Sex and aging...

[Jax]

I've noticed as I've gotten older that in addition to the decrease in frequency of sex in my marriage, that I am losing interest in good old fashioned intercourse. Most notably missionary and to some extent even my favorite doggy style!. I'm finding that I prefer other forms of fooling around more (introducing toys, or giving/rec'v oral sex more, or general joint masturbation etc).

What about the rest of you? Finding similar experience or..?

[Lilith]

I'm not aging :D

[Airy]

Well at 34 my guess is that it's not an age thing (I hope not anyway...if it really is all down hill from here I'm in trouble!) but I go thru stages where I am not as interested in missionary...I want the more adventurous or even the toys and so forth.

It's very much a mood thing (gee I am sure many of you are going...moody woman?? Shocking!) but it's true. I am very moody about my sex. I have moods where I am wanting toys, or stories, or missionary...it just varies.

So in short (I know too late) I don't think it is an age thing!

[osuche]

I am 31 and right now the only age related difference I can tell is that I want it ALL the time. I feel like a teenaged boy!

For those who aren't in their 30's yet...beware....the libido starts to control your life. :)

[Airy]

I am 31 and right now the only age related difference I can tell is that I want it ALL the time. I feel like a teenaged boy!

For those who aren't in their 30's yet...beware....the libido starts to control your life. :)


Good to k now I am not the only one who felt that way!

[WildIrish]

I don't look at it as aging, but evolving. I'm much more comfortable with myself now, and with expressing what & when I want to try or do. I think that as a result, it may come across as "not interested in regular sex & requiring new & exciting things to maintain a spark", but is really just finally being secure enough to try some things that have been considered all along.

[citrus]

I keep forgetting what goes first? Oh well. Just in case I didn't a moment ago, stroke it some more. :sperm:

[Oldfart]

Jax,

That's not ageing, just laziness like the rest of us.

[Pita]

My Sweetie is 23 years older than me and neither of us are spring chickens anymore. While we still adore plain ole intercourse and other sexual activities. We also adore what we call mind-play. We love toys, BDSM play, and delayed gratification. As long as we are together, it's all good. :thumbs:

[dicksbro]

^^^^^ :thumbs:

[seriousfun]

I am 31 and right now the only age related difference I can tell is that I want it ALL the time. I feel like a teenaged boy!

I'm 52, and feel like a teenaged boy! Fortunately, I can usually find a willing partner to indulge me (and her :) ). When I was your age, i was married, and not satisfied.

Everybody changes in different ways as they age, and men and women change in different ways, but you are at your peak. Enjoy it.

[rtctfield]

After a baby almost three years ago (we'd been together, dating and all, 19 years before we had a baby), sex for my wife and me looks totally different than it used to. I'm sure we're not alone in that area.

While the frequency is nowhere near what it was, the quality is the best it has ever been. While we never really communicated about sex before, we now subtly let each other know what we want.

For instance, I would have guessed that she would have thought it awfully immature, but I just learned that my wife's favorite way to climax is for me to slowly stimulate her with one hand while her breasts are being kissed. And here I thought I had to be a world class acrobat to get the job done!

We both agree that we should have been more open ages ago, but we're sure enjoying ourselves now!