Meeting Up

[dj_nevermore]

Hey everybody, I'm thinking of meeting someone from Pixies. I know her a lot, but I just always get scared thinking about it. You know, all the what if's...well, I'm in Missouri, and I think I can arrange it, and it is exciting, but I just don't know for sure if I should go for it yet. What do you guys think? Anybody else had this problem? Anyone interested in meeting? Thanks a lot. --DJ

[Grumble]

What are you afraid of? I always act the same and meeting people on the net is no different for me than meeting them face to face. I am going to meet another member of Pixies when she comes out to Australia next year.
We are good friends with respect and interest in each other. Nothing sexual is planned as she has an existing relationship that is important to her and I always respect relationships. If circumstances are changed when she visits well that would be a different ballgame. The thing is that no matter what, we are friends and like each other and we will meet and enjoy the others company.
All the people I have made friends with in Pixies are people that I would willingly have as friends in any situation.

[Lilith]

I just want you to PM me with the name :D:D:D!!!!! Just be your same wonderful self.Oh and relax and have fun:p

[Nice Guy]

I met someone that I had know from online. It went very well. Just be yourself.

[love_2licku]

Same lines as the rest...if you have been yourself online, you wont have a problem. Be honest to yourself and you will be honest to others and everything else will fall into place. Wish I could meet someone from here ;) Lucky you hehe

[GermanSteve]

If you want to meet but are not sure about what will happen, have an agreement about what you would do or not do for the beginning. And if sympathy is ok you can still change. Just be yourself. Do not wait for anything and be happy for every positive surprise. ;)

[Oldfart]

E. All of the above.

[RandyGal]

I think you should go for it.



Just make sure they show up at the designated time or it could freak you out that they MIGHT not be showing up at all. ;)


Also, I agree with everyone else in that if you've been yourself online and your friend has been honest in that area too, it shouldn't be much of a problem.

I've met many internet friends and it has yet to go bad on me...except for that silly scheduled meeting-time thing. :D :D :p

[foosballfan]

I've met 2 different people from online. THe first was a couple years ago and was disappointing because she wasnt too smart or quite as she described herself. The more recent one was very fun, actually. We had a cool little date and kissed a little and talked and I had to leave before we had much more fun...DAMN IT!!! Just wish her roommate wouldve left us alone and this story would be lots more interesting........

[BigBear57]

heheheheh Well I've met several online friends and I've ye to be disappointed. I met one who flew in from Australia and were together for over a year. If You've been yourself, and your intended has too... things will just go smoothly. If either of you has put on a front.....well then it's a little odd. Either way, keep an open mind and enjoy it for whatever happens. Hell I have.

[Nikki]

Yep........I met someone...........
I met one of my best friends online.....
She is 26 and has her own Advertising Agency on the east coast of Australia............We met in Political Chat and she was coming over to Western Australia on business, so we met up and got on like a house on fire - we painted the town red and made a promise to each other, to met at least once every year........she is a great friend and ally when I venture into policital chat.....

So I say.........dj.......go for it......and rule with your head and your heart......not just one, use both to get an equal balance of your emotions.......LOL....if that's possible.......

If you don't meet.........it will always be a ......"what if"....in your mind for the rest of your life........

[Steph]

I haven't met anyone I know online and I have to admit, I kind of prefer it that way. . . online and offline seem like two different things to me.

[Sugarsprinkles]

:D ;) :p WhooHooo!!! I'm meeting another Pixie tomorrow!!!!!

I'm having lunch with Vampeyes!!!

How do ya' like that??? I wonder what the record is for how many other Pixies a person may have met???

This will make 3 for me!!! First Murphy, then jennaflower, and now Vampeyes!!! HOT DAMN!! This is gonna be great!!!

Hope I can manage a picture or two....;)

[Nikki]

Woooooo Hoooooo SugarSprinkles.......hey that's awesome.......
hehehe..........I'm meeting a fellow Pixie member in December.....!!! hmmmm.......counting down the seconds.... LOL

[jennaflower]

I have met several online friends..

several years ago.. I was a regular on a popular divorce site... (I got banned!! LOL) but thru that, I was able to meet 8 people from the midwest... and truly was blessed to do so. I still remain in contact with a few.. one of which gets married next month which requires me to make a little road trip to St. Louis :) :)

I have met 2 other men as a result of them reading my stories online. One.. turned out to be a very serious relationship which almost resulted in me moving to the east coast... but alas that didn't work out. The other... well... he will always be one of my very dearest friends...

And.. as SS mentioned above.. I have met her.. and Murphy.. both wonderful people.. and a pleasure to consider friends..

I have no regrets about meeting anyone that I have met yet. I do realize that meeting those online can be a bit risky.. but I believe that I am careful... and before doing so I have alot of time invested getting to know them...

[Sugarsprinkles]

BooHooo!! Had to take a rain check on meeting Vampeyes today.
Guess there were some logistic problems at her end. We've decided to do it another day this week....:)

[Midnight Kiss]

I have met Freddy 2000, Seeker of Fun, whitetiger74, tigeress76, from pixies, though all before they were pixies but all of them from online. I have also meet others from online and have had wonderful experiances. In fact whitetiger and tigeress are coming to see me in December, :) I am counting down the days!!!!!!!!!!!

[Sugarsprinkles]

WWHHOOOHHOOOO!!! I just got back from having a fantastic lunch and visit with our very own Vampeyes!!!:D:D:D

She is soooo cool!! :cool: We had a blast talking about just about everything! And she has the cutest little boy, what a little doll!!

I just wish we could have done this a long time ago and then we would have been able to do it again, and again....since we don't live very far from each other right now.:( But once I move, it won't be so easy, although she did promise to come and visit. Just think, if she comes out to MO to visit, we'll be able to have our own Ozark Pixie Party!! There'll be me, Murphy, jennaflower, and we'll just HAVE to meet Midnight Kiss too! What great fun we'll all have!!

[vampeyes]

LOL Thanx Sugar.. it was fun .. and I wish it had been sooner myself.. hmm I will have to start researching MO to see when I can get there for a visit..... :D :D

[Nikki]

Wow........that's great to hear SugarSprinkles and Vampeyes.............

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by Midnight Kiss
In fact whitetiger and tigeress are coming to see me in December, :) I am counting down the days!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi MK!!
Since you aren't really that far from Murphy and jennaflower and pretty soon me too, it would be great if we could arrange lunch or dinner somewhere convenient and meet with the three of you.....

Gee, talk about a real Pixie Party!!! Wouldn't that be great fun????

[Murphy]

Meating online friends can be scary, but I've never been dissapointed. First I went to Detroit to meet Sugarsprinlkes, then she came down here to visit me and meet Jennaflower...both are wonderfull, funny ladies, and I am happy to call them friends. And Now I see Vampeyes may be coming to my Li'l old town...oh happy day!