Anyone here got a fuck buddy?

[anythinggoes69u]

Anyone got a man/woman who you have mutually agreed to get together when either of you are feeling horny, purely for nsa sex ?

[wyndhy]

the sex we enjoy never has strings attached. :D

[gekkogecko]

I'm certain plenty of people do. I'm not one of them.

[Eastern]

I had one.. but i married him

[Jude30]

My wife frowns on such arrangements.

[osuche]

Nope...same as Jude. :D

[Emzo]

used to, but he went off to uni.

[cherrypie7788]

Yeah. I'm engaged to him :rofl: it started out as a relationship, then went to a "fuck buddy", now it's back to a relationship.

[scotzoidman]

Nope...same as Jude. :D
Your wife frowns on such arrangements? :blink:

[IowaMan]

Nope, not anymore.

[smithy020]

I'm always open to offers!

[osuche]

Your wife frowns on such arrangements? :blink:


Yeah, she is SUCH a prude :spin:

[Oldfart]

Buddy? Buddy? Why I gotta fuck Buddy? Not my type at all!

[nwnnguy]

I wish, then maybe when the wife wasn't feeling like "it", I would have somewhere to go

[FussyPucker]

the sex we enjoy never has strings attached. :D
Just handcuffs, ropes, leather straps, 1 large pink feather and a jar of peanut butter (smooth not crunchy)!!........hehehe

I think Lou wouldn't be overly happy if I had a fuck buddy........unless she counts as one?

[FussyPucker]

Yeah, she is SUCH a prude :spin:
Now come on everyone stop thinking about Osuche with an other woman....
Only kidding, carry on...........I kow I am! :D:D:D

[Irezumi Kiss]

Whenever I do have one, they only last about two or three days. Then I never see them again. Hence, the "no strings." :sperm:

[Scarecrow]

Now come on everyone stop thinking about Osuche with an other woman....
Only kidding, carry on...........I kow I am! :D:D:D

Now I can't get that image out of my mind. Ooooooooooooooohhhhhh

[osuche]

Now I can't get that image out of my mind. Ooooooooooooooohhhhhh


Shall I take pictures next time?

:confused:

[Scarecrow]

Shall I take pictures next time?

:confused:

Yes PLeassssssssssssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeee

[Wildeye]

no women - love my spouse and her wonderful yawning pussy.

one fuck buddy - i'm addicted to his cock.

[PantyFanatic]

Now come on everyone stop thinking about Osuche with an other woman.......
Too late. :tongue:

[osuche]

Now come on everyone stop thinking about Osuche with another woman....

Funny, I keep thinking about the same thing... :hot:

[Tdog6699]

Yeah I have had 2, the first I met off an adult personals site... it was fun for a few months but it got too hard to keep up after she picked up a boyfriend. (we kept it going for a month or so but he got suspicious) She was 19 I was 25 at the time..the best sex was when we would find random places around her college to do it in the open. I also met another woman off the same website that actually lived a mile from me.. she was married and her husband was overseas on business.. with his consent we met every time he went away. It was a massive turn on to have her talking to her husband while I was having my way with her. The best part was her sister lived in the house and never knew a thing.

[CunningLinguist]

Shall I take pictures next time?

:confused:

Yes! Oh please dear gods in Asgard, yes!

[Oldfart]

osuche,

The Asgard reference drew my mind to old Olympus.

A panel of judges and commentators perhaps?

[CunningLinguist]

I feel kind of bad becuase I posted on here while on lunch and didn't read the whole conversation.

And well, on the original subject of fuck buddies, no I don't have one, and no I don't really plan on having one in the future.

Now, when I was younger, I was stupid and had low self esteem, and every once in a while I would meet a girl, make out with her (or eat her out since that was what I got the reputation for) and on a few instances I would have sex with her just one time.

Of course, I'm not the kind of guy who has sex once and never calls again, and it's not becuase I'm some kind of hero, but like I said I was young and stupid and thought "Hey if I can have sex with her this time, maybe I will get a repeat performance or at least I made a new friend."

Of course, within a week I do find out it wasn't no strings attached sex, and it wasn't until a few years ago that I learned that the women I take on as fuck buddies tend to be drama addicts or call me up at 3 in the morning and beg me to buy them booze or for a ride to their boyfriend's, girlfriend's or baby daddy's house.

I guess I prefer the term friend with benefits. See a fuck buddy is good for only one thing, and it's still hard to not get attached with the person you last had sex with unless you are having lots and lots of it (which sadly isn't in my future). I'd prefer to just have sex with someone who is already a friend. A person who I know will respect my boundaries even if we just had sex, and knows I enjoy her company even without the sex.

Only happened once in my life so I consider myself blessed even if me and her no longer do it.

[PantyFanatic]

I've not be sure how to respond to this. I've had this thread in the back of my mind for a while and just ran onto it again. This almost gets into serious reality and you know how I hate that. :jester:

Over a longer time period than I care to admit, I've had friends that you might call a "fuck buddy". They have developed in different manners and each taken their own form. They have come from shared relationships we both moved on from, to professional relationships that became so involved that personal lives became entangled.

For me, a "fuck buddy" normally evolves from a close and trusting relationship as opposed to the inverse. We are able to share and care about each others life without being part of it and where the pillow talk is as meaningful as the physical 'escape time'. I guess for me it would be more accurate to think of it as a "buddy fuck". The person has to be someone special to me first. :shrug:

[txgrneyes]

yes

[Winston77]

Same time next year

[Steph]

Amost! :weg:

[Doomsday]

No. Sorta did.. but now no? I think.. I dunno it's never came up... probably because I have/had feelings for her. Even though I am able to keep those things completely separate usually. Eh? Such is life.

[WildIrish]

Same time next year


What a great movie! A true love story that I enjoyed watching evolve.

[jennaflower]

I don't have a friend with benefits, but after not having sex for so long, I would certainly entertain having one. My problem of course would be keeping my emotions out of it. Not sure that I am equiped to do so. Everytime I have had sex with someone, there has been an emotional pre-existing connection.

[bh4229]

Does my right hand count??? :)

[Prophet Reality]

I would love to have one. I am in an open marriage so right now it would be a welcome and desired thing.

[rabbit]

No fuck buddy since marriage, but I honestly miss having one...just because.

;)

[Irezumi Kiss]

I could use one right now. Just for this one whole month, it doesn't have to be forever! :sex:

[scotzoidman]

I could use one right now. Just for the next few minutes, it doesn't have to be forever!

[jennaflower]

The more I consider the concept of a fuck buddy and my earlier post, I cant help but wonder exactly what everyone considers a "fuck buddy" to be.

As I implied in my earlier post, I have always figured that a "fuck buddy" was someone with whom you limited your "relationship" with them to purely a sporatic sexual experience. Nothing else. No emotional attachment, no involvment in their daily life. Someone whom you can pretty much greet at the door, enjoy the pleasures of sex, and then go your own seperate ways.

For me, a fuck buddy (in the context above) is not something that I am sure that I would ever be able to have. Mostly because, at some point, for me there is an emotional involvment long before I open my thighs to them.

I have to wonder, has my opinion of a "fuck buddy" been wrong? Is it possible to have a someone with whom you do have an emotional connection, and even a level of involvment in their life, and still consider them to be nothing more than a fuck buddy?

Interested to hear your thoughts..

[jseal]

jennaflower,

I too cannot see how to include an emotional component to a "fuck buddy".

[BamaKyttn]

its is human nature to feel bonds to those we experience intense situations with. There are those who have learned ways to wall against those bonds. Kissing, simultaneous orgasm, nuzzling, snuggling, the sweet tiny featherlight kisses, the kisses on the forehead and the top of the head, all tend to help with bonding. Looking into the others eyes during an orgasm can as well. I've lately learned that I myself apparently a while back learned to ask for interactions that help me brick the wall to keep away the bonds. It's not failproof and enough of the bond enhancing items can overcome the wall { sound track .... TEAR DOWN THE WALL!!!}

for me I've recently learned that a good deal of me pain and abject submission enjoyment are mostly just bricks in the wall. that the more pain and subjugation I encourage on myself the easier it is for me to drive home alone and not miss the patrner the pain leaves me comfortably numb.

I had a master who would fly down south on business call, tell me the number of his hotel room and leave instructions to call when I reached the lobby. He had a fiancee, I was otherwise involved, but neither of us was happy where we were. We fucked and I would leave immediately. The day he greeted me with strawberries and champagne I knew he was having trouble. His guilt was getting the better of him.

He was someone I fucked, not a fuck buddy. a fuck buddy is someone you'd go out maybe shoot pool with and decide we're both single and horny, lets fuck.

just my 2 cents.
all we are is bricks in the wall

[Lord Snow]

Fuck buddy always seemed to be exactly what it says to me. A buddy you fuck which would make it synonymous with the term friend with benefits. I've never had one, and hopefully will never have one. I'm not against the idea, I just don't think it'd be good for me or the other person in the long run. Better to have just a one night stand than an ongoing sexual relationship. Eventually, one or the other would end up with someone that they want something more with and that leaves the other out to dry. Or worse, the person left behind realizes what they had and wants to be with the person they can no longer have.

[BamaKyttn]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ smart kid

[osuche]

I have to wonder, has my opinion of a "fuck buddy" been wrong? Is it possible to have a someone with whom you do have an emotional connection, and even a level of involvment in their life, and still consider them to be nothing more than a fuck buddy?

Interested to hear your thoughts..


Are there people in your life who you love and respect - even like being around - but feel no need to possess? The people who you like, but with some missing feature that makes them an unsuitable full-time mate?

I don't believe in sex without feeling...better just go ahead and masturbate (it's more sanitary). I do believe that I can love someone, share my body with them, but not need to possess them for life.

[citrus]

i was her fuck buddy. but,i love her more than i can handle to be a fuckbuddy. it's the kiss.

[Lilith]

*cue shoop shoop girls

[rabbit]

I don't believe in sex without feeling...better just go ahead and masturbate (it's more sanitary). I do believe that I can love someone, share my body with them, but not need to possess them for life.


What she said, exactly...my FWB definition.

:)

[Prophet Reality]

Here is my :2cents: worth.

I am currently in an open marriage. My lady love has a "fuck buddy". We are all friends and get along and we all hang out. He shoot pool when we have money that sort of thing. There is some emotions involved, but I know that my lady love truly loves me and in the end I am the person she comes home to.

It is possible to have a "fuck buddy" the way you think of it jenna, but to be honest unless you are a coldhearted person, you will always have emotions attached to the person. Because even friends have emotional ties.

So a friends with benefits as LordSnow quoted is possible and in essence is the same as a "fuck buddy" in my eyes.

Now I just wish that I had one as well.

[Tigerlily78]

YAY! I think I have one!

[mercifulangel]

ah but the emotional aspect - i have given this a try three times and each time it ended up with some sort of emotional entangelment whether its was friendship - something a little more and soon u end up privy to more than you should and often wanting more than you should. while it begins as i sort know u lets hang put and fuck i cant seem to really keep it there.

[Tigerlily78]

I've done this before...and it's just what I need right now :)

[Rhiannon]

umm nope i married mine

[FlirtWithMe]

Are there people in your life who you love and respect - even like being around - but feel no need to possess? The people who you like, but with some missing feature that makes them an unsuitable full-time mateThere is one person in my life that fits this description perfectly, and he is the only person I could seriously think about having as a fuck buddy.

Several months ago I felt I could have gone in for emotionless sex but I think I was kidding myself. As others have posted, I think that realistically I would not be able to keep the emotional aspect out of it. The guy I referred to above has enough love and respect back for me as I him, that I think it could work if we were fuck buddies. Anyone else, I'm not so sure.

A one-night stand or a short fling would feel less of a problem because there's not that risk involved of losing a valued friend should things go tits up.

[jbh3]

No.
Does anyone here NEED a fuck buddy??

[FlirtWithMe]

Does anyone here NEED a fuck buddy??I need affection more than I need a fuck buddy. Lack of affection, mental and physical, is harder on me than lack of sex. Both have been missing for a long time but the sex part I can fulfill to a certain extent myself.

[jbh3]

uhhhhh.....I'll take that as a " no " :kisser:

[FlirtWithMe]

:p


:x:

[mercifulangel]

No.
Does anyone here NEED a fuck buddy??


with one u risk the other

[Tigerlily78]

Well, there are different definitions....I consider a person that I like, as in have a good time with, want to have sex with, but do not want a romantic relationship with to be a fuckbuddy :)

[Bebi Dempster]

Sadly i do have a few onlder and younger then me. I guess i can say i'm single so it's not a worry in that respect the younger one is single too actually hes much younger then me.. but he doesnt look it and him and i have been well past 6 years it's been special in that essence... the older one is Married.. but he's mature older.

Naturally i do this until i settle down as i'm not married not in a relationship i can fool around.. once i find the man to settle down with then.. well then i will give up the flings for the "REAL DEAL", but to be honest i would prefer to settle with the one then have many, few years back had a number of bad boys when i got broke up over my engagement but now i dont abuse myself that much.. just regular fucks now, althought i'm looking into dox matrix so we'll see?? problem is i get bored with the same old so unless they can keep me mentally entertained i go elsewhere... thus why holding a relationship has been difficult.

[mara]

Mine has batteries...lol!

[jbh3]

perfect huh??? no complainin'....no whinin'.....no "fallin' asleep".....just straight up FUCK BUDDY!!!!!........lol :)

[mercifulangel]

perfect huh??? no complainin'....no whinin'.....no "fallin' asleep".....just straight up FUCK BUDDY!!!!!........lol :)


think u got this one right. your forget they dont stand you up either lol

[FlirtWithMe]

think u got this one right. your forget they dont stand you up either lol:thumb: I'll second/third this :D

[jbh3]

ok ok....lets not get carried away girls!!!!

[FlirtWithMe]

ok ok....lets not get carried away girls!!!!It's not always easy to restrain oneself when working a bullet in one hand and a glass dildo in the other ;)

[jbh3]

wow!!!.....carry on!!!

[Smile Beautiful]

:confused: I've had a few over the years but my longest lasting fuck buddy would be a doctor i met 6 years ago. We haven't hooked up in almost a year but I've had some pretty memorable occasions with him. Now we mostly talk about work (since we are both in the medical profession) and I go to him for medical advice usually before going to my own doctor. We do occasionally talk about hooking up again, and trying out our fantasies on each other. But I have a feeling that is just talk...I seem to chicken out last minute for some reason. I've been feeling a little self conscious. :confused:

[MommyMaggie]

No fuck buddy, but I do phonesex part time - does that count?

[PantyFanatic]

It all counts if it's pleasing for you. ;)

[lc69hunter]

I have had a fair number over the years, but currently not. They have been some of the best friends/lovers I have ever had.