Is there a fantasy...

[WildIrish]

that you haven't even told your s/o about?

[AZRedHot]

Yes. And I'm sure there are some he hasn't told me. People have a right to privacy within their own heads, I think.

[WildIrish]

I hear ya. That makes sense in it's own way.

I share a lot with Mrs. WI but there's a few scenarios that I haven't divulged. Not because I'm shy, but more because I don't think she'd find them sexy.

[AZRedHot]

Yeah...the hubby knows I have a cherished strap-on fantasy, but I spare him the details because he's not into that. And he spares me his bukkake fantasies, because eww. :)

[WildIrish]

I never really got the whole bukkake thing. That's way more than I can lick clean. ha ha

[ShadowDancer]

yes...but mainly because I'm not entirely comfortable even acknowledging it myself....

[dm383]

Yes.

Next question? ;)

DM

[WildIrish]

Ok...as a follow up...is there something that you think, realistically, that your s/o might be harboring that you aren't sure you would feel comfortable doing?

I often think of myself as an individual that is open to pretty much anything, but I'm sure I have my limitations. Knowing Mrs. WI, I'm positive that I would be ok with any scenario she could possibly come up with. Conversely, I'm positive I could come up with a few scenarios that would have her running from the room. ha ha

[AZRedHot]

I think there are some fantasies of his that would have to stay fantasies for health and safety reasons, so I wouldn't be comfortable doing them. For example, that bareback consensual gangbang with strangers we just met. Not because I don't like the idea, but that's pretty risky behavior that neither of us would be willing to engage in real life, however fun it might be to talk about. Between just the two of us? I suspect we've played most of those out by now.

[WildIrish]

Between just the two of us? I suspect we've played most of those out by now.


I'd venture to say you've played out most of mine too. :p

[AZRedHot]

I'd venture to say you've played out most of mine too. :p

Time to think up some new ones, then. ;)

[WildIrish]

I have to develop new fantasies just because you've acted them out?

I'll run that past Mrs. WI and let you know how that works out. lmao

[AZRedHot]

Like you're not constantly making up new fantasies anyway?

[WildIrish]

Actually, I have a steadfast few. Maybe I'm not overly creative.


I mean, really, there's only so many things you can do with a sheep. :p

[ShadowDancer]

Ok...as a follow up...is there something that you think, realistically, that your s/o might be harboring that you aren't sure you would feel comfortable doing?



somewhat, yes...there is something I know he'd like more often...I've dabbled with it on a small scale...but I'm not sure WHY I'm not more comfortable with it on a regular basis. *shrug* 13 yrs together (11 married) and I'm still shy about some stuff.

[WildIrish]

That's human nature. Not knowing, and not necessarily needing to know, specifics, I imagine you're going against years of it being told or implied that some behavior is unladylike, dirty or just plain wrong. Mrs. WI stubbornly resisted so many wonderful things that she just now is acknowledging are not horrible.


Like meatloaf, pancakes, anal stimulation, unsweetened iced tea, and brussel sprouts.

[AZRedHot]

Like meatloaf, pancakes, anal stimulation, unsweetened iced tea, and brussel sprouts.

No, brussel sprouts ARE horrible. I won't even let Mr. AZRH cook them when I'm home. They make me want to ralph.

[dm383]

No, brussel sprouts ARE horrible. I won't even let Mr. AZRH cook them when I'm home. They make me want to ralph.

I fear I must disagree, sweetie.

I love them; in fact, I had them with dinner this evening ~ proper, home-cooked steak mince (with gravy salt as a special treat!) mashed potatoes, sprouts, broccoli and cauliflower. Yum yum! :D

DM

(The down side is it may get a little breezy in these parts later. Which may explain why Mrs DM has gone out!)

[WildIrish]

I toss them in olive oil, salt & pepper, then oven roast them. Delish!

[dicksbro]

I toss them in olive oil, salt & pepper, then oven roast them. Delish!
That does sound good, and I'm not a big fan of sprouts. :)

Anyway, yeah, I every now and then fantasize about doing something but usually don't mention it if I believe it would not appeal to my SO. She, on the other had, doesn't appear to fantasize that often so I don't think she holds back as much as she doesn't generlly have fantasies to share. I do wish she did and would. :shrug: Oh well, I love her more than all the world anyway.

[WildIrish]

Oh well, I love her more than all the world anyway.


Finding someone that feels that way about you is a fantasy most people have.