Fetish or not to fetish

[Lilith]

that is my question- (stolen and adapted from somewhere else)

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ ] Ropes
[ ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[ ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

[Lilith]

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[x ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ x] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ x] I am tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[x ] Patent leather, PVC
[ ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[x ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ x] Your bedroom
[x ] A dungeon, castle
[ x] Churches and abbeys
[x ] Farms and stables
[x ] Barracks
[x ] Abandoned construction sites
[x ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[x ] BDSM-clubs
[x ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ x] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[x ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ x] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose her temper
[x ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[x ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[x ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[x ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x ] Ropes
[ x] Leather cuffs and belts
[x ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ x] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ xxx] Whips
[ xx] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x ] Silk to be tied with
[x ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ x] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[do this and die] Being tied up and tickled
[ x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ x] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ x] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
X Something I'd like more often than I currently participate

[Neige]

Hey!!! You changed the rules! I was filling it out with numbers :p

Can you explain exactly what is meant by "scene"?

[Casperr]

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[x] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[x] I am are sold on a slave market
[x] I am used as a slave in public
[x] I am used as a slave in private
[x] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x] Leather
[x] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[x] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[x - beaches in general] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[x] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ ] Ropes
[ ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[x] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[x] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]

[Lilith]

You can think of a scene as any engagement in sexual or non-sexual play. Time you are alone with your person of interest. It usually refers to bdsm or role playing interactions but could be applied to a wide variety of social situations.

[PantyFanatic]

..... I was filling it out with numbers :p

Can you explain exactly what is meant by "scene"?
Send me your numbered list and I'll call you with the 'scene'. :tongue:

[scotzoidman]

Waaaaay too much paperwork to fill out for me...

[FallenAngel5]

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[x ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[x ] Airmen, pilots
[x ] Policemen, security people
[x ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[x ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[x ] Cowboys, farm boys
[x ] Gentlemen, nobility
[x ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[x ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[x ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[x ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[x ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[x ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x ] I am are tied and teased
[x ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[x ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x ] Sexy lingerie
[x ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x ] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[x ] Churches and abbeys
[x ] Farms and stables
[x ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[x ] BDSM-clubs
[x ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[x ] Boot camp
[x ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x ] Dialogue in normal language
[x ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[x ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x ] Swearing and filthy talk
[x ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x ] Obvious and explicit role play
[x ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[x ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[x ] Make me feel used
[x ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[x ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[x ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x ] Ropes
[x ] Leather cuffs and belts
[x ] Steel cuffs and chains
[x ] Ball and chain
[x ] Blindfold
[x ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x ] Whips
[x ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x ] Silk to be tied with
[x ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[x ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[x ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[x ] Being tied up and tickled
[x ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[x ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[x ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[x ] Being tied and tortured
[x ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x ] Being used by more than one dominant
[x ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[x ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[x ] Something I want as much as possible
[x ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]

[Pita]

I love a good check-list! :brows:

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[X]Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[X] Gentlemen, nobility
[X] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[XX] Teachers
[X] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[XX] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[X] I am a little schoolgirl
[X] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X] I am are tied and teased
[X] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[XX] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[X] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[X] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[X] Denim
[X] High Heels
[X] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X] Your bedroom
[X] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[X] A school or a classroom
[X] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[X] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[X] Obvious and explicit role play
[X] Subtle role play
[X] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[X] Make me feel cheap
[X] Make me feel used
[X] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[X] Objectify me
[XX] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[XXX] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[X] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X] Ropes
[X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[X] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X] Whips
[XXX] Riding crops
[X] Canes
[X] Silk to be tied with
[XX] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[X] Cross, rack
[X] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[XXX] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[X] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[XXX] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[X] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[XX] Being spanked in the traditional way
[X] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[X] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[X] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[X] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[X] Something I want as much as possible
[X] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[X ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

[WildIrish]

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[x] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[x] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[x] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[x] I am used as a slave in private
[x] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[x] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[x] I have to sign a contract
[x] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[x] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] Your bedroom
[x] A dungeon, castle
[x] Churches and abbeys
[x] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[x] Obey rules or else
[x] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[x] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[x] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ ] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[x] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[x] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x] Whips
[x] Riding crops
[x] Canes
[x] Silk to be tied with
[x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[x] Being tied up in discomfort
[x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[x] Used as a servant
[x] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[x] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[x] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[x] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:Something I imagine I'd crave were I with someone that would embrace it.

[osuche]

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[X ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ X] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ X] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ X] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ X] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ X] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ X] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ X] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ X] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ X] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ X] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ X] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ X] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ X] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ X] Back alleys
[ X] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ X] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ X] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ X] Dialogue in normal language
[ X] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ X] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ X] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ X] Obvious and explicit role play
[ X] Subtle role play
[ X] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ X] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ X] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ X] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ X] Ropes
[ X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ X] Blindfold
[ X] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ X] Silk to be tied with
[ X] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ X] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ X] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[X ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ X] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ X] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

[Teddy Bear]

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ x] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ x] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ x] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[x ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ x] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ x] I am used as a slave in public
[x ] I am used as a slave in private
[x ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ x] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ ] Sexy lingerie
[x ] Uniforms
[x ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[x ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] Your bedroom
[ x] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[x ] Farms and stables
[x ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x ] Woods and forests
[ x] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[x ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[x ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[x ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[x ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[x ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[x ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ ] Ropes
[ ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ x] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ xSilk to be tied with
[x ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ x] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ x] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[x ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x ] Being used by more than one dominant
x] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[x ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ x] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ x] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
__________________

[WildIrish]

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery



If so...just sayin (http://www.renaissancefestival.com/viewEvent.asp?eventID=221) ;)

[gekkogecko]

Screening for your next victim, Lilith?

[Lilith]

working on a defense strategy ;)

[Lisa976]

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[X ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[X ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ X] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[X ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[X ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[X ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[X ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[X ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[X ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[X ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[X ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[X ] Uniforms
[X ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[X ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[X ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[X ] The bath room
[X ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[X ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[X ] Reasonable rules
[X ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[X ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[X ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[X ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[X ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[X ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[X ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[ X] Leather cuffs and belts
[ X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[X ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[X ] Needles and pins
[X ] Cross, rack
[X ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[X ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[X ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[X ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[X ] Being tied and tortured
[X ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[X ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[X ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ X] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ X] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[X ] Something I want as much as possible
[X ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[x ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ X] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
__________________

[VeryLonelyMan]

Now I just want to say some of these are my personal kinks and some of these I would love to do with a SO. Enjoy.

Here's how to use this checklist. For each question below just place an x next to any item that interests you.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[x] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[x] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[x] Nurses, doctors
[x] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[x] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[x] Servants
[x] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[x] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[x] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[x] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[x] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[x] I am are sold on a slave market
[x] I am used as a slave in public
[x] I am used as a slave in private
[x] I am ordered to please others
[x] I am a little schoolgirl
[x] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[x] I am are tied and teased
[x] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[x] I am verbally humiliated
[x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[x] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[x] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[x] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[x] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[x] Sexy lingerie
[x] Uniforms
[x] Denim
[x] High Heels
[x] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[x] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[x] Your bedroom
[x] A dungeon, castle
[x] Churches and abbeys
[x] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[x] Abandoned construction sites
[x] Back alleys
[x] The red light district
[x] A school or a classroom
[x] BDSM-clubs
[x] Estates
[x] Junkyards and car dumps
[x] Woods and forests
[x] Medieval scenery
[x] Nudist beaches
[x] Parking spaces
[x] Truck stops
[x] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[x] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[x] Dialogue in normal language
[x] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[x] Obey rules or else
[x] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[x] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[x] Obvious and explicit role play
[x] Subtle role play
[x] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[x] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[x] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[x] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[x] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[x] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[x] Blindfold
[x] Gags
[ ] Masks
[x] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[x] Whips
[x] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[x] Silk to be tied with
[x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[x] Cage
[x] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[x] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[x] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[x] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[x] Being tied up and tickled
[x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[x] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[x] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[x] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being spanked in the traditional way
[x] Rough sex/being "raped"
[x] Used as a servant
[x] Being tied and tortured
[x] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[x] Being used by more than one dominant
[x] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[x] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[x] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:[/QUOTE]

[txgrneyes]

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery



If so...just sayin (http://www.renaissancefestival.com/viewEvent.asp?eventID=221) ;)


We have this here in TX...and we also have cowboys...

http://www.medievaltimes.com/theshow.htm

[jaycee51]

I hate to admit it but I missed the boat. How do you fill out the check list, all I could think of was to paste it here and fill it out, but doesnt look like thats how it supposed to be done.

[Lilith]

copy it and paste it into the reply box and then X your choices

[WildIrish]

copy it and paste it into the reply box and then X your choices


Or you could just scream "yes" or "no" when Lilith starts doing something.






Not that she'll listen. :p

[ReaperWoman]

Some of the things I've ticked in the "attributes" section are things I would certainly love to try, rather than things I know I love.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
X Others, please specify: Superheroes ;)

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[X ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[X ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[X ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[X ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[X ] Patent leather, PVC
[X ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[X ] High Heels
[X ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[X ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X ] Your bedroom
[X ] A dungeon, castle
[X ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X ] Woods and forests
[X ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X ] Interrogation room
[X ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[X ] Dialogue in normal language
[X ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[X ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[X ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[X ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[X ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[X ] I want sex during a scene - But don't always get ;)
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X ] Ropes
[X ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X ] Blindfold
[X ] Gags
[X ] Masks
[X ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[XXX ] Silk to be tied with
[X ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[X ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[X ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[X ] Being locked up and left alone
[X ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[X ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[X ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[X ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[X ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[X ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify: Something I hope to explore more of... Being a switch makes it interesting too. :D

[Aqua]

X Others, please specify: Superheroes ;)

Just so you don't forget... Aquaman is a Superhero. ;)

:D

[jaycee51]

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ xx] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ x] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ x] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ x] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ x] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ x] Your bedroom
[ x] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[x ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ x] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[x ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ xx] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
x] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ x] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ x] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ xx] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ x] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ xx] Ropes
[x] Leather cuffs and belts
[ x] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ xx] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[ x] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ x] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ x] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ x] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ x] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ x] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ x] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:
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[kinky-bi-nature]

First ever post, be gentle... :wave:

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: Therapists/Shrinks

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[X] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[X] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[X] I am used as a slave in private
[X] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[X] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[X] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[X] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[X] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[X] Leather
[X] Rubber, latex
[X] Patent leather, PVC
[X] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[X] High Heels
[X] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[X] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[X] Your bedroom
[X] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[X] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[X] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[X] Interrogation room
[X] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: Trains/Planes

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[X] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[X] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[X] Obey rules or else (only if rules have been clearly established)
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[X] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[X] Strict training
[X] Obvious and explicit role play
[X] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[X] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[X] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[X] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[X] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[X] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[X] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[X] Ropes
[X] Leather cuffs and belts
[X] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[X] Blindfold
[X] Gags
[X] Masks
[X] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[X] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[X] Silk to be tied with
[X] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[X] Cross, rack
[X] Bondage table
[X] Cage
[ ] Sling
[X] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[X] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[X] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[X] Being taken out with collar and leash
[X] Being locked up and left alone
[X] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[X] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[X] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[X] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[X] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[X] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[X] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[X] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[X] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify:

[Lilith]

After reading that^^^ I'm not sure you really like gentle ;)

[kinky-bi-nature]

hehe ^^^

Whilst I crossed many items, all of them aren't things I've necessarily experienced 'yet'...