want to share my wife ...

[fmg]

I am 30, my wife is 28, blonde, slim and beautiful. We have been together for 10 years (3 years married) and are blissfully happy. So why do I want to see another guy fuck her so badly)?

We've flirted about it before but only when drunk and horny. Every time we have mentioned it she has gotten super horny and we've fucked like crazy. She also knows that I've fantasised about it online before.

I have tried to let it slide but it occupies almost 100% of my sexual thoughts.

Should we try it? If so, how do we go about it?

Would love to hear your thoughts!

[Lilith]

Takes special people and a special relationship to be able to seperate sex and something more than sex. If you have control issues or jealousy issues of any kind I'd advise it remain a fantasy. If not, I'd advise a whole lot more discussion before any attempt at reality.

I'm still in the discussion stage in my relationship. Not quite ready for prime time yet ;)

[PantyFanatic]

(she's ^^^ ready ;) )


and she knows what she's talking about on all points........... listen to her. :cool:

[gekkogecko]

Yes, but does your wife really want to share herself? I mean, is this some thign she's actually interested in the reality of, or is it only a fantasy that she uses to add excitement to your mutual sex life?

IOW, what really is her point of view?

[zuperduper]

Hi fmg,

I know exactly where you're coming from :-) I've wanted to see my wife with another man for years. There are a whole lot of things that turn me on about it, but mainly it's just that she's got a real innocence about her and seeing her horny is just an incredible turn on for me. Seeing her actually orgasm with another man would be mind blowing.

She occasionally fantasizes about other men to indulge me and we have little games where she flirts with a guy and turns me on. But she has absolutely zero interest in doing it for real so I've had to accept that it's never going to happen.

Good luck with whichever way you decide to go .... personally it sounds to me like you've got things pretty good and doing anything that might screw it up could be something you'd regret forever, so be cautious!

Cheers,

S.

[citrus]

Methinx that if you go forward in your fantasy you ought first to determine a fail point for its demise, or a safe point for a possible return attempt, in case of cold feet.
And remember to have a 'safe' word.

Really important is who chooses the 3rd member. If you're adding a male you and her must be in it together. I suggest he (3rd) needs be willing to touch a male and be touched by another male. That doesn't mean it WILL occur, nor that you are willing (you might be unwilling, but, he doesn't have to know it). It's a safety net, for you to be in the bed and at the ready for the emotional security of your wife - yours too.
Another point to ponder is the familiarity of Mr.3rd. I recommend a friend not so close to you but familiar to you both and horny enough to diddle your bride and know that it's a single instance. A one way ticket. Health of skin with no herpes and other shit is kind of big.

Being loaded and the guards lowered is one thing in being so willing to experiment.
Being fully prepared and eyes wide open going in with the knowledge that your heart will develop a new facet for your aspects in love is entirely unchartable territory. You need to be aware that you may end up with a white elephant in your living space. Getting rid of it could prove problematic. For each time you try to move it a bear pops out and takes a bite out of your ass, or marriage!

Be tight, strong as tightest friends first.

So, it's like the song says, "Will you still love me tomorrow?"

If you're going to add in a female, then let your wife do the choosing. You need only be there in the bedroom watching, enjoying and pleasuring your wife and/or the mistress upon request.





:coffee: I could be that Mr.3rd. :brows:

[rabbit]

(she's ^^^ ready ;) )


Yup, been ready.

;)