Oral Sex

[White Noise]

Got your attention didn't it!! *LOL*

But the thread is about oral sex. I'm currently reading a novel by James Herbert called "Once..." (good read if anyone cares) and in this tale his hero has encounters with good and evil.

These couplings got me thinking about something. Now, I'm only half way through the book but the 'evil' character goes down on the guy but the 'good' character doesn't. I couldn't help but wonder whether Herbert deems oral sex to be "dirty" hence only the evil character performs BJs.

Interesting. What do people think?

PS - Is anyone else out there obsessed with Shakira's butt? (particularly when she shakes it!!)

[Oldfart]

1. Herbert is an exceeding strange author.

2. No.

[legend]

i've never heard of James Herbert and oral sex is something i have yet to enjoy....so it looks like i'm evil too

yes, I am obsessed with Shakiras butt (especially when she shakes it)...and all of her really....and she's in Australia at the moment too. :p

edited to include some reference to oral sex

[White Noise]

OK, maybe I should have made myself more clear. Do people find oral dirty? Empowering? Do it because they like it? Do it because their partner likes it?

Do you think the author is trying to make a point? Is oral still taboo?

[legend]

Yes oral is taboo in some circles or to some people.....but things don't change overnight.....but i think things are changing....slowly

[Lilith]

OK I use to think it was something only "bad girls" did when I was young (extremely prudish upbringing). I have no clue exactly why I was left with this impression..... Thank God I learned dif real quick.:p I have been surpised to find tht more young people seem to be participating in oral sex and abstaining from intercourse. I have heard them say that it keeps them virgins.... then wouldn't that make oral sex a trait of a "good" character? I think some negative ideas about oral must come from the old adage that if it feels that good it must be wrong.:D
and Shakira's ass does nothing for me :p:D:p

[danziggy]

WoooHooo my fave subject!!!!:D :D :D

Oral Sex is Sex....its not the same without it.

You can call it dirty,taboo, bad i dont care.....ITS FANTASTIC!!!


I do it because i like it. I wouldnt do it though if ICT didnt like it. I'm just glad she does.Very glad in fact.

And as to Shakira's bottom i think its very nice, i wouldn't mind getting hold of it.!!;) ;) ;)

[vampeyes]

yes you did get our attention......
I love oral sex because there is just something about giving your partner that pleasure concentrating on them alone..and deriving pleasure from the fact that you are giving it. mmm makes me want to drop to my knees right now ;)

[danziggy]

vampeyes would you mind if i stood in front of you??

[vampeyes]

WOO HOO please do..... I could lick you all day :)

[danziggy]

mmmm now thats a nice pic i have in my head!! I would of course have to return the favour!! :D

[Wicked Wanda]

I love giving and receiving oral sex!
When giving, I love the pleasure I feel knowing I am giving my partner pleasure, and frankly, especially with men, I love the feeling of power... of control...
*Wanda puts on her teaching clothes*
First,there is the "the penis or vagina is dirty" belief.
Then there is the belief of oral sex as being bad or evil or sinful that comes from the bible.
The "religions of the book", Christianity, Judaism, and Islam all have this.
There is a Christian fundamentalist belief that any "homosexual" act, (such as oral sex) even between a woman and her husband(!) is sinful. The story of sodom and gomorrah, and the story of Onan and"spilling seed" has been used to say that we are not supposed to have any sex that is not for reproduction!
I am the victim of a Catholic Girls" School, and have read the bible and found only one mention of female masturbation "the Harlot of Jerusalem" in ezekial 16:17, which sounds a lot like use of a dildo by a woman on herself, and the ONLY mention of oral sex I have ever found is in the "song of songs" or "Song of Solomon"
We have a very messed up culture, sexually.
Here in the USA we fired our Surgeon General because she suggested teaching teens that masturbation might be better than sleeping around and getting pregant or catching a disease.
I looked up all this information once when I made a presentation to my supervisor about teaching safer sex to teens.
They said no!
All we can teach is that they should abstain from any sex at all!

This I why I sometimes think of quiting nursing, and often go home and cry myself to sleep.

Goodness. This is a tall soabox!

Orally,

WW

[MrX]

I love Oral sex as does my partner MissX, I love spending time pleasuring her, I get one hell of a kick out of knowing that it pleases her ( oh and she tastes so darned good too) .

I particularly like a long slow 69 where we both get to enjoy oral sex though it can get a little distracting when you both doing it. But then i do like to see if i can put her off her stroke as it were :)

[Steph]

Then there's the whole issue of legality. Is fellatio still illegal in some states? I know us Canucks don't give a fuck - as former Prime Minister Trudeau said, "The state has no place in the nation's bedrooms."

The powers that be saw it as evil, obviously.

I, personally, would DIE without giving and receiving!

[Glyndwr]

Thank goodness it's not illegal over here

I would hate for you to die, I'll volunteer to be a life saver ;)

[Steph]

Glyndwr, you are my life saver! Please help, I need mouth to mouth!

[Irish]

What most of the people don't realise;is what most of my friends
and I always believed-Nothing is illegal;unless you get caught
doing it.Unless you have oral sex in the town square;how are you
going to get caught doing it? Irish

[Steph]

I understand what you're saying, Irish, but I was referring to the question: is oral sex seen as evil. I always thought it was a stupid law, too! :)

[Lady Tango]

Oral sex isn't "dirty". It is the most beautiful gift you can give your partner. I love giving head to my husband, it's so sexy using my tongue to bring him off. Oral sex is the best foreplay imaginable.

My best orgasms are when he finds my clitty with his tongue.

What a crazy world it is if you're allowed to keep guns with minimum controls, but are refrained from leading a healthy sex life!

[Master1012]

I think oral sex seen as "evil" or " taboo" is mostly with the older generations and religious fanatics.

It seems that most of the younger people out there have no problem with it ( and I do not either ).

[scotzoidman]

Gosh, where do I begin? I had to get over the religious indoctrination, too... and I'm not even Catholic! [jk, kids] But I got over it pretty quick... always loved getting oral, and have learned to love giving it to mi'lady... don't want to get on the soapbox, in fact, I'm gonna put Wanda back up on it... I likes lookin at her legs, don't y'all?

[Oldfart]

Good and evil are cultural qualifications.

It is good to kill your enemy in war, bad in peace.

It is good to have sex the day after a ceremony, bad the day before.

We qualify ourselves into tighter and tighter circles.

Cocksucker is a term I automatically associate (at some level)

with homosexuality, and in the sixties I knew very few girls who

did this terrible/wonderful thing.

It has become a more individually accepted (expected?) behaviour.

Herbert is from before my generation and has these preconceptions.

Trying to equate the generational perspectives is futile.

Evil? Schmevil.

Double milk crate stack there folks.

[Prophet Reality]

Oral sex is not evil. But there are still some old prudes in society that thank it is. I just think that they never got a good BJ. Me I love to go down on a woman and taste her with my tongue. So Steph, if you don't have enough volunteers, well count me in.

[Steph]

I definitely don't have enough volunteers in this small town, Prophet! Mmmm, you're in!

[Prophet Reality]

Well now the question is, what exactly can I get in to?

[SirNecrodeit]

As for going down on women, I don't see how anyone could see it as 'dirty' or 'shameful' (disease and poor hygine aside)... as for taboo, who really cares? should society have such a stranglehold on you that it extends to your most private bedroom? At any rate, my experience is this... when I go down on a woman, she enjoys herself more... much more, when a woman enjoys sex, the favor is returned ten fold to the man... : )

[Wicked Wanda]

I remember when our last president admitted receiving oral sex from his intern, he was called a "PERVERT".
Not an adulterer.
Mostly by the lawmakers.
BRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
The same people who make it illeagle for me to have sex with another woman, or perform oral sex on ANYBODY.


Tiredly,

WW

[nikanik]

The same people who probably give and recieve more than anybody too. But oral sex is the best thing ever thought of. I wish i could meet the person who thought of it first and shake their hand and then drop to my knees before them.

[scotzoidman]

Lawmakers who are busy thinking of other ways of screwing everybody...

[Oldfart]

Bastions of the moral, silent majority, Scotz.

Wonderful thing to hide behind.

[Prophet Reality]

Oh poor Wicked. To think that anyone would want to prevent you from having sex with another woman or having ORAL SEX should be strung and quartered.

[prickynew]

I enjoy a woman who talks while she sucks and kisses, and likes to be talked to while she is being eaten as well. "Talk dirty to me"

[axe31]

where is oral sex ilegal never heard that
i know same sex is illegal in ireland

[nikanik]

there are some states in the US where it is considered sodomy

[Reverend Silky]

mm-mm-MMM... *headshake* mother o' bellyriffic Buddha... Shakira has an unearthly ass. i wasn't even gonna reply to this post till i saw her fine-assed name mentioned. oh, and, uh... oral sex is evil. *shrug* just to stay on topic.

[Grumble]

Oral sex is amazingly erotic for me, it is some silly to make it illegal but purantanism is healthy and alive.
Too bad they don't have a life so they stick their high and mighty noses into other peoples lives.
Fuck em I say LOL

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by grumbleguts
Fuck em I say LOL

Maybe this is their problem...They need to be fucked. And they're probably just jealous that the rest of the population is getting something they aren't. Figure if they can't have it, no one else should either. And then there is the element that believes that anything that feels good is wrong. Bunch of narrow minded prudes!!!:(

[Irish]

I agree with Grumble&Sugarsprinkles!The world is to full of people
that want to inflict their moral code on everyone else.
Example:Around here you have; what my friends and I;call Massholes.They are people from Massachusetts that move to New
Hampshire for the rustic atmosphere.After they have been here awhile;they want to make the neighborhood laws;gun laws;
education laws;vehicle laws;etc.;just like Massachusetts.Why don't they just stay where they are,fix their problems and leave
everyone else alone? Irish
P.S.Old Proverb---Misery loves company!

[axe31]

oral sex is in every sex and love guide going from
the karmasutra to the modern dvd guides was
taught in in many ancient cultures.

[andrew]

Herbert has admitted just writing to make money, so it's not surprising that he write about female subjugation. I love giving oral to women, it's brilliant feeling them getting sooo hot!! I like getting BJ's, but only if they like it.

Panther

[Capn Cocksuck]

Why is it all fun things are considered evil? Without oral, I think life would be very dull!
Most likely, it is considered evil because religious texts say so. Think about it, if all we did was oral, we'd have no kids, there'd be no next generation to pack out the churches/synagogues/temples etc. Religious leaders have a vested interest in keeping people procreating!

And as for Shakira's arse, lemme attit!

[dicksbro]

I agree with Andrew. I love giving oral sex to my wife and enjoy it when she returns the favor as long as I sense it's really something she wants to do. Her enjoyment is number one.

[PeachsRsweet]

I love oral sex. I is so erotic knowing your partner is concentrating on pleasing you. When I cum I feel like I have given complete control to my partner. MMMMM

[Tess]

"Really love your peaches, want to shake your tree" :)

Agreed, PeachsRsweet, and welcome to Pixies.

[BigBear57]

I had a live-in who was religious suddenly for awhile and confided in a church elder we enjoyed oral pleasure and he declared me the evil seed. First off why was she discussing our bedroom with anybody from church? Anyhow, I definitly love it. Always have, always will. As for power, if you're doin' it right there's power. LOL I saw a young redhead almost go through a headboard trying to convince me she'd had enough.

[celticangel]

If it feels good------over do it!

[White Noise]

I love getting it and watching it given to me in mirrors

[whatswithme69]

my gf and i do oral sex just about as much as we do anything else sexual. i usually always lick her pussy (especially when shaved, then i cant get enough of it ;) ) and she sometimes sucks on my dick. its great. and it doesnt matter to me if some people find it taboo cause they're not the ones participating in it so their opinions dont matter to me.

[JoyRider]

1) Since I'm not reading the book I'm not sure, but are you saying that a guy went down on another guy? The author might not necessarily be suggesting that the act of oral sex is exactly dirty, but rather the act of homosexuality...which for many years has been considered evil by many religious types - that is not my point of view because to answer your 2) question, yes the butt turns me on too (and I'm a chick). If only I could shake my thing like her!!