with my hand massaging his balls...when I reach it's head..I slowly and very lightly kiss is and circle the head with my tongue. I don't put it in my mouth right away.. after teasing the head for about 10-15 minutes... I grab the cock in one hand, balls in the other and take it all in... in a slow rhytmic motion..all the way down my throat it goes... slowly at first, then faster with my lips and tongue wrapped firmly around it.. I insert my tongue and explore it's tiny hole..mmmmmm..when I feel like it's about to explode..I back off a little as I don't want it to cum right away..a good blow job should last an hour or more... I then put the balls in my mouth and give them a good tongue bath... I do the same with the anus...
I then return to the head and suck a bit harder and faster..then the love nibbles start.....when he is about to explode... I make sure he is all the way down my thraot...and I suck every delicious ounce out of him...mmmmmm...I don't stop the blow job there, I keep it going until it's nice and hard again...

Ahhhhh geeee I am so sorry...you wanted a man's opinion...sorrryyyyyyyyyyyy :D :D :)

[scotzoidman]

That's ok, Diva.... this man could not have described the ideal BJ any better! I especially like your point about how the BJ ain't over just 'cause he cums, keep working it (gently, of course, I get sensitive after the squirt) till it's hard again! Of course, you will get fucked again, and what's wrong with that! One thing I wanna know, Diva, is do you really take him down your throat when he cums? Seems like that would make most women gag, do you have a special technique? But your blow-by-blow account certainly worked for me, I could not improve on it at all...

Lasting over an hour? Geez Louise...

:p

[Lovediva]

Yes I do Scotzoidman...all the way down...no special technique required..I just love it when hits the back of my throat..mmmmm
maybe that's why I don't gag....lol...but like I said in another post cum is an aquired taste! If you don't like it..of course you will gag...lol..

and yes....over an hour.....it's my specialty... ;) :D

[nutworld]

Diva,

care to give some lessons to my wife???

[duckyboy]

hey diva... if you ever want to practice i think i might be available:D
you just described the most amazing blowjob, i hope i get on like that some time...

[Lovediva]

Nutworld...sorry sweetie but I won't teach your wife...took me a long time to learn how to give a great blowjob. And the only reason I know how is because my mate(s) over the years, have told me what felt good and what didn't...communicating to your partner what you want and don't want is all part of a relationship...so just talk to her...she might surprise you!!! (I hope ;) )

As for practice duckyboy..don't need it..lol...I am already good! :D :D ;)

[SensualLove]

~~OMG Diva!!~~

I am not a man but that description of a blow job even turned me on...!!!! :D :)

Keep on sucking !!! :D

[Blue Eyed Girl]

Just another helpful hint to other women reading this post:

It is extremely important to wait until the man is almost desperate to feel your mouth on his penis. I like to kneel between his legs and very slowly lick my way up his thighs. I then use a technique that I call the "Hot house." Use very warm breath with your mouth open to heat his balls and penis. The man will feel you between his legs and the closeness of your mouth. If you very softly touch the tip of your tongue to his penis in different places as you do the Hot house, he'll go crazy wanting you to take him all the way into your mouth. When you do, be sure to drop your mouth straight down over it, covering his penis entirely with your hot, wet lips and tongue. It's a great technique for both participants.

[Prophet Reality]

LoveDiva... CAn I marry you? Your description got me so hot that I almost exploded on the spot. ANd then Blue Eyed Girl cums along and makes it even better. Wow... what a board!

[Lovediva]

Wow a marriage proposal!!!! Wooohooo!!! :D :D
Wonder if Kim could marry us Prophet? :D



Here is something to help your ladies along...I posted it in another post but just in case you didn't see it..hahahaha :D

[rabbit]

Diva, I can say with all truthfulness that I have NEVER had a BJ like that before! I have some good ones but never that good. WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW!!!

[Wally]

How many guys printed out Diva's news article and left it laying around? :D

One thing I'd add... (doesn't sound like a problem with the ladies who've posted here!) Whatever the technique, do it because you want to and don't hesitate to make it clear that you want to - in action and words.

It seems to me that some women don't want to - or don't think they should - and it becomes a "he's doing me so I guess I should do him" sorta thing. Personally, that's not such a great turn on.

As Diva, says, it's all about communication.

[tigress76]

thank you Diva for the advice

[axe31]

very good diva just one thing when you see some pre cum
on the end hold the head with two fingers take a finger and
rub it on the hole to collect some and look up and smile at
him then lick and suck the finger clean or use the pre cum like
a lip gloss then lick your lips olso workes ofter he has come
or use his finger and clean him up not the feel of it its the
image that get to him

[1wildpussycat]

what gives a good blowjob.....is the love of doing it.....there is an art to a good blow job......and if a women dont get into it....then its just not going to happen....or at least not be one of the best blow jobs you can get

[Lilith]

Axe~ I am gonna write in to AVON and suggest "Yumm Cumm" as their new lip gloss...:D:D:D

[Reverend Silky]

use the tongue and don't neglect the head. after that, it's all repetition. we ain't talkin brain transplant surgery here.

[Steph]

Oooh, axe31, I love the precum suggestion. My guy precums more than some men cum!

[milkboy]

I love a good wet, sloppy blow job with lots of tongue action and ball sucking. some nights my partner just drives me crazy by inserting a wet finger in my ass and fuckin me as she sucks. man.oh man. gets me every time.

[axe31]

another trick is to deep throte and takeing the balls as well
seen this in pornos had it done on me i cant do it tho feel
good

[Irish]

I'll have to agree with Wally.Knowing;that your partner wants to;
is everything.As said;communication;is the most important thing;in
the satisfaction;of your partner.I have been married for 37yrs;and
most of it relates;to the fact;that we discuss everything.After all
that time;there is no embarrassment with each other! Irish
P.S.As I have said before:There is no such thing as a bad BJ;some
are better then others;but;none are bad!

[winter]

you guys have a joke of a website if thread discussions are removed.

[Reverend Silky]

well, maybe if you hadn't decided to have asshole role-playing hour, it wouldn't be necessary.

[Irish]

Winter---First;you insult other people;now it's a website!Is anything;in the world;to your liking?It must be nice to be perfect and a legend in your own mind! Irish

[Lilith]

OK here is my ???????

If guys are so visual....is it a waste to give a BJ in the dark?????? :D:p

[Irish]

Lilith---In order for us to give a proper evaluation;you have to provide;all of the necessary ingrediants! Irish

[scotzoidman]

A blowjob is never a waste...yeh, I love to watch a good bj almost as much as getting one...but if it's dark, light or in between, it's always good...in fact, sometimes the wife blindfolds me, & goes down...I can provide my own visuals ;)

[Reverend Silky]

if ya got any kinda imagination, ambient lighting shouldn't be an issue.

[AlphaKitten]

Diva, I understand your techniques and have used almost all of them before ;) But in addition to Wally's statement, if women (or men) don't want to give blow jobs they don't have to... but I personally think they're fun :D

Usually my partner(s) enjoy themselves a whole lot, but even guys sometimes say "oh you don't have to do that" when I'm eager to do so... I wonder why that is..... any imput on the subject?
~AlphaKitten <mreow>

ps- I usually do it anyway because I want to! haha

[ericthered]

It's personal preference, but here goes. Lets assume you done all the teasing provoking and general getting him fired up enough to turn of the football and you're getting down to action. Play with it, stroke it (silky, isn't it) and let him know you're enjoying yourself. You're hafway there already.
Remember that the most sensitive bits are near the glans, so that's where you'll need to concentrate. So if you can't swallow to the pit of your stomach, don't worry. Concnetrate on the plum and you'll be appreciated. Your hands are as important as your mouth. Try cupping his balls with one hand and wank him with the other, sucking and kissing the head all the time.
As he gets really excited trying holding the skin back gently; from that position pull the skin back further so it's tight. That pulls on all the little nerve endings around the base of the glans. Now give it a twist to tighten up even further - not more than quarter of a turn! A repeat dose as required.

[ericthered]

When he looks like coming, stop dead for 30 seconds and then give him a bit more. The longer you can keep this up, the harder the volcano is going to blow.

When he is coming, cover your teeth and bite the end of it in rapid pulses - about twice a second. Hang on to your hat when you do this because it will be a wild ride.

Try not to pull a face when you've got cum in your mouth - after all, it's his and you love him. Kiss and give it back to him if you want but don't make a big deal of yuck-spit-spit. After all, he just loves to get wet from ear to ear when you're riding his face!

[proxy]

When he looks like coming, stop dead for 30 seconds and then give him a bit more. The longer you can keep this up, the harder the volcano is going to blow.

True

[Smile Beautiful]

Um well this is my first post so I will be plain and brief. I have had some experience in the fellatio (and cuningilus) department and I know I little. I totally agree to some level with the woman who said to tease the man with the "hot house" technique, but then again that might make him blow his load a lil early if you tease him too much. I recommend using all available hands. While pleasuring him with your mouth (lips, tounge, breath) use one hand to gently tug his balls or squeeze them a little bit. You can use your other hand to play with his nipples, run them through his hair, etc. Or if you have a small mouth like I do and it pains you to do much vigorous activity on a man w/ a large, errrr tool, you can suck and lick the head of his penis with your mouth and with your hand jerk off his shaft and play with his balls. I also recommend grabbing his rear. I just like to incorporate a little handplay into my fellatio. I hope I didn't spoil the original intent b/c I am a girl. Good day

[Ironwood]

Would you like to come to Oklahoma and conduct a class for the women here?

[Vintage Vixen]

First...you gotta luv what you do,giving good head is an art form.You can read all how to's and pointers,but if you don't enjoy it yourself it just ain't happening.I absolutley luv sucking my bf's cock ...in fact lately its pretty much all i think about lol. I get just as turned on giving him head as he gets,getting it....and beleive me we are both SMILIN after:)

[Smile Beautiful]

Hummmm IronWood, OK seems a bit outta the way for me. I'm not much with words, I am much better with tutorials. Anywho I was pretty much a prude until about a year or two ago. It is amazing how much you can learn in just one year!!! *wink* I also know how to give pleasure w/ hands, feet, hair, and hummm less mentioned places...I know enough positions to put Monica Lewensky (Lewenski? anyway...) back in grade school when it "cums" to sex. But don't look me up, I'm taken. :-P

[popper70]

i think most things i enjoy are already told.
but one thing i really like a lot is getting licked at the underside of the head, there where the foreskin is fixed.
another thing i like while reciving a bj is getting my ass massaged or even played and penetrated my anus...
:D

hey i know a good web site about how to give head, but sadly, for some, its in german... but with nice teaching pix

http://www.geocities.com/producer_usus/azb.html


cu f'x

[BlueSwede]

I heartily agree that whether you like giving BJs makes a huge different in the enjoyment for both people. I totally agree with what diva said also, with one exception. PLEASE don't ever think that just because your partner's gag reflex is triggered means that she doesn't like what she's doing. I ADORE giving BJs, including swallowing, and really get into it. But I have a hard time taking all of my partner at times without gagging. Heck, I gag just trying to brush my back teeth! Anyway, I just don't want you guys to automatically think that it's a sure sign she really doesn't want to be giving you that BJ.

[osuche]

Another girl's viewpoint...seems like the women are more active in this tread than the men. Is that because it's more fun to give than to receive? :-)

Tease, tease, tease... start slow, carefully use teeth (I REALLY liked the tip about pressure on the glans when he is cumming), and -- above all else -- make eye contact while in the act. It'll drive him nuts.

I like using my hands to stimulate the skin right behind his balls...indirectly stimulating the prostate gland. Press harder than you would expect and it will drive him wild. Or put a finger up his anus (although many men won't play along with this technique). Take his balls into your mouth and gently massage them with your tongue. Try humming while you've got him down your throat (for variety).

Stop for intervals of dirty talk, or lay on your back and let him sit on your face (male version...) to control his own rhythm (great for the first time until you get an idea about what he likes).

Form a ring of suction between your hand (wrapped around his dick) and your moth for really large guys. Make sure to vary your hand pressure. When it looks like he is close to cumming, form your fingers into a ring at the base of his cock and exert pressure...stops him from shooting.

God...I could do this all day! <grin>

[buckminster]

Originally posted by cockalot
Not that I am naive or anything, but some good wet pointers for a good blow-job, from you men would be nice, what say you...

The very best head is when she is giving you a blowjob while another guy is fucking her doggy style really deep and hard.

My second favorite is getting a blowjob from two women at the same time.

What can I say? I'm a perverted kinda guy...

[CptMorgan]

Originally posted by Lilith
OK here is my ???????

If guys are so visual....is it a waste to give a BJ in the dark?????? :D:p

Though there are few things sexier than those fuck-me-eyes looking back up at you, there's always a special spot for the dark (or blindfold ... same effect). When you can see it, you can anticipate it. In the dark, you don't see it coming (No pun intended), your other senses are on overdrive, and ....

It sends shivers down my spine thinking about it.

[buckminster]

Originally posted by Lilith
OK here is my ???????

If guys are so visual....is it a waste to give a BJ in the dark?????? :D:p

No blow job is ever a waste, although my GF is so lousy at it.. big sigh

I just thought of another favorite way --

After several heated hours in a fuck and suck threesome, my ex-wife would be so relaxed, comfortable and accommodating. Our regular threesome partner and I would take turns amusing her twat with our dicks, a dildo, etc.

She would get into this real submissive mood and she let the other guy face fuck her however ya wanted. Her mouth felt so perfect. We just needed to make sure the she was always in a comfortable position. The ex would just get so into servicing the two of us guys. She would suck your cock non-stop for two hours like this. This was also the time she really enjoyed anal sex.

Just an infucking-credible blowjob...Geez

[Coach Knight]

If you could fashion some sort of a tray that you could strap to your head so I could rest the remote control and a beer on it. That would be really helpful.
;);););););););););)

Happy Turkey Day!!

[erotikalice]

Basic Penis Education
LOOK at your partners penis, examine it and see how wonderfully created it is for your sexual pleasure.

The shaft, the head (technically the glans penis, with glans coming from the Latin which means "acorn"). Look at it closely. The outside of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive part on the penis and where most of your attention should be in giving oral sex.

On the underside of the glans there is a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle come together. If the male is not circumcised, this will be where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is the most sexually sensitive spot on his entire body, and is similar to the woman's clitoris. It may be possible to bring your partner to a climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note the number of women who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy off. That's not it, folks! If it works it is because the back of your throat is playing tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head!

Beneath the shaft are the testicles. The testicles ("balls" in slang) are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to the testicles. The opening in the tip of the glans penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts.

The sad fact is that most people, men and women, do not have the slightest idea of how to suck a penis. Most seem to think that simply by making a cunt of their mouth, closing it around a man's penis, and bobbing their heads lustily up and down until he climaxes automatically makes them an expert. Au contraire!

Consummate skill is required to suck a man and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. When a woman first starts her quest she usually has no one to turn to for advise and counsel. It was all hunt and suck. Hunt and suck. Find that one technique that could and would set him on fire! Also some men are more stimulated by oral sex than others. For most men it is very stimulating but for others its not.

In order for you to observe your man's reactions and get the most information possible about his responses, try the following:

While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone, your partner will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are most pleasurable.

As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure, concentrate on them. For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached. Or were attached prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and tapping along this area with your tongue you may bring forth a geyser. If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a hurry I suggest that you get him off in this manner in order to become familiar at first hand with the nature and delight of his climax.

As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes in his penis. These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can prepare for his cum properly. The head of the penis may swell somewhat larger then it is during the normal course of his erection. He may thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his body hurtling out his penis with his cum. And for most men, immediately prior to the cum, there will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the penis a clear drop or two of fluid. When you see this or feel the opening at the meateus through his condom you know that the moment of truth is at hand. Launch the torpedoes, full cum ahead!

Where should you be when you are sucking his penis? Between his legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine position? Where? Because of the structure of his penis, as well as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and teeth, you can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and your partner by kneeling between his legs and approaching his penis from the bottom rather than from the side or the top.

Place his stiff penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his penis. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow, purposeful manner.

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front of him lift his hard penis to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

Right now lets discuss a technique that is probably the most common penissucking technique in the world. Take his penis in your mouth but not deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It's great, not over-rated, but if you want to be an expert at deep throat, start with the right techniques and work your way down, so to speak.

Take his penis in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind the corona. Don't just open your mouth and close it around his penis. Slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase the shaft of his penis with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to any kind of stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you give him the sensation of having his penis encased.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft. When he climaxes he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his penis. He wants to envelop you with his penis. As you are learning his climax, you will miss the fine points if you deep throat at this time. Instead gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm. As you gain more experience you will be able to tell exactly when his climax is approaching.

There is one further refinement to this basic technique, which will heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of the penis in such a way as to block the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen.

If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his penis you can delay his cum for several long moments. When you finally allow the cum to spurt it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result. Even though you delay the cum for only a few short moments, you will be surprised by the intensity of his cum.

These techniques are the basis of penissucking. Do not go beyond them until you have become an expert, not only in the techniques themselves, but also in the reading and interpreting of your partner's responses to such a point that you know exactly how he is getting off on what you are doing. When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more subtle, more advanced techniques.

Don't be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self discovery. Find out what works for you and for your partner and make your penissucking as individual as your signature. After all, you want your man to pick you out in the dark among a hundred slobbering penissuckers.

One of the first things you encountered when you first started to suck penis was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their penis down your throat as far as they can get it. Particularly at the moment when they cum!

Consider for a moment that the average length of your oral cavity is three to three and a half inches while the average Caucasian penis length is five to five and a half inches. The laws of nature would seem to dictate that getting all that penis into your mouth is an impossibility.

It can be done. If you understand your anatomy you will begin to understand the requirements that allow you to take his hard penis into your mouth and down your throat. The biggest obstacle to taking all of his penis down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the penis past that angle.

[Wicked Wanda]

Oh my!!!
I LOVE to give head... and I believe I am very talented at it.
The only thing I can add to the above is...
DO IT WITH ENTHUSIASM!!!!!
I can not count the number of times men have said to me afterwards "You are the first woman who acted like she was enjoying herself" or "You really liked doing that?" with a note of surprise in his voice.

Eye contact , as was already mentioned... helps too.

orally,

WW

[whatswithme69]

i dont really care much about the technique...i just love the feeling of having my dick played with by a nice moist tongue....ohhhh what a feeling

[cirenity]

How To Give a Great BlowJob
The Blowjob is best when implemented in three stages, the arousal, the teasing, and the “outcome”. I will describe each of these stages in detail. Many people think that a long blowjob is the best kind, and when you have the time, it certainly can be, but when you don’t have time for a hour long BJ, a 10 minute one can be just as satisfying. As with anything, it takes practice, a little talent, and a LOT of true enthusiasm, to truly pull off a perfect BJ, but these are the steps which can make it possible.
The arousal
Men are all different. This is the first rule of all sex. There is NO one thing that ALL men get off on. Many men however are a little put off when you just grab a cock and start sucking. It is disconcerting for them, after all this is their private region. Beginning the arousal stage should take some time, working your way to his cock. Depending on how much time you have to work with, you could start all the way at his ears, or just around his thighs. Teasing, making him want to feel your lips on his growing root. Breath hot breath on him, and lightly touch his skin with your tongue. Let him know how lucky you are to be enjoying his body by groaning aloud. Slowly work your way to his cock. Continue to blow hot breath onto him. Lick his cock lightly with the tip of your tongue. And then breath in close to where you wet it. This will create a cold sensation, and after your hot breath, it will be a suprising yet erotic change. Breath more hot breath again and focus on his balls a little more, just touching them with the tip of your tongue. By now, your man should be hard. He should be standing at attention and where ever your mouth is, that’s where the cock should be leaning. You have finished stage one and are ready to move to stage 2.

The Teasing
Yes, you have actually been teasing him already, but you will be doing it in a different way this time. The object of this stage is to PREVENT YOUR MAN FROM COMING. Tickle or tug his balls (you have to know what he likes cause some like it rough and some DO NOT) with one hand (usually the left if you are right handed). Take the other hand and squeeze the root of his cock. Now proceed with your tongue. His cock should be SO ready to have your mouth on it that he will let out a sigh. You should also let out a long sigh-groan showing how happy you are to be sucking this perfect cock. During this stage it is important to change your style often, so here are some different styles to choose from.
1. Deep throat. This needs no explaniation, but be sure not to do this long or he WILL come.
2. Lick the underside of his dick spreading your tongue as wide as possible. At the root suck the spot right between his balls and his cock.
3. Lick and suck and kiss his balls. Be careful tho!
4. When sucking his cock gently drag your teeth over his shaft.
5. Twirl your tongue around the tip of his cock.
6. Apply sucking to the tip of his cock and then the rest of it.
7. Moan while doing all of these things.
8. Anal play is always fun!
9. Try other things and ask him if he likes it. If so, remember it and add it to the list.

Those are just a few of my tricks, but there are tons of them, so be creative and be communicative.

The Outcome
By now your man should be begging for release, if not, thats ok too. If you have found your neck getting sore or your lips are hurting, remember that it takes longer for a man to come if he is worried about your comfort or pleasure. So if you want to hurry the process, Forget your discomfort and do this...
If you can deep throat then go to it till he comes (really I don’t know much about this)
If you can’t then this will do the trick...
Get your mans cock wet with your saliva. Very wet and keep it wet until he comes.
Put your right hand around the base of his cock (when it is lubricated) and start to match your mouth strokes with your hand strokes. Your mouth should be working the top half or third while your hand is jacking off the bottom. Be sure to apply sucking to his cock, letting him know that you can’t wait to taste the delicious treat he has in store for you. Continue the mouth and hand strokes up and down. NOW for an important tip. Keep a rhythm and don’t stop. If you have to stop sucking to get your breath, use your hand all the way up his cock in the same rhythm. This should give you a little time to get your breath and get back to work. Be sure to moan each time you put your mouth on his cock. Let him know you love it. When you feel him getting ready to come begin sucking harder but don’t loose your rhythm unless you think he wants to go faster. This action will take you to the destination. Soon you will be sucking down gobs of delicious fluid. When you taste it be sure to let him know that you love it and suck more frantically as if you are trying to get more. Until he starts to jerk. Then be easy, cause he is more sensitive right after his orgasm.
Rinse and repeat!

[Irish]

Everyone form a line in front of WWs.Just don't expect
to be remembered.If she can't remember,the times,You're
not anything special! Irish

[txgrneyes]

i agree with what everyone said...and sucking is my favorite thing to do...

[69SuperSport]

Sorry , but i REALLY can't help you on this matter. For my "Point of View" is only directed toward pleasures of the female kind.

Guess i'm saying, If ya pay close of enough attention to ya partner, You'll know what they REALLY like. People are like books, to get to know them you not only have to open the Cover, but it helps if you read EVERY page..*wink*

Maybe ya can use Sumpin i said to answer ya question... hehe

[girls_rule]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lovediva
I slowly start kissing my way down toward his belly, with my hand massaging his balls...when I reach it's head..I slowly and very lightly kiss is and circle the head with my tongue. I don't put it in my mouth right away.. after teasing the head for about 10-15 minutes... I grab the cock in one hand, balls in the other and take it all in... in a slow rhytmic motion..all the way down my throat it goes... slowly at first, then faster with my lips and tongue wrapped firmly around it.. I insert my tongue and explore it's tiny hole..mmmmmm..when I feel like it's about to explode..I back off a little as I don't want it to cum right away..a good blow job should last an hour or more... I then put the balls in my mouth and give them a good tongue bath... I do the same with the anus...
I then return to the head and suck a bit harder and faster..then the love nibbles start.....when he is about to explode... I make sure he is all the way down my thraot...and I suck every delicious ounce out of him...mmmmmm...I don't stop the blow job there, I keep it going until it's nice and hard again...

Ahhhhh geeee I am so sorry...you wanted a man's opinion...sorrryyyyyyyyyyyy :D :D :) [/QUOTE

An hour or so - wow you are patient and must have a strong jaw! Sounds like you have a lucky man.

[Vigil]

http://www.thesexacademy.com/articles/how-to/Blow_job.htm

I have posted a couple of links to this site - but I would be surprised if anyone didn't enjoy studying their pictures and advice??!!

[wolfishbriana]

Oh yeah. Now I remember what I was going to ask. How can you tell if a guy is about to cum? (for the stopping a little before he does)
::fish::... hey look, a fish.
~Easily Amused.

[Cobalt]

GOD, you have all got me so horned up talking about blow jobs. Wants to try all these ideas out with my wife!

[Cobalt]

;)

[Wildeye]

OHH

SExy thread.

Men adore being sucked.

spouses best is oh so light, teasing and soft, just her lips moving back, sliding up and down on the corona.
eye-contact - yes.

spilling some cum yes!!!!

Wildeye

hard as rock.

[dicksbro]

To the tune of "You Do the Hokey Pokey"

You put the penis in,
You take the penis out,
You put the penis in,
And you lick it all about ...

You do the strokey pokey
Til' it's juices all shoot out ...

That's what it's all about.

:D :D

[Vicious Tease]

*grins at DB*

I'm gonna have that stuck in my head all day.

[Cobalt]

The more I read this thread , the more I like it, no, LOVE it. It makes me soooooooooo damn horny.


LOL

[faerysflower]

Originally posted by Lilith
Axe~ I am gonna write in to AVON and suggest "Yumm Cumm" as their new lip gloss...:D:D:D


OMG LIL!!!!!! you are too funny..... geees... ok i give up

[faerysflower]

gotta love dicksbro... strokey pokey.... yummy

[MJ6Music]

I'm new here but i love this thread, unfortunately alot of girls who i've gotten head from didn't know anything besides put it in your mouth and stroke...its kinda sad, but hey i'll let all the ladies in here know my opinion on a good blow job....first do some teasing with your tongues, be patient, and act like its everything you need (cuz most of the time it is, right ladies? :p ) From there you can pretty much figure it out, but a good tip is the wetter the better, the sloppier you get the better it feels....and i agree with Cobalt, this is one of the sexiest threads i've seen (even though i've only seen a few lol)

[Lovediva]

I'm new here but i love this thread, unfortunately alot of girls who i've gotten head from didn't know anything besides put it in your mouth and stroke...

Ever try an older woman MJ????? LMAO!!! ;) :D

[Irish]

Diva---Are you refering to yourself,as an OLDER woman? Irish
P.S.Many women won't put a strangers member in their mouth!
Can't say as I blame them

[Lovediva]

Compared to MJ..........yes I am Irish!!! :D :D

As for putting a member in my mouth....he wouldn't be a stranger then would he???? LOL

[Irish]

He might not be a stranger but he might have a strange member!
Maybe,that's why they say that-Variety is the spice of life. Irish

[MJ6Music]

Unfortunately i haven't Lovediva....are you offering? ;)

Irish - lol i dont have a strange member, unless you would call it strange if when it gets hard it takes like 3 or 4 orgasms to calm it down lol (even though thats never been referred to as a bad thing :cool:)

[Lovediva]

Hmmmmm...3 or 4 orgasms you say.........

[MJ6Music]

Yep, :cool: is that a bad thing? lol

[Lovediva]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO :D

[popper70]

perfect stood blower

[popper70]

perfectly...

[boilergirl1]

Bumpin The Bj

[dicksbro]

Fun to re-read the posts here. Thanks BG for the BJ bump. :)

[joe_someguy]

If I remember right...blowjobs are like pizza. There's really no such thing as a bad one. Of course, it's been so long since I've had a bj, that I can't really remember. It sucks being married to a nun. The ol' sexual frustration level is hitting new highs right now, so it's good to read about people still enjoying sex. At least I know someone out there's having fun!

[WildIrish]

married to a nun.


Is it true that they are creatures of habit? :D

[Lilith]

Is it true that they are creatures of habit? :D
<groans> :spank:

[joe_someguy]

that's how they got the name nun...'cause you ain't gettin' nun ;-)

[Callie691]

I heartily agree that whether you like giving BJs makes a huge different in the enjoyment for both people. I totally agree with what diva said also, with one exception. PLEASE don't ever think that just because your partner's gag reflex is triggered means that she doesn't like what she's doing. I ADORE giving BJs, including swallowing, and really get into it. But I have a hard time taking all of my partner at times without gagging. Heck, I gag just trying to brush my back teeth! Anyway, I just don't want you guys to automatically think that it's a sure sign she really doesn't want to be giving you that BJ.
I whole 'hard'edly agree with BlueSwede. I love giving a blow job... :x: it just upsets me because of my gag reflex he thinks ai dont like it. But it turns me on as much as him probably more than anything else.

Though i have been trying lately to work past it. I have made it as far as getting the head in my throat, but not hte whole thing. And i have what feels like a stupid question. Are you supposed to be able to breathe when you deep throat? Cause i cant.

[wyndhy]

i can't. just get yourself a good breath first.

if i move my head so i'm not taking him at an angle, i can take a decent breath through my nose. but to do this i need to concentrate on what i'm doiing so i can get that breath, i can't really suck on him at the same time.

and i know he gets a little thrill when i gag... :p

[Callie691]

ok thanks i was just wondering. i havent figured out how to get that breathe through the nose yet. every time i do it just suctions tight and then i have to back off or gag...which i hate. i got my gag reflex not by choice. my first always pushed my head down when he would cum. after him ive always had a problem with gagging, before him i never had a problem going down. but oh well. my hubby is understanding and patient with me. i hope soon to be able to deep-throat him anytime i want.

[sodaklostsoul]

To the tune of "You Do the Hokey Pokey"

You put the penis in,
You take the penis out,
You put the penis in,
And you lick it all about ...

You do the strokey pokey
Til' it's juices all shoot out ...

That's what it's all about.

:D :D
Everybody sing.......!!!!!!! :rofl:

[dicksbro]

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh ........................

[flutelady]

OMG, the Strokey Pokey, tooooo damn funny! :rofl:

I think all the techniques are terrific and they've gotta feel great... but I think possibly the most important element is desire/enthusiasm on the part of the blower... cuz the blowee knows and it makes a big difference.

[scotzoidman]

I think all the techniques are terrific and they've gotta feel great... but I think possibly the most important element is desire/enthusiasm on the part of the blower... cuz the blowee knows and it makes a big difference.
:faint:

[Plumbcrazy]

OMG, the Strokey Pokey, tooooo damn funny! :rofl:

I think all the techniques are terrific and they've gotta feel great... but I think possibly the most important element is desire/enthusiasm on the part of the blower... cuz the blowee knows and it makes a big difference.
I have to agree totally, if she seems like she is doing it because she should or treats it like a chore don't bother, but is she acts like she just can't get enough of your cock that is the real turn on (for me at least);)

[citrus]

:bjhappy:
I don't know how to give a good or bad blow job, really! I cannot even describe the process. I just love sucking cocks and I do whatever I can to get my man to cum in my mouth. The funny thing is that it seems like the best cocksucking I've done, every time!
:bj: