Sexual Indicator

[Lilith]

Is there something you use to judge what type of lover someone would be? Do you ever see someone and think, 'God I bet they are a freak in bed'...... or is there anything that you use to help you detect whether they are 'shaggable'?

Do you believe you can't tell until you are there? Or do you pick a movie based on how well you like the previews?;)

My criteria for deciding is usually based on their kiss. I am a sucker for a smoldering, fire starting, kiss. I use the way they kiss.... the tempo, sensuality, compatability, and just over all yumminess to decide how they may be at sex. Smoochable='Do-able':p

Tell me how you know..........

[rabbit]

Her choice of perfume and her body language. The combo of the two is usually my barometer as to how daring, how horny, how much a woman loves to have sex.

rabbit

[Saddaddy]

I watch how they Dance . hard & fast or slow & sensual . You can bet they are good in bed .

[Oldfart]

Just watch them, works whatever your orientation.

If the object of your scrutiny is self-obsessed, will probably

be the same in bed.

If they are outgoing and sharing, probably a good root.

Or so this book on ancient history (damn the dust) says.

[souls_cry2000]

There's something about the eyes. They can convey anything and everything in a single glance. I love to see that wild hungry look that comes after a coy flirtatious conversation. The chase is just as good as the catch itself. Sometimes you'll forget who is chasing who.

[BamaKyttn]

well, one thing that lets me know someone is a freak is if they reach down to OH SO crudely scratch themselves (we're talkin men or women here) and tehres the jingle of jewelry..... piercings.... I'm sorry I dont think I could live with one but it would be so cool to play with for a few weeks... kinda like a guy whos not circ.... I would get such a kick outta just playin withthe damned thing..... oh sorry wrong thread....

Kyttn

[Lovediva]

Or so this book on ancient history (damn the dust) says.

Ahhhh Poor thing....come here Oldfart..and let me BLOW the dust off for you........and we shall make new history... ;) :D



In my opinion...the Eyes and Smile say it all...

...and the butt in tight jeans helps alot too!!! Mmmmmm!!!:D

[Wicked Wanda]

This may sound a little girlish, but the first thing I notice about a man is how clean he is, hands, fingernails and the like. The next thing is how polite is he to strangers, like waiters and such. Then comes how he kisses. A well-groomed man who is polite to strangers, and kisses to make my knees weak, is going to be good lover, usually. A man who spends a lot of time looking in the mirror is not going to be very giving in bed, either.
With other women, I have been surprised too many times to have a firm set of rules. I do like clean and polite, but there have been exceptions. Also, shy, timid women, some of who have never been with another woman, have proven to be DEVASTATINGLY good lovers, while others who were more experienced, forceful, strong, and attractive, have been embarrasingly bad bedmates.
The most important thing I have learned is that looks, like being handsome or attractive or painfully thin in a magazine cover sort of way, means nothing! Very attractive people have been among the worse lovers I have ever had with BOTH sexes! It is almost like they have done their part just by showing up!

Wickedly,

WW

[sadora]

I ususally watch how they move. It hasn't failed yet!!

[MTBsweetie]

You can definitely tell a lot about a person from his eyes, but the thing that first attracts me to someone is his lips... Soft and full- yummy...

[mtavistar]

To me, it's all in how cuddly they are. When a man touches those around him casually, without thought, he is usually a good lover. Also gotta go with the cleanliness---I don't want to be in bed with someone and have to wonder when the last time they showered was.

[ASH]

i have to agree with saddaddy. the way someone dances is a big indicator. also, just a hug. it lets you know how good they are with their hands, and how shy someone is. there are several others i can't think of or that have already been mentioned, but one that's certainly not an indicator is looks. been disappointed with many performences of the very attractive type.

[kiwi15]

I'm with you, Ash. I've been disappointed with the very attractive types. In my own experience, the best lovers are on the buxom side and comfortable with it.

For me, there's something in a woman's aura that says it all. If we're in tune I just know it. If we aint, I give sex a wide berth - it's just not enjoyable.

[MissX]

Mmm it's the eyes that do it for me, if they have a spark of fun in them, then count me in...

[Eros]

Eyes and body language say alot. Although I'm with WW in one way. From my experiences, shy women seem to be the most uninhibited in bed. I used to think that the outgoing, flirty types would be hell in bed, but the shy ones, in my findings, are the screamers, back/chest scratchers, willing to do anything in bed.

Eros

[BamaKyttn]

Eros, dunno babe when I was younger (yeah yeah yeah I'm not very old whatever...) I was very shy and very timid in bed, now I like to see just how far my partner will let me go before they stop me....
Check your prostate? (marla singer in Fight Club)

Always
Kyttn

[Prophet Reality]

The eyes can tell me a lot. After all they are the gateway to the soul. And a woman's neck, something about her neck can just make me snap. I like cleaniness as well, and woman who shave their legs. Don't like my stubble much less anyone else's.:D

[bigwolf]

I guess the eyes are the very first thing that attracts me to a woman. But once you get close and I can catch a whiff of her scent, that can close the deal. I can close my eyes and just smell her, you can almost see what she is going to be like. About 90% accurate so far.

[vampeyes]

I am definitely on the dance bandwagon.... If you can thrill me on the dance floor odds are you can thrill me in bed.

[skipthisone]

Good one...I agree with lots of these especially the dance thing, Lilith's answer is good too, in the kiss, but that is already across a line I am thinking a before any touching type of indicator

[BlondeCurlGirl]

I never had the opportunity to sleep with the guy...but I guess I'll post this anyway...

The star goalie on the UW's hockey team was uncharacteristically sexy...great hair (not the stereotypical unkempt hockey hair), sexy goatee, etc...I've watched many other hockey games before, but the way he'd do his stretching was such a turn on for me...something about the way he could do the splits and contort himself into all these other puck-stopping postitions still makes me think to this day how great he could probably be in bed for trying out a multitude of amazing positions. :fly: I made it to every home game the entire 4 years he played for us, a lot of times just to watch that ;)

[axe31]

ok at a pixies party i would be in trouble i dont dance
but i think them looking in your eyes paying atenshon
to you and you are only as good in bed as your partner
so if they are a good listener the will be a good lover

[sugar & spice]

For me it's the mans hands. Large strong hands, long slinder fingers. Good to dream of what those hands can do.

[celticangel]

bright eyes, genuine smile , a strong hug~~~~~~~and a big motorbike(and looks good in leathers!)

[quisath]

Since I didn't answer this Post when it was first Posted I will now. ..................For Me................It's in the Eyes, the Smile, the Warmth and Finally............THE KISS. Nothing makes my heart pound harder than a Hot Smoldering Kiss.

[denny]

There must be some reason that ladies like BAD BOYS, don't you think?

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

Oh Lilith reading this thread has given me butterflies in my tummy! ;)

I wrote a really long reply to this, but have deleted it for fear of making someone else I know as nervous as me when he reads it.

I'll reply to this next week, I think. :D

[Nuelaan]

Dancing is a good way for me to tell, but it pales to the way she treats others. One thing that has been my observation, if a girl acts like she will be a freak in public, don't count on it. It's the 'quiet' ones that get you every time.

[Lilith]

Nuelaan~ You have a great point!!! I would never be at all attracted to someone who was rude to say, the waitress or bartender. They could send out all the other great vibes, even dance yummy, but rudeness and acting superior is an indicator as well.........a flashing red light!!!!

[LixyChick]

I agree with skip........A "before the deed" indicator is to see him dance. I used to date a drummer who sucked right out loud at dancing and I still can't explain that to this day! It's the beat of the drum that holds the magic in a dance! I feel the drums in my soul when I dance! How can a drummer not be able to dance? And he was an amazing drummer regardless of the fact that he was deaf in his left ear (the result of a childhood target practicing accident). So when I see a man who can dance........I have this urge......this overpowering urge........to cut right in and move with his moves. Soooooooooooooooo sensual! I have gotten into a few tight situations when I did succumb to my urge to cut in. The girlfriend (or dance partner) usually never likes it! LMAO! But I can tell...............Damn, he'll be good in bed!!!!!!!

I also love to watch movie kisses...........screen close-ups of actors kissing. The two that stick out in my mind the most are......Tom Cruise in "Top Gun".....and (this isn't really a movie but a Christmas video)......Jon Bon Jovi kissing Cindy Crawford in.......oh shit!....I forgot the name of the song.......damn......but you'll know it when you see it! LMAO!

Anyway.............a kiss is just a kiss...........unless you know how to romance with a kiss. That's the secret!