Is it ok if your S/O...

[Lilith]

uses your hairbrush?





what about your toothbrush?





your deodorant?



How close do you really wanna be????

[Aqua]

Hairbrush... we share that all the time.

Toothbrush... I wouldn't care much, but she would freak if I used hers.

Deordant... No big deal.

How close do I wanna be? Close enough to put my penis in her vagina. :D

[Jude30]

None of those things bother me in particular after all I put my tongue in "worse" places on her body than she's going to put my tooth brush. BUT when she has I get canker sores. That is an always thing. Strangely enough she has never in her life had a canker sore.

[jay-t]

No it dosen't bother either of us to share. The only thing that I get upset about is when she uses my razor!

[osuche]

Hair - ok
tooth - hell no. Kepp your plaque to yourself!!

deodorant - no. He leaves curly black underarm hair in my deodorant. YUCK!!! If he shaved I'd be OK with it. :p

How close? As close as I feel I want to be in the moment, while still maintaining my personal space when needed. I don't want to be obligated to always share!

[Cheyanne]

Hairbrush - ok

Toothbrush... NO

Deodorant - No - I don't want to smell like a man and I am sure he doesn't want to smell like a gardenia.. rofl

Close - as close as he wants us to be unless I am snoring.. lol :D

[Callistamon]

Hairbrush, not a problem
Toothbrush, I don't have a problem but he does.
Deodorant, again not a problem.
Razor, No way am I game enough to use his, I would never hear the end of it!!

[rabbit]

No, no, and no. It pisses me off when she uses my brushes or deoderant.

[sodaklostsoul]

Don't care as long as everything was left clean.

[Oldfart]

I'm with sodaklostsoul (I love being able to say that, even if not in fact).

We prefer our own, but don't let that stand in the way of need.

[Pita]

We have a standing policy that all toiletries should be kept separate. We have recently started sharing the same bar soap in the shower however. :D

[Loulabelle]

Hairbrush - I don't mind him using mine but I don't tend to use his - it's old and skanky!

Toothbrush - I'd rather we used our own, but since the bloody fool forgot his the first night we spent together, he's in fact used my toothbrush on occasions since the beginning of our relationship. I'd rather he used mine than none at all.

Deodorant - I use his quite often. It's powerful and seems to be one of the few types I'm not allergic to. He ran out yesterday and used mine, but it wasn't strong enough and I got a phonecall asking me to buy some more and bring it to him because he thought he smelt bad.

[sodaklostsoul]

I'm with sodaklostsoul (I love being able to say that, even if not in fact).

We prefer our own, but don't let that stand in the way of need.
:grope:

[mummy2be2007]

Hairbrush...
I do not mind actually sometimes in the rush of things the others is the only one available, so we don't have a choice

Toothbrush
I am not too keen on that idea, it's great to be close but not that close.

Deodorant
My s/o and I have very differant ideas in what actually smells nice so at the moment that answer would have to be a huge no as his is way too strong for me. Though if the smells were similar then I guess neither one of us would have a problem with it

[dicksbro]

Hairbrush ... not a problem although it doesn't happen real often.

Toothbrush ... not sure that we ever have, but I don't have a problem.

Deodorant ... probably the fragrance discourages cross-use more than anything else. She probably doesn't care for Old Spice and I'm not big on the scent of flowers.

Actually, I consider everything I have as being "ours" and if she wants to use anything ... not a problem. I guess I took that "two become one" thing pretty seriously! :)

[scotzoidman]

We've traditionally used the same hairbrushes for years, but lately she seems to be getting picky about me using hers...something about my leaving too much hair in hers...
I don't recall us ever using each others' toothbrush, I wouldn't think it would be a big issue in an emergency...
Deoderant is something I have no prob sharing, since I usually shop for that anyway, & I try to pick unscented when I can (I tell her she doesn't want her deoderant to clash with her perfume that she marinates in every a.m.)
After 30+ years of sharing bodily fluids, it would seem to be a non-issue, but I guess as human beans we all like to have a few personnal areas that are sacrosanct...

[Coaster]

I only use a comb and won't use her brush because it's full of hair
We have our own toothbrushes
We have our own deoderant.... hers too perfumy

[wyndhy]

anything is fine by me, and him

[WildIrish]

Hairbrush? :confused:

If one toothbrush survived the "oh no...everything got swept into the toilet!"...well, sharing is better than not brushing at all.

She likes the scent of my deodorant but doesn't wear it, and I don't wanna smell like baby powder & lilacs unless it's from rubbing against her. :hot:

[IowaMan]

Hairbrush: Since the hairline has decided to recede on me I just buzz my head every couple of weeks so I don't use a brush anymore but when I did use one it didn't bother me if she would use it.

Toothbrush: Can't say we never shared but it would have to be pretty much a last resort kind of thing.

Deodorant: If she wanted to she could use it but I've never had a lady that wanted to use my deodorant. It would probably have to be another of those last resort kind of things for me to use hers.

How close do I want to be? Well, I don't have a S/O right now but when I do have one I'm not too picky about personal space. I guess I don't want her in the bathroom when I'm reading the Sunday sports page but that's one of the few times I definitely want my space. Can't imagine she'd want to be there for that anyway. :shrug:

[gekkogecko]

Hey, what bothers me is when my SO tries to re-use my condoms!

[Coaster]

Hey, what bothers me is when my SO tries to re-use my condoms!


On who else?? :D

[Lilith]

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[Irezumi Kiss]

Hairbrush: I don't have hair! :wobbly:

Toothbrush: if in need

Deodorant: if in need as well

I'd druther keep toiletries separate, but if the need arises, then...I'll adopt tabula rasa. I've been there myself, so...what's a little understanding, yey? The one thing I draw the line on is using the bathroom at the same time when doing #1 or #2 and the other is in the shower or bath...some couples can take it that far no sweat, but not me...I'm intensely solitary when it comes to that stuff. I barely can tolerate using the office stalls when other people are in there!

Hey, what bothers me is when my SO tries to re-use my condoms!
WTF?!?! I know recycling is in vogue, but...is that even possible in execution?

[Neige]

Hairbrush - He shaves his head!

Toothbrush - I don't think we've ever shared but I wouldn't care if he used mine...

Deodorant - I don't want to smell like a man and mine smells much too girly for him!

[AZRedHot]

Hairbrush, sure.

Toothbrush and deodorant--we tend to keep those separate, but in a pinch (like on a trip where one of has forgotten one or the other), we have no problem sharing.

What's mine is his, and his is mine.