Oral Issue

[Robert]

I really enjoy oral sex, both the giving and receiving. My wife enjoys the receiving but not so much the giving. Much of this is because she has a very strong gag reflex. Any suggestions to reduce this problem? :cboy:

Robert

[Lilith]

Practice makes perfect! Encourage her to lick, kiss and suck but not take the whole thing in her mouth. Tell her teasing the head is the hottest part. Tell her you don't need her to deep throat you to make it feel good. Ladies see porn and think they must choke down the monster to make it feel good but we all know there is much more to a good bj than that. I have a major gag reflex too but have also learned that once I am in control and ready I can just breathe through my nose and remain calm.

[Steph]

Maybe start by going down on her & then angle your body in a sensual way so your lower half is facing her. While you're performing oral sex, you could slowly stroke yourself. Slowly build her up. Let her see you be gentle with yourself whilst pleasuring her.

[dicksbro]

... and, Robert, while you're taking these special ladies advice and enjoying yourself, know that we're glad to have you at Pixies. :wave:

[Oldfart]

....and, Robert, lots of pictures please.

Seriously, just running her mouth up and down the underside of the monster and gentle mouthing of the head is a blast.

From a practical point of view, if she holds you so that she can only put into her mouth as much of you as she is willing to take may help her confidence not to confront the gag.

[rustler]

As stated above, practice makes perfect. Encourage her to do it by always telling her how good it feels and how good she is at it and how much you ejoy it. Don't push the issue. The more she practices at it and does it, the better she will be at it. Be sure and let her know what feels good and what doesn't feel as good. Remember she is not a mindreader. Most of all, be squeaky clean. Let her practice on you al she wants.