Movie Question

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So the other night my wife said that she wanted to watch a porno with me. Any titles out there that would be good for sharing and not too hard core?

[Lilith]

You had me til the "not too hard core" part :D

There are plenty of softcore movies but too be honest I usually watch the harder stuff. There are some titles that mimic mainstream movies that are often less hardcore. I know there is a knock off of Pirates of the Carribbean.

[Jude30]

If you can find it anything by Andrew Blake. Night Trips 1, and 2, House of Dreams, and Secrets are all good. They were made in the late 80s early 90s so they're a bit cheesy but all very couples friendly.

Honestly though you know her tastes better than anyone so it's up to you what you pick. Besides research has shown that while women claim not to be turned on by the hardcore stuff their physical reactions (wetness, body temp, respiration etc.) tell a completely different story.

[Casperr]

You had me til the "not too hard core" part :D

There are plenty of softcore movies but too be honest I usually watch the harder stuff. There are some titles that mimic mainstream movies that are often less hardcore. I know there is a knock off of Pirates of the Carribbean.
Yep, called Pirates. It's the most expensive adult movie ever made, shot all in High Definition with some fairly fancy special effects. It's hilarious - typical mainstream pornstar bad acting, which is the funniest part. The actual sex is pretty softcore in terms of being fairly stock standard stuff - blowjob and/or pussy licking, penetrative sex, lesbian figering/licking, cumshot. Nothing too extreme.
Watch the trailer here (http://www.piratesxxx.com/main.php?tab=trailer), and see (in my opinion) the best lesbian scene from the movie here (http://www.youporn.com/watch/40483).

The Sex Is Fun podcast (http://sexisfunradioshow.blogspot.com/) did a show a week or two ago discussing good and bad porn movies, which you should check out.

I guess it all depends on what she'd be interested in - lesbian, straight, kinky, amateur, anal, just oral, etc. And what you consider 'not too harcore'.

[scotzoidman]

And prepare to be surprised by what she doesn't think is "too hard core".

Many women are too shy to admit their darkest fantasies, but what gets you off is what gets you off...

Maybe your best bet is to start with the softer core, & gradually move up until she winces...

And learn to tell the difference between "wincing because that's so gross" & "squirming because that's so hot!"

[Loulabelle]

I'd recommend looking out for any that are directed by women....for obvious reasons they are likely to have a more feminine appeal, and sometimes, to know something is directed by a woman, gives the woman watching it 'permission' to enjoy (even if it is a little hardcore) without feeling that it's somehow degrading or exploitative.

Sometimes, it's more about the psychology behind it than what's actually playing on the screen. ;)

[Jude30]

I'd recommend looking out for any that are directed by women....for obvious reasons they are likely to have a more feminine appeal, and sometimes, to know something is directed by a woman, gives the woman watching it 'permission' to enjoy (even if it is a little hardcore) without feeling that it's somehow degrading or exploitative.

Sometimes, it's more about the psychology behind it than what's actually playing on the screen. ;)

In that case I'd like to recommend House of Ass by Tristan Taormino. :)

She wrote the Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, and a few other books, she also writes sex column for the Village Voice.

[Loulabelle]

As long as she is OK with anal sex...if she finds the whole idea a turn off, then it would be a no no obviously!

[Oldfart]

Take her to an adult shop ( take a day trip interstate if need be) and let her choose. She can watch shorts and decide.