How does one find a partner?

[newbie slave]

How does one go about finding a partner or in my case some one who would like to be a dom female here in Mass. I have searched see very little in the area. As I stated before in past posts, this is a diffuclt thing for me. My lovely wife 12 years together! because of her past is not able to even talk about it let alone act on it. I'm not even 100 percent sure of what my limits are. the only thing I do know is that they do not include upsetting the wife

help would be appreciated.
TY :confused:

[wyndhy]

i can't help, just wanted to say be smart, be safe, be kind and good luck

[Teddy Bear]

1) Establish your limits! The checklist are helpful.
BDSM Check lists:
http://www.thebrc.net/check_list/default.htm
http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/checklist.htm

2) Learn all you can about being safe.
http://www.fetishexchange.org/safety03.shtml
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsafety.html
http://www.evilmonk.org/A/health00.cfm

Useful links, How-to tips, guides, etc:
http://www.bdsmcafe.com/resource/cheklist/checkx.html

3) Then find a group/club near you:
List of Mass. Groups/clubs:
http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgsmass.html#MA

BDSM groups by state:
http://www.houseofdhamma.org/bdsm_groups_and_events/bdsm_groups/bdsm_groups_by_state.html

What is a munch…
http://www.drkdesyre.com/munchfaq.html


:)
I only gave you a sampling of sites. There are tons more. Do a search if you need something else. (PM me if you want)

Good Luck in what you seek.
Have fun but always be safe!
teddy
:)

[Casperr]

Wow!

Way to go Teddy, post of the year so far by my reckoning!

Some good sites, thanks!