now what to i do

[bigbob40]

what do i do now? my wife just left me. i'm heart broken, devastated and emotions i don't have words for. 13 years of marriage over. any advice would be appreciated.
brokenhearted bigbob40:( :( :(

[TDK]

oh, soo sorry to hear that bigbob40

[m45]

WOW, just walked?...
By your sound it is not a good thing..;-(
Wish I had advice.. When my first walked it was a good thing....;-)
If my second was to walk now I'd go nucking futs..

Just go day by day. Stay Calm.

[scotzoidman]

I have no advice, Bob, except to say sorry to hear it. Hang in there, bro, I can't tell you what to do or how it'll come out, but it will get better eventually....

[Oldfart]

Do nothing.

Live normally (even though you feel like shit) for at least a week.

Let consequence and ramification settle before you start doing

anything.

It won't do anything except stop you from making mistakes in

haste.

Find out if she's just got the shits or if she's really gone.

Remember, there is a tomorrow, next week and next year.

[bigbob40]

thanks for your support,
things are better today, wife came back and we are trying to work things out. Its nice to a have a place to vent and ask questions of others who have insight on things such as this. thanks again.
bigbob40

[Irish]

bigbob40---Don't blow your cool!(get excited)I couldn't count the
# of times that my wife and I have argued about something.I
have walked out many times myself.I found that by walking out
that I don't say a bunch of things that I don't really mean!I have
a horrible temper!I;just;wish that I had enough sense to walk
out,when I was younger.Luckily;my wife;knows my temper and
took what I said with a grain of salt;knowing that;I didn't mean
things.Don't give up until the final result is in.I know thats easy to say but I speak from experience.I have always done manual-type
labor and my wife always did white-collar work. Irish
PS.Also; there is no physical abuse involved!

[scotzoidman]

Glad to hear she's back & y'all are working it out... I've been married twice as long as you, and I lost count of the times she kicked me out or left, & each time I was like you, sure that it's over & how can I go on, etc. Good luck & hope it works out!

[Bilbo]

Glad to here your wife is back BB40, and pray for all to turn out for the better

[nutworld]

BigBob40,

So glad to hear that your wife came back..I can't even imagine the devistation of having my wife leave me, even for a short time.

I hope that you get things sorted out. I do wish you the best.

[souls_cry2000]

BigBob: How are things going for you now, bud?

[Grumble]

I am so glad for you BBob. Talk with her, go to counselling and get all the problems out in the open so you both can deal with them.

You will then have a chance cos if you dont know its broken, it can't be fixed

Best of luck to you both

[Sarriah]

I was sorry to come back in town and see that you were having troubles but as I read on I see she came back to you. I hope everything works out for you two and hope all is well :D