Monogamish

[Lilith]

http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2011/09/15/would-you-ever-swing/

I totally get this.

[Lord Snow]

Interesting. I'm think I'm the comfort creature type going by that article.

[AZRedHot]

BTDT...swinging was more like a junior high dance than I ever would've wanted to imagine. Lots of talk, not as much action. Lots of nervous wallflowers, of which I was sometimes one. It was a lot more fun in fantasy than it ended up being (with a few exceptions) in reality for both of us, in part because it ended up being more fun for me than for him; neither of us expected that going into it. It was an interesting few months, and I'll never regret doing it. We both learned a lot, about ourselves individually and as a couple. But I've sown those particular wild oats now, and random sex with strangers doesn't hold the appeal it once did. Friendly sex with people I know and can trust? Sure. Polyamory still appeals, if only theoretically at this point in my life.

[gekkogecko]

Dude doesnt even mention the concept of polyamory. *NOT* the same as swinging. Dude should get his head out of his butt.

[Lilith]

He's not talking about love. He's talking about sex.

[rabbit]

http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2011/09/15/would-you-ever-swing/

I totally get this.

Yep, me too. Thanks for sharing!

[PantyFanatic]

A good summery of many thoughts and prospectives we've made right here. ;)

[jseal]

Marianne Gingrich: "He was asking to have an open marriage. (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16657620)"

[AZRedHot]

Marianne Gingrich: "He was asking to have an open marriage. (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16657620)"

I think anyone has the right to ask; but it's a partner's prerogative to say absolutely not, and both parties can make their decisions from there, which it seems happened with the Gingriches. A bummer for Marianne, but probably better to know she was married to a cheater than not know. Seems to me, Newt has a history of opening his marriage without giving his current spouse a say. That's some egregiously bad behavior right there.

I like how it's the open marriage request that is going to scandalize everyone, not the serial dishonesty and the hypocrisy. Sigh.

[gekkogecko]

I like how it's the open marriage request that is going to scandalize everyone, not the serial dishonesty and the hypocrisy. Sigh.

Yeah, like asking after banging his aide for how many months before letting his wife know about it? Dude just can't get it right.

[BamaKyttn]

Marl and I started a swingers site for people in our area. We even played a little ourselves. I admit theres a huge ego boost involved in knowing on any given weekend or most week nights theres 3-6 people who know me and are still willing to have sex with me. some have even seen me naked in a hot tub. Starting with my relationship with LS I realized that I didn't want to cheat anymore but I'm still a social slut. I love getting attention and getting others worked up but really only want sex with my man. Sure I'll handle tits if they're there but shit how often do size G or H tits present themselves? (for reference LS mine are only C.... these were bigger than my head, wore the bra like a stretched out beret)

I love the attention but I love getting the call the next day " I can't walk, he was so worked up.... etc"

it's relationship viagra. Marl knows at the end of the night we're going home together.


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[Rhiannon]

Bama i feel same way. I mean i don't mind if he looks at the menu. but in the end i know he is coming home with me to work it off. If he didn't look i would be more concerned. I always say i will be looking till they close the coffin Shut.

Btw just for conversation i am an F cup. Lol

[BamaKyttn]

The self satisfied look on Marls face is great when I give a guy a blowjob and he just melts. Unfortunately hes very accustomed to my style and at least according to him the others just don't do it right. I'll admit that watching him bang someone else in the hot tub was not the high point of my night but the sex we had later reminded me that while he may have had sex with her it was nothing like what we have.

Sometimes I'm not in the mood to share myself or him. We have to communicate and I think this lifestyle encourages open communication otherwise it all falls apart. There are some things that you will enjoy more.if you learn about yourselves earlier.


Kyttn on the droid at work please excuse oddities in my typing.