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Travelinguy
08-18-2007, 06:45 PM
For those here on Pixies who are Bi, when did you first realize you were bi? For those of you who aren't Bi, have you ever thought about it considered it?

When I was 16 or so I was horny all of the time. I found all of my parents porn stash and every time I was at home alone I went at it. I was always wanting more...first is was trying a sex toy up the back door then one day I wondered what that clear precum would taste like...I liked that then I just had to see what the real deal was like. The problem was, like everyone else, I lost the urge after I came so I decided the only way was to put my legs over my head and aim. Then of course I had to tell myself over and over that I only wanted to do that kinky stuff with myself but I finally accepted that just maybe I was curious about doing that stuff with someone else!

osuche
08-19-2007, 01:34 PM
I went through an experimentation phase in high school :D

rabbit
08-19-2007, 01:39 PM
Yeah, I have thought about it in the past but I am pretty much certain that I am straight. I, too, did some experimenting to see. Now, if I were in a MFM I would be OK with getting a BJ from, or giving anal to, the other M if that's the way things went.

osuche
08-19-2007, 01:42 PM
I *knew* there was a reason I liked him ^^^ ;)

:hot:

Wicked Wanda
08-19-2007, 11:29 PM
Always, I think. I can remember being captivated by Women's bodies for all my life, ar at least as far back as I can remember. As a little girl, maybe 5 or 6, a babysitter took her blouse off because I was splashing water in the bath. There was in no way any sexual intent on her part, she did nothing inappropriate, the blouse was probably silk and she didn't want bubble bath on it. But I was facinated by her breasts, and can remember them to this day.

All my life (within memory) little accidental glimpses of breasts, nipples, behinds, and later in high school, entire naked bodies, (shower time) had a very definite effect on me.

Still, with the exception of some "I'll be the boy" kissing and makeouts as a teen, my first sexual contact with another Woman was at 19.


WW

LixyChick
08-19-2007, 11:50 PM
I'm AMAZED at the female body! I'm especially a breast kinda girl. But...when it comes down to it (a naked girl in front of me) I'll go the trip but in finality I'll opt to have hubby or any other male take me over the edge. I just can't get off with girl to girl direct contact. If I watch her in action or if I see an appealing girl on a website...that's different.

I guess I am bi-friendly. Is that an option?

Travelinguy
08-20-2007, 03:34 AM
Yep, thats totally an option!! I am curious what everybody thinks about bisexuality. I am totally in love with a woman but on a sexual fantasy side the thought of sex with another guy is an extreme turn on. I just don't know whether or not I would or could ever act on the fantasy.

Oldfart
08-20-2007, 08:08 AM
I came to terms with my gay side when I realised that in a past life I had been a lesbian, and that explained the unnatural exclusive attraction I felt toward women.

rabbit
08-20-2007, 07:09 PM
I *knew* there was a reason I liked him ^^^ ;)

:hot:

:x:

Casperr
08-20-2007, 10:17 PM
Like most guys in high school, I would occasionally look at porn....There seemed to be a lot of 'blowjob' porn on the net at the time, and I guess I just found myself noticing the dicks as much as the girls...
That'd be where I first started realising I was bi.

thefireman
08-20-2007, 11:50 PM
I have always enjoyed looking at a male form. But I guess it was after high school when I was on my own that I decided I was very bi-curious. I love to watch bi or gay porn and did alot. Now my wife gets Playgirl magazine and she lets me look at it after her. We have swapped with other couples before but I have never done anything with the other guy. My wife tells me that she would love to be there when it happens. Like in a MFM threesome or something. I have a friend that lives in town here and is bi. We have talked about experimenting before, but I have always chickened out. Maybe someday soon. :cboy:

citrus
08-22-2007, 03:33 PM
I've been hetero/homo sensual all of my life. I fought off the homosexual thoughts and feelings. But, never could I stop my being attracted to boys and girls. I finally gave up the fight and determined in my heart that I am a sensually activated man. I am bisexual.