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Lilith
04-04-2002, 04:32 PM
Ok...I am talking to my friend on the phone and she is having a fit..... She works for this really sexy guy, basically doing data entry type stuff. She was going through a folder she uses often and found a pic of him naked as a jay bird. Of course she became naturally curious and has since found his entire stash of self portraits, as well as those with his guests. So now she feels like she is in a sticky situation... I told her I would find out what you smart people would do....
Fess up to peeking?
~or~
Try to just keep on like you have not seen his luscious naked bod?
~or~
Get a new job?

I also suggested to her that maybe he intended for her to find it since he put it in a file she uses......

What do you guys think?

I probably should have poted this in the Advice Forum.....but since she forwarded the pic to me all I can think of is sexxx so forgive me....

vampeyes
04-04-2002, 04:47 PM
my thoughts - I would think that you are right he probably intended for her to find them since they were in a folder that she usually uses..... If she is attracted to him maybe she should mention that she found it in the folder casually. If she wants to keep the relationship strictly professional just act like she never seen anything (although if hes hot that might be hard lol). If it makes her very uncomfortable she may just have to find a new job.

Prophet Reality
04-04-2002, 09:04 PM
I am sure that he wanted her to find it, therefore letting her know that he is interested in her as well. Of course, he probably wants to to take pics of them if they got together too. I agree with Vampeyes, have her mention it subtly to him and see what happens.

Lilith
04-04-2002, 09:06 PM
OK now here's the thing.... she is married and he def knows it!

jay
04-04-2002, 09:07 PM
I agree he wanted her to find them she should send me...... imean him some nudie pics if shes interested in him... I mean me

Bilbo
04-05-2002, 06:45 AM
hold him to ransom

and threaten to post them on pixies .....LOL

Oldfart
04-05-2002, 07:15 AM
Is there any chance of a relationship between them or is this

just a subtle form of sexual harassment. I know she's married.


Is this a ploy by him to get into her pants or a real error?


Is Marsha really Jon's half-sister's aunt's secret brother's lost

daughter, or an innocent passer-by?


Any answers please?

Lovediva
04-05-2002, 08:37 AM
Lilith...can I see the pic?????? :D :D ;)Pleassssssssssssssseeeee!!!! LOL :D


If I were her, I would bring the folder to his attention and say "I think there is something in there that would interest you"...and walk out the office while he viewed the file! Then just let it go and try to forget it happend..maybe it was an honest mistake?!?

And if he is as sexy as you say...then tell her she has a mental photograph to masterbate to while at the office!!!! (there's Sarriah thread's again popping into my head. ..LOL) :D :D ;)

Lilith
04-05-2002, 09:25 AM
Ok update!
I just talked to her and she sid she pointed out to him that there may be something, in her file, of his. She said he just grinned...... moved the pic to another file and said,"If that embarassed you whatever you do don't look in here.." with a wicked grin and a wink! I told her he is bad and needs discipline(volunteering my services:p)! LMAO! My bosses were never sexy naked men! I guess some girls have all the luck!

Aqua
04-05-2002, 03:29 PM
Originally posted by Oldfart
Is Marsha really Jon's half-sister's aunt's secret brother's lost
daughter, or an innocent passer-by?
Any answers please?

Marsha was given up for adoption at an early age and was briefly placed in Jon's half-sister's Aunt's home as a foster child before her adoption by the former Mayor of Windsor, Colorado which was uneventful save for the dreaded clown incident, which no one will mention more of to this day. After the incident Marsha spent five years in an asylum and was finally released. On her way to the bus depot she witnessed Jon robbing a 7-11 and her memory flashed and memory of the clown incident came forward in her mind with full force bringing back lost childhood memories of her real Father... Rabbi Irving. In a blind rage she mis-took the 7-11 employee as her abandoning father and ran up to him as he chased Jon out of his store and began clubbing him with a tennis shoe. Lost Daughter... No. Innocent passer-by... No. Hope this clears some things up OF! :D

luv2please
04-05-2002, 06:06 PM
OK, I'm probably going to get bashed for this post but I have 35 women who work for me and I treat them with the same respect I would want my wife treated with when she is at work. Innocent flirting is one thing; that is going to happen. But if this guy knows she is married and left those pics for her to find, I think he is nothing but whale turd!:mad:
Sorry for the rant but this kind of stuff really bothers me and I consider it sexual harssment!! Think about how her husband would feel, and ladies, how would you feel if the tables were turned?

Lilith
04-05-2002, 06:19 PM
Ok now to add another chapter to this soap opera........ the boss........ is her husband's brother ......... (don't everyone booooo at once)...... so she is def stuck between a rock and his hard spot.

Oldfart
04-05-2002, 07:09 PM
Aquaman, thanks, now I can sleep at nights.

On the boss/brother thing, isn't there an old quote about

it always pays to advertise? Reads like all the decisions have

been left to her. Distasteful behaviour, but not forcing himself

on her. Just tacky.

Aqua
04-05-2002, 07:15 PM
Maybe her husband is asking his bro to test his wife's faithfulness...
(just one of many possible, diabolical scenario's.)

Lilith
04-05-2002, 07:20 PM
I too thought of that, Aqua.... but he is really hottttttttttt! The worse kind of temptation........lust +accessibility= danger.......

Oldfart
04-05-2002, 07:21 PM
You're getting downright Byzantine there, Aqua.

Not necessarily wrong, just diabolical.

MissX
04-07-2002, 03:06 PM
I reckon she should steer well clear, he's too confident of himself...he'll do the luring but would look after himself over anyone else, including your friend. Esp if it is his relationship with his brother at stake.

How about suggesting that your friend hands him over to Pixies for a weekend or so to help us get a real feel for the er situation she is in :)

sixsense
04-07-2002, 07:26 PM
This may seem to simple and obvious, but why not discuss it with her husband, even in the face of being the brother. Unless their trust is not as comfortable as it should be? In that case maybe they shouldn't be married. :(

As it stands it is sexual harrasement.

quisath
04-09-2002, 09:43 AM
I agree with Bilbo........................:)

Lilith
04-09-2002, 12:20 PM
She told her hubby and now there is some serious tension at both her house and her work..... I suggested she run away...of course taking the photos with her ;) for use at a later date.

MissX
04-11-2002, 05:23 PM
If she needs a safe house I have a great couch....of course taking the photos is a good idea, a very good idea.

Lilith
04-11-2002, 05:25 PM
MissX~she emailed me some for safe keeping ;):p;)... thinking of applying for her job next;)

Steph
05-05-2002, 03:16 PM
Any update? Has the tension diasappeared?

Lilith
05-05-2002, 03:48 PM
Yes actually.. things just sort of settled. She has remained in her position and nothing more has been said of the pics by anyone. Sometimes doing nothing at all appears to work...go figure!

legend
05-06-2002, 07:30 AM
Originally posted by Lilith
Sometimes doing nothing at all appears to work...go figure!

That's my theory on a lot of things... :D

Summer
06-17-2002, 10:24 PM
Ok ... I have never posted before and have decided that this is where I should start!

I am the friend in this story with the boss/brother-in-law. You might be curious to know that he is an identical twin (book ends) and they are both gorgeous and single! They do that whole body shaving thing and go commando ALL THE TIME! I haven't done anything and never would (since I am married to their brother).

Maybe ........ just maybe I will post one pic I found/was given.

-Summer

Lovediva
06-17-2002, 10:33 PM
Welcome to Pixies Summer!!! Nice to have you and your book ends aboard!!!! ;) :D

legend
06-17-2002, 10:41 PM
welcome Summer :)

big_yin
06-18-2002, 08:47 PM
Welcome to pixies, I`m sure Lilith has told u what an amazing place this is!

andrew
06-19-2002, 04:46 PM
Lilith

This is sexual harassment, and unlawful. This guy needs to realise that work is not the place for these things...putting nude pictures in a file - is he a bit dense? This could have scared the hell outta her, and it is pressurising - both ways. Anyway what is the difference between "naked" and "nude"?

And i think the girl's brother was actually her mother.

Andrew