So, yeah, that absence thing

[gekkogecko]

Been way too fucking busy the past several months. Couple of part-time jobs, getting sick, planning & helping to run events when I haven't been sick myself. Every one of my SOs has physical problems that just wont' quit. The mammal married was in & out of the ER way too much lately. And she finally got the call today for the doc to schedule her surgery-so, now they have to coordinate with the hospital, she goes in either the 8th or the 22nd.

2015 continues to suck and is so fired, but refuses to clear out of the time-space continuum.

[jseal]

gekkogecko,

While I’m sorry to learn of the many life complexities bedeviling your 2015, I’m pleased to see this new post of yours.

I hope your open issues resolve promptly and as you’d like them.

[Lilith]

Hope things improve quickly!

[Teddy Bear]

So sorry to hear 2015 hasn't been very good to this point. Hope things turn around and only get better from here on.

Sending you all good thoughts with happiness and health!!!

[dicksbro]

We'll certainly be keeping up with good wishes and prayers for ya'. Hope everything settles down soon and life will take a turn for the better! :wish:

[Oldfart]

2015 is almost over. Better luck for 2016.

[gekkogecko]

'bout a half hour until my spousal unit heads off to the hospital. They black Pixies from there, so I'll have to wait until we're back home to let peeps know what's what.

They'd freaking better be able to get material to biopsy, or there's going to be one pissed bear, and one pissed lizard to deal with.

[PantyFanatic]

Hoping all goes well. :wish:

[gekkogecko]

Well, the surgery was delayed by two hours, but finally went off. Doc said the tissue looked healthy at first glance. There's still a chance that the biopsy could contradict initial findings, but unlikely. I didn't get nearly enough sleep of late, but I'm giong to go into work today, maybe I can sleep on the job.

[dicksbro]

Take care of yourself. You need to be in good shape when the surgery is over and she gets to come home. No doubt she'll need a lot of help.

[Teddy Bear]

What ^^ he ^^ said. ^^^^^^

[gekkogecko]

She's already home, it was outpatient surgery. She said Wednesday night she was improving faster than she was expecting to, so I did in fact, get into work yesterday, and never got a "get your ass back home now, I need help" note.

[jseal]

So far, so good!

[Teddy Bear]

She's already home, it was outpatient surgery. She said Wednesday night she was improving faster than she was expecting to, so I did in fact, get into work yesterday, and never got a "get your ass back home now, I need help" note.

Yeahhhh!! That's great! Hope she continues healing and feels better everyday.

[Oldfart]

That's one rock off your back. I hope the rest roll off soon.

[gekkogecko]

Yeah, but only for the moment. My girlfriend still can't get her team of doctors to coordinate for the surgery she's been needing, literally for years now.

[PantyFanatic]

Take one battle at a time. When this is completely in the book, lay plans for the next.
Glad this one looks like a winner.:line:

[gekkogecko]

Oh, but the once-and-future's girlfriend's problems started before the mammal I married's problems. They've just continues for all of that time.

Haven't been able to get hold of her lately about it, either.Last I head, there was a partial solution, but she needs a complete one.

[dicksbro]

We'll keep our fingers crossed and good wishes coming until you let us know that everything's in good shape. Glad the surgery went good. Hadn't realized it was out-patient, but, the good wishes never hurt in any case.

[gekkogecko]

Fan-fucking-tastic, my girlfriend C (not the once-and-future-girlfriend, whom I was speaking about earlier) nearly ended up in the ER last night. Only reason she didn't is she couldn't get hold of the neighbors for transport-and I tired to send her cab mney by PayPal, but she apparently doesn't have a PayPal account.

Polyamory is great, except when all your SOs end upin the hospital, or should be there at the same time.

And no, I really didn't get any sleep last night, why do you ask?

[gekkogecko]

The mammal I married got her biopsy results back from the lab yesterday: benign.

But I talked to the once-and-future girlfriend again last night. A lot f the problem is that what she needs is, it turns out, a highly specialized form of surgery, so getting a team of three doctors, who are competent in this specialization, and work at the same facility, and can coordinate their schedules is seemingly insurmountable.

[Oldfart]

Now that's a herd of raw mooses.

[gekkogecko]

A lot f the problem is that what she needs is, it turns out, a highly specialized form of surgery, so getting a team of three doctors, who are competent in this specialization, and work at the same facility, and can coordinate their schedules is seemingly insurmountable.

And another call Friday from her: nearly ended up in the ER for a transfusion; don't know what made the go/no go decision, but I'm kinda glad she didn't, this is not something she will willingly submit to.