Anal?

[steveuk]

Anal...............who likes it and why and who doesnt like it and why?

I love to give it but my current partner doesn't like it.......she says im too big!

[citrus]

I like it. I crave anal. After testing and we are confirmed free and clean I prefer BB. No rough stuff. Bigger is better for me. Get my bum well lubed and give me long slow full thrusts. Press hard, harder. Your choice in whether or not I deep throat your ejaculation. Just as long as it goes in me, top or bottom end! OOh, so good! :69:

[Mark Vieth]

Well I like doing it when my partner is in the mood. My problem like steveuk is size as well. I am gifted in that department and it takes a while trying to get something of substantial size into a hole that is only yay big. By the time we get around to getting it in, it's gone down. So yes it can be frustrating at times.

[WildIrish]

That's why I always get a running start. :D

[Jude30]

I'm above average size and we have anal about as often as we have vaginal sex. It's not really much a matter of size as it is preparation, lube, and desire.

[Teddy Bear]

Geee..... it got hot in here...

[sunshine]

I have to say that I'm not a fan at all.

It hurts and, for a woman there's not much to stimulate. (No g-spot for a woman on that end)

I also read (and see on uselessjunk.com) people who do anal and then go straight to vaginal or into the mouth.

Uh, hello, E. Coli anyone? A woman can can really wicked infections like that.

A small vibrator there I can see, because it stimulates other areas, but to me it just hurts.

If the woman's vagina isn't tight enough, then kegal exercises make a world of difference.

I'm clearly in the minority on that one. Sorry.

[citrus]

Guys with more girth and/or length seem to find more difficulty in satisfactory anal penetration with his girl. Men like me, or rather, a few other men like me can accommodate a larger than usual cock. Where My cock is perfect for some men and women it's just too fat for most of my girls. It's not a problem though. Because, the penis and the vagina are best matched anyway.
............................................................................ :sex:

[Jude30]

It hurts and, for a woman there's not much to stimulate. (No g-spot for a woman on that end)



LOL

Tell that to the women that have their most intense orgasms from anal stimulation. My wife being one of them.

I'm betting it hurts you because you don't like it and you tense up. Not a big deal that's just you.

[Aqua]

I have to say that I'm not a fan at all.

I'm clearly in the minority on that one. Sorry.
Hey... if you don't like it, you don't like it. I'm a big fan myself, (as any seasoned Pixie can tell you ;) ) but it's not for everyone. You shouldn't apologize for having your own opinion. :)

[sunshine]

Hey... if you don't like it, you don't like it. I'm a big fan myself, (as any seasoned Pixie can tell you ;) ) but it's not for everyone. You shouldn't apologize for having your own opinion. :)


I do see that a lot of women seem to like it. I had one friend tell me it felt the same to her and she didn't even notice and another who said it was like having a broomstick shoved up her bum.

It's always freaked me out. Past life thing maybe.

Thanks.

[IowaMan]

Not sure if I'm a fan of it or not. I've attempted it with two different women and both times it simply wasn't meant to happen.

The first time was just a case of being young and inexperienced and we just didn't have the common sense to use lubrication. I thought I had killed the poor girl.

The second time was with someone who had told me they were experienced in that activity and that it would be absolutely no problem to get things to "fit." Not the case despite lots and lots of lube. Pretty much the same reaction from her as with the first attempt. The only conclusion I can come to is that it's me who is doing something wrong even though neither situation was one in which I was trying to force the issue.

I suppose it is something that I'd like to truly experience so that I could get a better idea of whether or not I enjoy it but if that never happens, so be it.

[Eastern]

Sorry not for me at. all.. it hurts.. lube or not..

[sunshine]

Sorry not for me at. all.. it hurts.. lube or not..

Thank you. I was beginning to think I was the only one in the world who felt that way.

[cavegirl]

You're absolutely not alone sunshine - I've nothing against anyone who likes anal sex or wants to tell me about it, lol - it's whatever floats your boat but I just have no desire to do it myself and can't bear the thought of it. My fiance feels the same too, which is just as well, lol...

[Teddy Bear]

I love it now, never used to. Tryed it once years ago with hubby... OMG! Hurt like crazy!! So that was the end of that for many years. It was during some time alone I needed something else..... just a little more..... at the time I had a small thin vibe, lubed it up good..... and it blew me away. Been a fan ever since.

:)

[divot109]

We both enjoy it when I give her anal pleasure/penetration with me or a vibrator, AND when she gives me anal pleasure/penetration with a finger or vibrator. It is such a sensitive area! However, the mood definitely has to be right for both of us...we might do it every night for a month, then not touch that area for the next 8 months!!!

[Natures Gift]

I tried it once, it hurt like hell, I doubt I will try it again... well maybe if the circumstances were right, but I'd want a lot more preparation next time.

Although it hurt SO badly I do wonder if there is someting wrong with me.

[denny]

It does not have to hurt. My ex loved anal activity and it was very exciting for her. I, however, experienced pain and swore to never let anyone do it to me again. Its probably mostly in your head, I don't find it stimulating no matter who is receiving. :buttsex: