Women's size

[sadora]

I had a very eye opening talkwith my S/O the other day. We started talking about size, and men, and ended up talking about size and women.
He said that not only are women different sizes, but that we are different temperatures, and of course different moisture levels.
He said that the more turned on I get, the hotter I get. I never thought about it much, but it got me to thinking.

At least men can just get it hard, and measure their size.... We are stuck wondering for the most part, or taking someone else's word for it. I had never been self- concious about my size before that conversation.... now I wonder. I am sure that most of the women here know about Keigal(sp?) exersizes.... and I do them regularly... but still, I wonder.

Another thing, is that while I don't squirt, I do cum. Of course, this makes me VERY wet. I was self concious about that when I was younger, but relaxed about it as I got older. Men or woman haven't seemed to mind, but now the conversation has me thinking about it again. Do I get TOO wet after I have cum once or twice?

The whole temperature thing throws mw for a loop!! Don't even know where to begin!!

Just wanted to let the men know they aren't the only ones who worry sexually.
Anyone else want to add their two cents??

[icecreamthighs]

good grief - i never knew about all this stuff either, I do my pelvic floor exercises when i remember as i have had kids but not as often as i should.

I think maybe we should listen to the advice that we give out to the guys, it really is'nt that important, and I'm sure that when we are cumming, it is the last thing on our minds

Maybe some of the guys would like to tell us if they notice or prefer anything in particular?

[Wicked Wanda]

*Wanda puts on her nurses uniform*
I have been doing Kegel exercises since I was 20.
While I was in nursing school I learned from a OBGYN resident that doing the exercises DURING sex can intensify my orgasm! Also my male partners like the sensation, they have told me. (I think this is the reason he first told me about them.)
And of course we are all diffenent sizes! When I started out in nursing, there where something like 12 different sizes and shapes of vaginal speculums, to match the different sizes of women's vaginas. ( remember the old cold metal ones?)
I have learned that we also vary a lot on how wet each of us get before, during, and after sex.
I haven't yet had a partner who actually "squirted ", but some have really soaked me and the bedclothes! LOL
And also, the more turned on we are, the more blood flows to the vagina, so it feels hotter


Medically

WW

[Lilith]

If 5 men volunteer to use their tongues as thermometers....I think I could donate my body to Science for some random sampling :p :D:p

[GermanSteve]

Here you have one thermometer already, Lilith!
Can we start science?

[Sarriah]

Sadora, I too have often wondered this same thing. When me and hubby were first together, I would never let myself cum, because I didnt want him to think I was gross or weird because of how wet I get. Now I dont squirt either but if im getting really turned on I get wet enough to soak my undies :D Then if i cum 2 or more times then i get SOO wet. I used to think it was gross to get that wet but now I dont care for me thats showing a man how much we are into what we are doing, We all know how it feels to reach down and see how hot a man is by how hard he is, or to reach down and feel hot and wet a woman is. Its one of the hottest things to feel :)

[Prophet Reality]

Lilith...I'll volunteer. The tongue is willing and waiting for your use.

Next, I think the wetter a woman gets the better. It lets me know that I am doing something right if she is getting that wet. And I have no problems sleeping in the wet spot either.

[sadora]

While I knew that women were different sizes, and that some are wetter than others, I never knew about the temperature thing. Thanks WW.

Sarriah- At least I'm not the only one!;)

Thanks for the responses guys!:D

[sadora]

That was only supposed to be one okay... it seems totally different with two... sorry!

[nikanik]

well i think im weird cause i squirt on thefirst time i come. then im a happy victim of multiples so i get extremely wet. but superman says thats what he loves most about sex the warm wet feeling so i guess it is ok.

[ChuckNDuck]

I have to say, that I love more than anything, going down on my gal...I love how wet she gets, and how its so hot, and gets all over my face...And to to top it off, there's nothing like feeling that super slippery warmth around my cock as I slide insider her after she's come.....Girls, you should be proud of yourselves...

[danziggy]

well im sorry girls but ive never noticed a difference......
maybe i just get too excited when im down there but i dont think ict would like it if i appeared with a ruler, some tissue and a hydrometer.

i just like to get stuck in...tongue,cock, finger i dont care if its like a river or a stream just as long as its there!!!!


Lilith.....can i take some samples?????

[Oldfart]

Like Danziggy, I've never done the math.

I have as yet to meet a woman who gets too wet.

I don't know if such a thing exists.

[Steph]

I, too, do my Kegels during sex. My men love when I clutch their cocks.

On the wet front, I get VERY wet. I have a good friend who has trouble with lubricating. I'd much rather get really, really wet than have to apply lube, my friends!

[Aqua]

Wetter is better!! And if a girl can squirt... WAHOO!!

[Dominatra]

I can totally relate about self-consciousness when it comes to wetness Sadora.

While I usually love being wet (cuz it means i'm severely turned on), i actually got so wet during sex once I thought I peed!! I was mortified, but it turns out it wasn't urine, but i'm still to this day wondering what it was. I am often insecure about that now.

[sixsense]

Kegel exercises. For an ignorant guy with no experience what is this exercise, how is it done, and what is it supposed to do? Is it like yoga?

Dominatra.. It sounds like you might have cum (yes some woman can cum.. its not the same composition as a mans). If so that somthing to be proud of. Not looked down upon. Hold your head high!

And I agree with the guys.. the wetter the better (especially since I then know I would be successful in arousal/orgasms).

[sadora]

sixsense- Kegal exersises are when a woman flexes her vaginal muscles. It helps keep that muscle in good shape. Which is good for you guys.

Thanks for all the feed back!!

[axe31]

dominatra geting a girl wet just means iam doing
some thing right any good guy will be turned on
by you geting wet imy self love geting drenched
in love juices
be proud of being a beutiful sexual godess

[Lady Tango]

dominatra

From what you describe I would you say you reached orgasm and ejaculated as well. Don't be ashamed about your sexuality. Just let yourself go - it's happens to me on ocassions and it gets better each time. Deep penetration and hitting the g-spot does it for me - discuss it with your partner, mine tries harder each time and it feels great!!!!!!

[Prophet Reality]

My ex used to do the Kegel exercise while we were having sex. Damn now that is a sensation.

[Dominatra]

thanx lady and sixsense..... feel more confident now --- think I'll let it all out this weekend :D grrrrrr

[prickynew]

I can remember reaching down to touch a gf's knee while watching an xxx video and her knee was wet. God that made me hard. Still dream about that night. It was a 3 man one woman video that got her going.

[bucksman]

I have to say that this thread got me thinking as well. My lady gets very wet during sex and I find that very erotic and stimulating, both during oral sex and penetration. And yes, I have noticed that she can have a different temperature but have never thought if this was a monthly cycle thing or more due to her state of arousal.
A previous GF was a lot dryer and many sessions reulted in using the lube tube (funny how this is never in the place you left it lol).

[Ghostrider]

I agree with Aquaman, wetter is better and squirting is the ultimate. One time when I first started dating this girl, we were fooling around on the couch, I had to go to the bathroom so I threw on my jeans off the floor. When i got to the bathroom I thought what did I spill on my jeans? Then i realized I had put hers on by mistake. They were absolutely soaked in the crotch from our fooling around. I still get hard when I think about it. Wet panties are a huge turn on. Maybe someday some of the beautiful pixie posters will bless us with some wet panty shots, ummmmmmm.

[me_carl]

Squirting is one thing, but gushing is really an experience. Especially when you are not expecting it. I had a girl completely soak me. I really thought that she had released the old bladder on me. She was on top and it felt like she dumped a full glass of warm water on me. It came out faster than urine could. After the first time shock, it felt pretty good. There was never a doubt in my mind as to whether or not she was faking it. She would almost pass out from cumming so hard. I think the "size" thing to me is the level at which I feel my lover is being pleasured by me. Some girls try to cover up these feelings and some are "screamers", but I think that I get my real input right from the pussy. If it's hot and soaking wet and is bumping and grinding my cock like the is no tomorrow, then it's jussssssst right!

[Timer45]

My wife ejaculates pretty often, and I love it! The first time was quite a suprise though, now I can tell when she is getting close, and I pull her off my dick and get my face,chest, and neck soaked. Damn, I can't get enough of her nectar!

[sadora]

Thanks for all the input. I feel alot less self consious about my wetness, and orgasms. I bet alot of the other women that have read this thread do too.

[khaos04]

well girls...as a guy i can say for my own likes....the wetter the better...my wife can get VERY wet at times and it makes it that much better.....now if i can only get her to squirt...any hints for those that can do that....hehe

[Grumble]

I have to add another plus here sadora, it is a huge turn on for me to have a very wet sexual partner. It is a sure sign that she turned on and that makes me feel great too.

Letting your feelings and sexual responses flow is what its all about

[Mr.Man]

girls definately get hotter the more times u have sex .As for wetness theres often times girls get too wet n u slip out too easy when your power strokin all the way out. although this has its advantages as u can sometimes slip a little further south where its not so wet but a whole lot tighter.

[sadora]

Just had to share with all of you that I squirted for the first time tonight!! I think this thread actually helped me get over my too wet hang up. Not that it was a big hang up, but WOW!! I am so aahhh!! It took us both a little by surprise. We have been together for a long time now, and are very adventurous.
It was a completely different feeling!!! WHEW!! Turned us both on immensly!!

Thanks for all the feedback on this thread guys!!!

[Prophet Reality]

Congrats Sadora on your first ejaculation. And lets hope that that is not the last either.

[horseman12]

i love when a woman works her vaginal muscles, as wettness the wetter the better! thats why i shave,

[ausguy]

I have to agree. The wetter the better.

[Irish]

Mr Man---Q:What do you do for Fallout?
A:Put it back in and take shorter strokes! Irish

[TonyWriter]

As a man who looooooves pussy I have to express my feelings.

Wetness: The wetter the better and especially during oral sex. There is nothing more feminine to me than smooth slick pussy lips and the slicker the better.

Size: Visually (and I am a very visually oriented guy) I love to see a woman with a 'large' pussy. I can't express how much I love to bury my face into a large pussy and feel it against my cheeks.

How tight she is inside is not a problem. Like many women feel about a mans size inside her, I think the tightness of a woman around my cock is second to her passion and lack of inhibition.

Tony

[Hitchhiker]

Lets lower the tone here (no pun intended)

All of you have just answered they age old question why have women got legs?

Ever seen the mess a snail makes?????:p

[Lilith]

Hitchhiker~ If I was not laughing so hard you would probably be in trouble:D:D:p

[Lilith]

I'm always curious if besides moisture can men feel a difference in a pussy before it has orgasmed and after? I know for me the increased blood flow caused by an orgas or 84538953 before he enters me means I feel fuller when he does.

[Lord Snow]

I can feel a difference.She'll probably kill me for this, but Bama gets tighter after orgasm. It's one of the reason I love it when she gets off first. I also notice an increase in how wet she is afterwards. It's already been said, but I must say it again. The more wet she gets the more it means I'm doing something right, and that can be more of a turn on for me than a lot of other things.

[BamaKyttn]

shrug..... i don't care. as long as i get off.