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luv2please
03-18-2002, 08:11 PM
Playing off Divas seducer or seducee thread, in a role playing situation, which would you rather be: the submissive or dominant partner? In each situation, what activities would you enjoy? Be specific and spelling counts.;)
BamaKyttn
03-18-2002, 09:32 PM
well, with Souls I love to be dominated, theres just something about a man coming in and with complete assurance that you'll obey, ordering you to do something. anything from bring me the paddle to sit over there and dont move to SPREAD THEM.

but with my girlfriend I have discovered how wonderful it is to have a woman kneeling before me, eyes down head bowed bending to my every whim. a soft spoken "Yes Mistress" goes a long way to dampen the nethers.....

Always
Kyttn
MTBsweetie
03-18-2002, 11:17 PM
Definitely dominant. I am the woman in charge :) Some would say I like wearing the pants in my relationship, but I've found the best times are when neither of us wear pants at all...

Kate
ASH
03-19-2002, 01:57 AM
most of the time i enjoy being the sub. i can go from the simple commands to all-out erotic slave (looking for a dom right now, just thought i'd add that in). I love being able to give up control of my life every once in a while, even if it's just in that one area.
Lovediva
03-19-2002, 10:17 AM
I would have to say a little of both...:D

There are times when I just want him to be in total control...grabbing my head and him forcing his cock down my throat...love a forceful man...Mmmmm..

But then there are times when I just want to be the sexual Bitch that I am... and fuck him as hard as I can....;) And make him scream in joyful pain.....ohhh yeah.....

All depends on the mood....and today I feel like I want to be dominated...:D ;) :p
Kissy
03-19-2002, 02:54 PM
I would definately rather be submissive. I have tried to be dominating, but I spent too much time fantasizing about what I wanted to do and not actually doing it. I'm sure my husband would love for me to be more in control and initiate sex more often, but there is just something about fealing his strength when he's on top pinning me to the bed. And I Love to be spanked. Mmmm just talking about it turns me on, and sometimes that's all the foreplay we go for, he mentions what's on his mind and I'm ready to have sex right then...hey it's the thought that counts right! Besides I feel I have enough control in the rest of my relationship, I can't imagine being a bitch in the bedroom too!

Kissy

ps if spelling counts I'm screwed...:o
jay
03-19-2002, 04:45 PM
well I geuss I will be the first guy to post and say that I love it when she takes control but at the same time having her do what ever I tell her is great to I guess it depends on the mood
Lilith
03-19-2002, 04:53 PM
I wonder which I would be......LMAO :D........ but in all honesty just every once in a while it would be nice to be dominated;)...although I am not sure could pull off being submissive with out cracking up laughing:D
jay
03-19-2002, 04:56 PM
although I am not sure could pull off being submissive with out cracking up laughing. sounds like a challange
Lilith
03-19-2002, 05:03 PM
well Lover Boy........If you think you've got what it would take........LMAO (see I am laughing already):D
jay
03-19-2002, 08:42 PM
you think your the only one that can crack a whip?? wich way to the dead sea?
Wicked Wanda
03-20-2002, 01:16 PM
Like a lot of bisexual women, I am dominant with one sex, more passive, almost submissive with the other... now you have to guess which!

In mystery,

WW
Red Rose
03-20-2002, 01:48 PM
Although I am bisexual, I have never given much thought to the dom-sub thing either way. I am happy to do either, as long as I'm doin it

I just go with how the situation makes me feel....:p
luv2please
03-20-2002, 01:59 PM
OK Wanda, I'll bite...er I mean lick...whatever. I am guessing you are more sub with men and dom with women. Or maybe its the other way around. Am I right? Anyway, I started this thread because I, like Red Rose, like it either sub or dom, depending on what my partner and I feel like at the time. I think its just the idea of playing whatever role that gets me off.
kiwi15
03-21-2002, 12:12 PM
Definitely into both depending on how she feels too. I'm a Libran - guess that makes me want to give as good as I get.
Aqua
03-21-2002, 12:23 PM
ps if spelling counts I'm screwed...:o

You say that as if it's a bad thing Kissy! ;)
Lilith
03-21-2002, 01:17 PM
wht du yu meen?IF I spill bad tu, wil I get lade?:D Wishful thinking! LOL
Eros
03-21-2002, 02:04 PM
I'd have to say that I'm with most of the people here. Depending on the mood, it could go either way. Although having a woman jump me, strip me, and climb on top is always a turn on! ;)

Eros
pussykitten
03-21-2002, 04:00 PM
Hey Eros! I would jump you, strip you and climb on top, anytime you wanted it!!!! ;) ( and nibble, and lick, and suck etc, etc...)
Eros
03-21-2002, 04:07 PM
Hmmm...is that a promise Kitten? ;)

Eros
pussykitten
03-21-2002, 04:10 PM
You bet your sweet ass it is Eros!!!!!! ;)
Eros
03-21-2002, 04:17 PM
Don't know if I want to bet it, it's one of my most endearing features..lol. But you're welcome to play with it anytime you want. ;)

Lixx

Eros
pussykitten
03-21-2002, 04:24 PM
MMmmm, yummy sounds good to me Eros! ;)
sadora
03-21-2002, 07:30 PM
I am bi, and love to be dominated by men. With women, I prefer to top. I agree with kyttn, nothing like a woman on her knees before me!
BamaKyttn
03-22-2002, 12:10 AM
Sadora, glad to see you agree, gorgeous... although that does lead to a bit of a problem if I go on vacation to Fl this summer... oh hm.... nevermind I'll pm you w/that question.

Always
Kyttn
Prophet Reality
03-22-2002, 03:35 AM
Well I would have to say that I am a Dom, I prefer to have a woman at my feet. But at the same time, I want a partner that is my equal too, but is willing to be my slave when the mood is right,
Wicked Wanda
03-22-2002, 11:13 AM
*Uncontrolable giggling*

I am dominant with men, submissive with other women. I am enthralled by strong, self-assured women, who tell me what to do, and can make me want to do whatever they ask.
When I have a little daydream about being spanked, it is by another women.
Men do make good pets though...
They are SO eager to please!

Lovingly,

WW
luv2please
03-22-2002, 12:21 PM
OK Wanda, you can break out the leash, but I'll pass on the Alpo. Got anthing else for this poor old dog to eat?;)
Wicked Wanda
03-22-2002, 12:41 PM
Mmmmm I bet you would like what I want to serve, Aqua...

Wickedly

WW
bigwolf
03-22-2002, 02:12 PM
I can't see anybody enjoying being either dom or sub all the time. There is somthing to be said for not knowing whats going to happen in bed, or anywhere else. I would love to be dominated a little more. I guess I am the more dom one in my relationship now and it would be nice to have a woman throw me down and make me do wild things to her.

By the way screw spelling...
or screw the one your with.
vampeyes
03-26-2002, 01:44 AM
In response to the other ladies as far as bi-sexuality,,,, I actually prefer to be submissive to both sexes as long as the mood is right and the partner has a tendancy to be a dom/me. Although I have been in control a time or two.... I guess it all depends on the mood.