biting

[icecreamthighs]

My S/O has told me that the thought of biting me while we are making love really arouses him.

Should I be afraid!!!!

Please could anyone with a biting fettish, share some thoughts with me, from gentle nibbling to extreme m/s stuff - wot is it all about???

ict (willing to try anything at least once!!:D ):confused:

[Lilith]

I have a serious interest in this....... Sometimes the urge to bite my S/O is overwhelming (especially his shoulders/neck when in missionary)<yummmm>. He hates it!!!!! So I refrain...... I do not want to cause damage or even break the skin but love bites are really tempting.;) I am not sure why I have this urge..... to me it is playful and sexy. I think I would like to be bit back as well but :( will never know!

[BamaKyttn]

I have a few scars from where Souls bit me before, during and after intercourse.... I love it, the pain is almost overwhelming but just before I think I'm going to scream he always lets up, most bites don't break the skin but the ones that do, don't go away for a while. I have also found that with my g/f if I bite her just as she is reaching her orgasm or right after it peaks it again and I can bite her a few times to prolong the orgasm.....
your friendly resident Vampryss
Kyttn

[vampeyes]

I also (who would have guessed? lmao) have a thing (fetish if you will) for biting and being bitten.I find it highly erotic and very arousing. But not everyone feels the same or feels as strongly aroused by it I am sure. I only ever gently or mildly bite hubby - he is not as enthused by biting as myself. I f you are frightened I would definitely start out small ... light nibbles on the shoulders thighs or other assorted places.. maybe in the places that normally turn you on when he caresses you there would be a good place to gently nip at the flesh...if you find the slight pressure arousing then maybe work your way up if ...it does not please you then maybe it's not for you..either way always discuss your feelings with him explain if you like it / dislike it or only in certain places etc..... I have bitten hard enough to bruise the flesh but never enough to actually break it.... now that is something else entirely.. I love being bitten that hard when in a certain state but if I were to be bitten like that out of the blue I am sure that it would be extremely painful! So my advice would be basically start small and see what happens from there :)

[jay]

hey lilith feel free to bite me as hard as you want (above the waste) I love it but watch out I bite back

[GermanSteve]

Mmmmmh, biting is great! And blowing some air to the same place at the neck also. This can give perfect goosepimples to the partner. I like it to give and to get!
But take care near the orgasm because you might loose control. Then it is better to either not bite or have the mouth completely full. In this way the danger of hurting somebody is smaller.

[Generic Man]

Ah, I adore biting. As GermanSteve points out, I need to be careful with it, it has the ability to push me over the edge. I'm equally happy to inflict marks of my own, however. ;)

[sadora]

I too have a thing for biting! All I need is a bite to the back of the neck at the right time, and instant orgasm!! I also like to bite. I am careful not to hurt him, though sometimes I feel like I could take a HARD bite! If you're willing to try it... just tell him to start light, and see how you like it.

[Prophet Reality]

Okay from the resident VAmpyre. Here it goes. All of the above post are very correct. The first thing that I suggest is to start small. I wouls suggest on the earlobe, or the side of the neck. I know that in my area there is actually a club of sorts that have Vampyres and Blood dolls. They are of both sexes, and take the biting fetish to an extreme. We would actually take blood from the Blood dolls, and they would enjoy it to the point of orgams for some. It is all part of the Dark World of Vampyres over here.

But you definitely need to start small and work your way up if you enjoy it. Light nips on the nipples and on the inner thigh are great places for some men. And for some women too. And if you have anymore questions ICT, by all means PM me and ask away.

[danziggy]

Now what ICT failed to tell you all is that although I love to bite her, when i think of biting till i can taste blood makes my stomach tingle. I dont know what it is but it just send my stomach into summersaults.

My fave place to bite is the shoulders....if she shows them to me i want to bite them....even if we are just walking down the street.

Am I wierd?????? :confused: :confused:

Maybe i should have posted this in the freak thread!!

[vampeyes]

No you are not wierd...... (at least in my opinion :) ) But if you talk to Prophet I am sure that he can give you a lot of advice and insight :p

[Ophelia]

I enjoy MOST biting...but let me say, like any sexual behavior, it must be consensual. I had a partner who like to bite my face...I HATED it. It always left scars...and didn't evoke a pleasurable reaction. Just make sure you let your partner know when enough is enough...and that they RESPECT that!

Ophelia

[BamaKyttn]

blood is a most precious fluid life giving and a delicious crimson I practically drool at the thought *dabs the corners of her mouth*

Prophet When are we going to take a night on the town to go out and dine?

[robart]

I like to use biting as a tease for my lover as she is never quite sure how hard i am going to nibble her. The outside edges of her inner lips are one of my favorites, as I firsr start to kiss and lick , then evolve into a gentle sucking and then begin to introduce gentle nibbling. My tongue is interspreced with my teeth.
It drives her wild.

[Dominatra]

biting is great when having intense sex -- and not just an "S&M" thing either - it's about unleashing passion and trusting. I get carried away sometimes and leave marks, especially on his great broad shoulders, but i also just love to be bit. as long as it doesn't leave a noticable mark not covered by clothes!!!

my favorite is having sex doggy style and when he gets into it, he grabs a handful of hair and pulls my hair back, arching my back impossibly, and sinking his teeth into my neck. oh, and grunting all the while like a dog -- LOL i'm sick!!!!

[sadora]

Dominatra- I guess I am sick too then! mmmmmm Being sick feels oh so good! *evil, evil smile*

[BamaKyttn]

* straightens her halo and contrives to look innocent *

[Prophet Reality]

Originally posted by BamaKyttn
Prophet When are we going to take a night on the town to go out and dine?

Well my dear Vampyress, any time you want. You know that I would love to walk the night and dine with you.

[Prophet Reality]

Originally posted by vampeyes
No you are not wierd...... (at least in my opinion :) ) But if you talk to Prophet I am sure that he can give you a lot of advice and insight :p

By all means ask away. I have a wealth of knowledge in reagards to the subject. And of course allows looking for more luvely necks and bodies too. :D

[icecreamthighs]

thanx you guy/gals - I can always rely on you to come up with the goods and It's a real privelige to belong to such a caring sharing 'family' - you guys, ict looks down self conciously and kicks the ground !

Thanx prophet for you advice and comments - DZ was certainly very interested:)

I shall certainly be allowing some nibbling especially on the neck and wrists which i love as i know the effect that it has on DZ - I just love to drive him over the edge :D mmmmmmmm

I agree with Dom, I love DZ to grab my hair and pull it hard backwards when we're doing it doggy. I guess all in all with a partner i love and trust as much as DZ I like him to get a little rough and ready with me - Oh yes :D

[sadora]

ICT- Isn't it just the best when you can give up control totally? We are lucky women... to have men who are so willing to take us to new levels. Men who show us the ultimate respect and kindness in everyday life, which makes giving ourselves to them completely, oh so easy. Good luck with all that you do!

[Dominatra]

We are lucky women... to have men who are so willing to take us to new levels. Men who show us the ultimate respect and kindness in everyday life

So true Sadora, we are lucky --- it kind of makes you feel safe yet scared in an exhilerating way that they are bigger and stronger and those teeth and hands could really hurt you but only bring you to new heights of pleasure all the time. *sigh* I just love men!!!

[danziggy]

Well i have a few questions on the subject....

Where can i bite that is easy to break the skin and inflict least pain???

Also somewhere where people wont see??



I keep wanting to bite ict's lips as i think it would be easiest but then people would see so i dont. Help me somone as i am going mad with desire to do this...:mad:

[sadora]

I wouldn't suggest the lips! Oww!!

Maybe try the inside of the thighs, high up, where even shorts would cover. I am not into breaking of the skin, so I am no expert here.

[Prophet Reality]

DZ I would go with Sadora's suggestion. Of course when I had a lady that allowed me to bite her hard enough to draw blood, she didn't really care as long as it wasn't around her neck. I found that the breast are also a good lace to bite and draw blood. But it can be a bit painful though, so you would have to nibble around until you found the right place.

[Mr. 3G]

I LOVE biting too. Not for the blood and very little pain is ever inflicted except around orgasm. I love the texture, the feel and the taste of the skin. I love the feel of the firmness of her under my mouth and between either my lips or teeth. I love back rubs and full body massages. If I am the one doing it I include my mouth along with my hands. With biting, nibbling etc your nose is right on the skin and the smell of your partner has one of the highest known
pheremonic effects on your brain (turned on) so that's another reason.

I have never broken the skin and any blood from "other sources" that I've come upon during the course of lovemaking hasn't turned me on any more that her normal smell so I guess one of those vaccines I had as a kid took care of any of the vampire genes.

Ya gotta giggle.

JAY sez you can bite him above the waste! GAWD man, prey (sic) tell how high it has spread so far? Are there no antibiotics you could try?

[danziggy]

thanks for the advice everyone.

although i keep getting into trouble with ICT. i keep nibbling her shoulders, she tells me that it hurts her now so she has banned me from biting. Boy is that hard. I just keep nibbling, i cant help it.

[bucksman]

Danziggy - I would just go for those Ice Cream Thighs - close to where your tongue does it finest work (I assume), but not THAT close!!!!

[sassypantz]

I disagree with bucksman. If you'd like to get back into ICT's good graces with biting, you need to start slowly and softly. Sucking the neck and earlobes, eventually involving the teeth. Because you already got in trouble, you need to take it easy. Don't get greedy. I love to be bitten. Ears, neck, shoulders, nipples.....and I like it pretty hard. Not everyone is like that. You need to find her thresholds.

[roxanne916]

I don't bite, I only nibble

and gently

I prefer shoulder blades, the smooth little area behind the ear, back of the neck just below the hairline, crook of the arm

all followed by gentle licks and letting my hair fall gently over the area afterwards in a soft brown curtain.

[andrew]

I'm not into doing it, but last night during a really hot fuck my spouse bit me three times shoulders and neck, not breaking the skin but hard love bites. she found it a huge turn on, it was quite wild sex, my balls slapping against her as i slammed in, ending up in me taking her from behind and filling her with spunk.

Andrew

[Lorelei]

I don't like to bite, maybe a little on the neck.

My lovers, especially guys, always bite me. I get marks on my neck, tits, and ass. I take all I can, but sometimes I need to say, "Don't bite so hard." It can be very erotic.

[sw_juggalo]

I'm not much for biting But I do however love to be bitten I love it when my g/f bites my chest or my thigh it gets me all hot and bothered. I love it when she leaves teeth marks..

[krzykrn]

I am not into biting really...ok I have done nibbling (well who hasn't) but never bitten anyone. However my past two lovers had a tendency to bite me VERY hard in the throes of a strong orgasm...I was bitten so hard I bled one time, I almost stopped it hurt so bad lol. She apologized afterwards, but when I looked back on the event, I was pretty turned on that I caused such a reaction.

[T-S]

Like to bite but my fangs are a bit sharp so have to be a touch careful