Does size matter?

[dedoo]

Heya's all,

Im kinda new here so i dont know if this subject has been discussed yet, i could'nt find the time to read all the 12 bazillion interesting posts yet

So i have a question for all you girls and maybe gay men arround here.

Does cocksize matter?

And if so should it be thick and long or just thick... or ...or ...or.

I personally didnt get any complaints (yet lol) but i wanna hear the truth about it cuz i alway's hear different kinds of stories.

or is it just a personal thing?

*hugs*

[Fang]

Of course size matters! It just matters to varying degrees. Anyone who says that size doesn't matter is painting a pretty picture that doesn't really exist.

To guys breast size matters. However we can fully enjoy small, medium, or large breasts. We all fantasize about BIG ONES though.

To women, cock size matters. However if she cares about the guy, he's very talented, or he makes up for it in other ways she can fully enjoy sex with average to less than average sized dick. I can say with some assuredness however that I believe most women would love to have a man with a thick, nice sized wang.

Ladies, correct me if I am wrong.

[Lilith]

Size matters... If you are not a caring, recepetive or skilled lover than the least you can do is carry a big stick ;)<jk> This is like one of those apples and oranges things. Women do not all have parts that are shaped exactly the same and so we need a variety of male sizes and shapes. We have to try them all on until we find one that fits just right, that is why he is called " Mr. Right".*hee hee* Why do think women love to shop for shoes so much? All that trying on reminds us of sex!~~~~~~~~~~~>Lilith

[ROCKHARD]

Speak softly and carry a big stick!

May not matter to some but matters to a hell of alot to others.

[Sharni]

Not to me it doesnt.....and i'm not just saying this to paint a "pretty picture" :)

[RedNLaycee]

Size doesn't matter...for what you lack in size there or here, you make up another way...just seems to work that way sometimes...

[Wicked Wanda]

OK,first, I am 4'11", 101#, and ALL men are large enough for me!
When I first see a man's penis, it IS a turn on if he is larger than average. Sex with a well- endowed man is fun... especially the thicker ones, IF he knows how to use it!
I can feel as much pleasure during intercourse from smaller men as I do with men who were so large I couldn't get more than part of the head in my mouth (I tried!!!) IF he is a talented lover.
A talented lover is talented 'cause he has imagination, passion and thoughtfulness, NOT because he has a 7 inch monster!
Where size REALLY DOES matter to me is when I want to try to deep throat him, or if I am treating myself to anal sex. Slim is better! There are men who I WILL NOT try to take anally, because of pain,and risk of being hurt.

Now that I have said all that, I prefer a man with a thick penis during "regular" sex, drives me wild if he uses it well!


Wickedly,

WW

[Suzy Wong]

pfffftt here i go posting again..this might become a habit.

YES size matters (for me), BUT not only in one way. I mean, I had a guy with a 4 inch member and really it did nothing for me, however i had a boyfriend with 11 inches (no lie) and it absolutely ruined our relationship. We had 4 years of bad sex because he was simply too big for me and it got to a point where I didn't even want to f*ck him anymore, not because I didn't love him, but because it hurt.

So yes, size matters....

and girth is better that length...

and your woman would appreciate it if you shave your balls (trust me)..

Hopes that answers some questions : P
-Suzy

[dedoo]

and your woman would appreciate it if you shave your balls (trust me)..

hehe new question for me then though...
i never had a girl asking me to shave my balls.
So pwease tell me why.

*stamps his feet...waaaa i wanna know :p

[Lovediva]

Size don't matter to me...see my post # 365... I think...LOL... ;)

I look at the man as a whole package..if he lacks down below..he will make up for it with his tongue, fingers....and whatever else he choses...
If you go through life looking for a 10 inch dick. You might be disappointed in the end...
I'd be happier with a 5 inch and get it twice a night!! :D :D :)

As for shaving balls....saves a trip to the dentist for a hair cut!! :D :D

[Suzy Wong]

Why shave your balls?

Because when pleasuring your mate orally, having a mouth full of broken off pubic hair really takes away from the mood.

-Suzy

[Aqua]

Originally posted by Suzy Wong

So yes, size matters....

and girth is better that length...

and your woman would appreciate it if you shave your balls (trust me)..

-Suzy

Suzy, from my experience you are correct on all three accounts!
(Glad to see you post again... ;) )

[Sweet Chastity]

Originally posted by Suzy Wong
I had a guy with a 4 inch member and really it did nothing for me

Well Suzy Wong I think I got you beat my ex had a 3 inch penis (he was quite tall too). Now I never made him feel inferior because that is what God gave him and who am I to question God?

He was pretty good with his hands and mouth (though he drifted to my anus just a little too much) and he even used a vibrator on me which I thought was quite cool (it's not the size thing but the arousal of a man using a toy on me).

I think that when we say size matters we don't mean 12 inch long 4 inches wide, I think that size has been seriously blown out of context. With only 3 inches I could not get any doggy style sex (a favorite position of mine) and I had to tilt my pelvis so much to keep him inside that it hurt my back after a while. Plus I don't know about other women but enough air inside (pussy farts) and it actually hurts. And I couldn't really feel the sex anyway so it sucked (speaking of which deepthroating was a piece of cake).

Now he was seeing a sex councellor cuz he just had too many issues and played too many head games so that killed the relationship but if I loved a guy it would be different. I would work with him to see we are both satisfied and happy.

Sweet Chastity

[cookiepie]

yes size does matter..... but how U treat somebody is more important i think..... if U have size girth and someone who treats U well ... then U have the perfect man ... keep him ..... but men arent perfect so think of how they treat U then everything else will fall into place ... <just this humble subbies opinion>

[1wildpussycat]

i say size DOES matter......at least for me it does!!!

[Reverend Silky]

easy on the generalizing assumptions there, Fang. i actually DON'T fantasize about big titties. personally, i couldn't care less about the size of titties. the fact that they ARE titties is enough for me.

additionally, it's possible to have a 'great cock' without bein cartoon-like huge. there's more factors to, uh, factor in. how pronounced the head is, the degree of the curve (if present), the angle of radius... yadda blah, alotta bullshit. like most everybody's said, the most perfect knob nature can produce won't do you an ounce of fuckin good if you can't use it for anything besides clumsily stabbin away with it.

it doesn't help that for some reason, people have gotten it into their heads that big must mean 8 inches or more. especially when you consider the average is around 5 1/2-6 inches now, i think. inflation's a bitch on the ego, huh?

simply said, i'm not a big guy. a mule with elephantiasis of the genitals, i ain't. however, i know how to get the best outta what i got for both our benefits. and that's what it's all about. don't stress over what you don't have... just make do with whatcha got. and if anybody asks more than that of you, fuck em. it's a hassle you can do without. it's just sex, after all.