Hubby not in mood for sex

[Pussy Willow]

Hey everyone,

He says it isn't me. He says that with 2 teenagers at home that it's hard to find time alone together. I can understand that but he isn't willing to try to find time alone together, he's just accepting that it doesn't exist.

I just want him. I asked him how do the boys think they got here -- immaculate conception? He is not amused.

I'm so frustrated. I just purchased some sexy lingerie and I'm having it delivered this week. I'm hoping that a little
Father's Day surprise with help with rekindling the flame.

Any suggestions from my Pixies "family" would be greatly
appreciated. He doesn't get that I just want him. I don't care who sees or who knows and shouldn't our boys know that we're in love enough to express it, it's not like I want to "do it" in front of them. But he's got too many damn conditions as to when we can "do it". aaaaggggghhhhh!!!!

It's soooo frustrating.

[Lilith]

If this is a recent change it could be a sign of an underlying health problem. I'd suggest a trip to the Dr.

There are ways to get around the kids issue. Book a hotel, go on a long drive, play the "quiet game" and do it on the floor if your bed squeaks.

I think the bigger problem is his not minding if it doesn't happen. What does he do if you start without him?

[quisath]

If it's a testosterone problem then I'd say "Yes" see a professional. Otherwise slip him a Blue Magic and be ready. :molest:

[WildIrish]

I wonder why he just seems to be accepting this as a fact of life.

My grandparents were married 62 years, had five children, eleven grandchildren (that were always around) and umpteen great-grandchildren...and they LOVED gettin' it on! I'll never forget how proud my grandmother was when she showed my wife (girlfriend at the time) the mirror my grandfather put up over the bed. Do you think either of them would've just accepted that a waning sex drive is a fact of life?

It takes two people to fix this discrepancy. Buying lingerie (as awesome as I'm sure you'll look) will not turn him on if he doesn't want to be turned on. Why doesn't he want to be turned on? Sex is a great barometer of a relationship. Why do you think he's turning away?

[Oldfart]

Fear of failure?