anyone eavesdrop on partner masturbating?

[sassy 13]

I've become somewhat obsessed with listening to my guy. He says he's never masturbated because, he's always had a women to fill his sexual needs. I told him it's unbelievable that he never ever has, but he sticks to his story. I accidentally overheard him in Jan. of this year. I couldn't believe my own ears! I was so turned on that I masturbated that nite and 3x's the next day.I was so facinated that I marked it on the calendar just to see if this was a random act. Boy was I surprized, he has been doing it on a average of 2x's a week.I will never let him know that I know because, I get so hot and wet listening to his late nite sessions. When the air kicks on or the fridge starts running his strokes get faster and harder, I guess he thinks the added noise covers up his noises. I'd love to hear from you if you can relate.I'm currently waiting for a spy cam I won on e-bay to take me to the next level. I can't wait until I can watch him stroking that big 8 inch cock while he thinks I'm sleeping in the next room.

[jameswillers]

I know exactly what you mean sassy.

I love hearing women making themselves cum, especially if they tease or are using two or more sex toys. I think it is a very erotic act and eavesdropping is just as horny !!!!

[PlayfulTigress]

I would never think of eavesdropping on my Man during ANY time of the day for ANY reason. That is an envasion of privacy! My Boyfriend are very open and honest with each other, and both are open minded, but if ever He felt He wanted to masturbate alone and in private, I would NOT argue.

[GermanSteve]

Listening or even watching him in secret is a dangerous thing, take care. He might understand this wrong.
I always wanted my wife masturbate but she refused it. To me it would have been a turn-on as it would have been to her... but impossible to convince her...

[sassy 13]

I am very open with my man. We have always had a wonderful relationship. Do you think he wouldn't listen if he overheard me? If you answered no you need to wake up and smell the coffee!This has improved our sex life tremendously. He complained because he wasn't getting enough (low sex drive due to medication) now he complains that I'm wearing him out. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and mine is to keep on doing what works. I know you've heard what you don't know can't hurt you. We aren't feeling any pain, only pleasure.

[pje]

I was about to say,damn its hard to believe that someone has never masterbated because it usually starts there with curiousity before you even get involved with the opposite sex.Guess he is just afraid to tell you because he thinks its something thats shameful.

[sassy 13]

I forgot to mention in my orginal thread that I'm not standing with my ear glued to the door listening. I am in the bed and he's on the sofa about 10 feet away.We have 3 other bedrooms and 2 baths on the opposite end of our home so I don't know why he doesn't go in another room if he wants privacy.I guess it gives him a thrill being that close and he can hear if I get out of bed.

[Harley Q]

Eavesdropped, never. ("I ain't been dropping no eaves sir, honest!") Overheard, yes. And it can be so erotic that it drives me crazy. I know he's in there thinking about me and all the things we've done.
I don't think I'd ever listen and/or watch and not tell him. We do it in front of each other almost daily.
But if you're going to watch his personal moments discretely, sassy, I hope that he won't be upset if he finds out. Would it be worth encouraging him to share with you so that you wouldn't need to risk losing his trust?
And for that matter, who am I to try and suggest things to others...I'm a newbie, after all.
:D

[axe31]

watching some one masterbate is one of my favorite
thing you can stand back and watch ther whole body
react one of my ex lovers did a all over blush when she
came was the sexyst thing about her