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lizzardbits
10-14-2006, 06:35 PM
After much soul searching, not so great luck with getting a job for me, and finding out England's Fiance' visa processing times are approx ONE to TWO WEEKS (!!!), Mayhem and I have decided that we are tired of the torture of being apart and we just want to be with each other.
The idea is to live in Jolly Ol' for 2-5 years and save up moolah to come back to the States.
The missing each other is about driving us batty, and we are sappy romantic mushballs. Plus we are both really really horny!---but sex isn't the major deciding factor, but a nice fat cherry on top of the Mayhem sundae---mmmmm
I will hopefully be leaving for the UK shortly after the American holiday of Thanksgiving. I wanted to be there for Mayhem's 28th birthday on Nov 11, but it gives me time to get my lizards in a row.
I am supremely nervous about moving there, however there are also other reasons that calm my logical mind, and my sweet sweet Mayhem, who with just a few words, can make my heart flutter, or calm my nerves.
Like the song says "I finally found the love of a lifetime..." :loveshowe
....and so I go.
jseal
10-14-2006, 06:37 PM
lizzardbits,
Well good for you! That's taking control of your life! :thumbs:
Steph
10-14-2006, 06:43 PM
we are sappy romantic mushballs
Wow, you learn something new every day! :D :D
Congrats, guys!!!!! A nice early birthday present for Mayhem!
Neige
10-14-2006, 06:44 PM
Good luck, have fun and congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lilith
10-14-2006, 06:53 PM
Congrats!
How about your kiddos? Are they excited about it?
rabbit
10-14-2006, 06:57 PM
Way to go Lizz...chase that dream!
sodaklostsoul
10-14-2006, 08:26 PM
WOW and Double WOW!!!!!!!!!! I'm speechless. Congrats!!!!!
PantyFanatic
10-14-2006, 08:46 PM
NO! Now I have to 'watch' ANOTHER flight schedule/report :hair:
;)
Fangtasia
10-14-2006, 08:48 PM
Congrats!
Wishing you all the best!!
lizzardbits
10-14-2006, 10:41 PM
Congrats!
How about your kiddos? Are they excited about it?
Not sure if they quite grasp it yet, for that matter, I am still having a bit of a time wrapping my mind around it.
I like that they'll end up with an English accent....it sounds so sophistocated compared to my American twangy accent.
Also, my dreams of going into education may not be put on the back burner---Mayhem needs to do some more checking, but I may be able to be a classroom assistant, and get some classroom time---hopefully.
Scarecrow
10-14-2006, 10:45 PM
Lizzardbits, it looks like thing may be looking up for the two of you. Hope all goes smoothly and you have a happy time in jolly ol' England.
wyndhy
10-15-2006, 07:49 PM
good luck! and don't be nervous. embrace the change cause, holy crap, what an adventure! besides, you're wiley and hardworking. whatever happens, i'm willing to bet a lot that you and yours will e just fine.
congrats you two!!
gekkogecko
10-16-2006, 09:05 AM
Beware strange lizards offering unsolicited advice.
osuche
10-16-2006, 11:08 AM
I wish you luck and love. Enjoy the adventure of getting to live abroad -- few peopl eget to experience this blessing.
WildIrish
10-16-2006, 01:52 PM
I'm very happy for the two of you. It's got to be exciting and scary all at once, and when the dust settles...you'll be so relieved to be "living your dream."
(((((Lizz & Mayhem)))))
mayhem1978
10-16-2006, 02:38 PM
Thank you everyone for your kind words and wishes. We will keep you all informed and im sure things will go really well.
PF at least its only ONE flight for now :P
CuteCoupleOz
10-18-2006, 04:41 AM
((((((((((Lizzardbits)))))))))) .......I know exactly what you're feeling......but you're a strong woman and you'll be just fine........many happy thoughts as you get everything ready.
-----kathy1
Oldfart
10-18-2006, 04:52 AM
You have such a good start, make the most of it.
I'm glad the two of you will be together soon... good luck!
LixyChick
10-19-2006, 04:37 AM
(((((Lizz & Mayhem)))))
Just remember, "change is good". The fear is of the unknown and it's normal. But if you didn't try you'd always wonder...what if..............
I wish you the very best in love and family, health and money!
dicksbro
10-19-2006, 05:10 AM
Just think, now you'll be able to visit a whole slew of countries each weekend! :)
Of course, making to the next "PAGAN" may be a bit more tricky. :(
Oh well, just happy for you two getting the chance to be ... well ... happy! :D
lizzardbits
10-19-2006, 08:10 AM
Of course, making to the next "PAGAN" may be a bit more tricky. :(
perhaps we can have a UK PAGAN?!?
rockintime
10-19-2006, 04:58 PM
Glad to hear the good news, Liz and Mayhem. Best wishes for a great life together.
(((((((((Liz & Mayhem)))))))))) I'm so glad you two will soon be together. I know for my own personal experience how hard a long distance relationship can be. Best of luck to you both.
dicksbro
10-19-2006, 05:32 PM
perhaps we can have a UK PAGAN?!?
Now there's an idea! :x:
mayhem1978
10-28-2006, 09:00 AM
Ok ppl, get your prayer mats, hats, undies or whatever on.
Our paperwork has hit the office in Chicago. Now we have to wait (again) good job it isnt for as long as the other places.
Eeep
im crossing everything that is possible here
PantyFanatic
10-28-2006, 09:47 AM
Now DON'T let the lawyers (http://www.pixies-place.com:81/forums/showthread.php?t=26943&highlight=barrister) near it! :banghead:
dicksbro
10-28-2006, 03:25 PM
Now DON'T let the lawyers near it :banghead:
Good advice, although did you have to use the profanity? Couldn't you have said those guys with the white wigs or something like that?
sodaklostsoul
10-29-2006, 12:48 AM
:wish:
PantyFanatic
10-29-2006, 01:03 AM
I'd rather have him here than her there, but we have to make our Lizard happy.
sodaklostsoul
10-29-2006, 01:07 AM
He'll take good care of her PF. :)
mayhem1978
10-29-2006, 02:10 AM
PF I would much rather be moving to the US than have her move here...BUT the problems she had finding a job and somewhere for us to live kinda ruled that out.
I will look after her and we will return to the US
Loulabelle
10-29-2006, 03:32 AM
I'd rather have him here than her there, but we have to make our Lizard happy.
It's not THAT bad this side of the Atlantic, y'know!
Don't worry - I'll look after them!
PantyFanatic
10-29-2006, 10:35 AM
It's not THAT bad this side of the Atlantic, y'know!
Don't worry - I'll look after them!
I'm not worried that it's "bad" where the time count starts. It may well be getting better than here overall. I'm just not looking to have Pixies get further apart, we need them closer together. I'd get us an island (little smaller than that one ;) ) and all Pixies could move together, but then we wouldn't need to be an online group then. :rofl:
lizzardbits
10-31-2006, 07:04 AM
Could I order a semi tropical island? one that stays around 72F/22.2C year round? I hate being cold. and i want virgin pina coladas and a huge fire pit for all of us to dance around and a big water tight hut/house to party in and so on and so forth LOL
Seriously, Thank you for being concerned and supportive. I don't have "cold feet" about marrying Mayhem, or moving to England, but I sure do have about 748,744,238,452,345 excited and nervous butterflies in my stomach all day, so the support and concern help to calm those butterflies.
First thing, first---first we must get the visa approved for me to go there. I need to make some phone calls today and I hope that they go well. *fingers crossed*
lizzardbits
10-31-2006, 03:42 PM
First thing, first---first we must get the visa approved for me to go there. I need to make some phone calls today and I hope that they go well. *fingers crossed*
the calls went well and we should hear in about a week if I get the visa and go to my Mayhem on the 29th of Nov, landing the 30th in England.
-=~Zooooom~=- this all moves fast!
dicksbro
10-31-2006, 03:57 PM
First thing, first---first we must get the visa approved for me to go there. I need to make some phone calls today and I hope that they go well. *fingers crossed*
Feel free to use all of us as references. :thumbs:
... er ... maybe you want to think about that. :(
gekkogecko
11-02-2006, 10:49 AM
Could I order a semi tropical island? one that stays around 72F/22.2C year round?
Good idea; lizards need proper basking temperatures.
lizzardbits
11-02-2006, 09:45 PM
WE ARE APPROVED!!!
I got the message tonight and the very nice lady said that I am approved for a fiance' visa for the UK and I will be receiving the paperwork back, via Fed Ex, within the next week!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was so happy that I called Mayhem at 2am his time, and hollered down the phone at him that we did it, we are approved, I am free to fly over anytime now! Poor guy probably will think it a dream and read it here to confirm what I told him, LOL!
This is what we wanted in some form or another since Stonehenge, June 21st 2005. WE DID IT!!!! We can finally get married!!!! :loveshowe
Thank you all for your support and going through this with us! Now----
Let's Celebrate!!!!
sodaklostsoul
11-02-2006, 09:56 PM
:cheers:
mayhem1978
11-03-2006, 01:17 AM
***very tired me***
Yeah baby... 1:50 is very very very early but that is the sort of news i dont mind being woken up for.
Man things have finally gone our way. its been a long time in the making but the end is finally in sight and what an end it will be.
YAY
Oldfart
11-03-2006, 02:04 AM
Yay!!
dicksbro
11-03-2006, 02:35 AM
Cheers and congrats to the both of you. Just be sure to remember your home here at Pixies!
((((( HUGS ))))) to the happy couple! :)
lizzardbits
11-28-2006, 12:04 PM
I am taking off tomorrow at about 2pm Central Standard Time and landing in England at about 4am central on Thursday. (shhhh, but I get to be with my man again and have some hot and sweaty nookie!!!--it has been since August ya know, LOL)
I am packing up my computer now, so I'll be off line until Thursday. Just wanted to let all my Pixies family know. (((((Pixies)))))
sodaklostsoul
11-28-2006, 12:17 PM
YAY!!!!!!!!! So are you just going or taking the little ones too. Details, we need details!!! Is your stuff in storage, how much to you get to take?
IowaMan
11-28-2006, 12:30 PM
:wave: We'll miss you back here in the Hawkeye state Lizz but I've got a feeling you're going to be a tad bit happier across the pond. ;)
sodaklostsoul
11-28-2006, 01:30 PM
Thanks for the info Mayhem..........................have a good trip Lizz!! Be safe my friend, loves ya!
dicksbro
11-28-2006, 01:42 PM
Good luck, God bless, and best wishes to one of our very special people Lizz! Let us know when you get there ... although we'll understand a brief hello to mayhem first. :D
(Okay, maybe not so brief. :rolleyes2 )
Liz...I wish you a safe and peaceful flight to England. The butterflies will fly away. :) Have a wonderful reunion with Mayhem. :) If you can, (and you're not too *AHEM* busy), post some pics of wedding and all when things settle down. Warm and heartfelt wishes to you. :)
wyndhy
11-28-2006, 06:08 PM
great news!!!!!! ((hugs))
osuche
11-29-2006, 02:29 PM
Congratulations! Hope the flight goes well and the reunion goes even better!
Loulabelle
11-29-2006, 04:09 PM
Yay for you Lizz and Mayhem!
Fly safe and see you soon!
Lou & Fussy
x x x
PantyFanatic
11-29-2006, 11:03 PM
I just LUV saying "she's on Aer Lingus right now". :licker:
:p
Oldfart
11-29-2006, 11:41 PM
They speak a foreign tongue on that plane.
gekkogecko
11-30-2006, 08:13 AM
but I get to be with my man again and have some hot and sweaty nookie!!!
I am packing up my computer now, so I'll be off line until Thursday. Just wanted to let all my Pixies family know.
So, it's Thursday. Did you unpack the 'puter & set up the webcam before the hot sweaty nookie?
mayhem1978
11-30-2006, 01:33 PM
Well shes here!!!! YAY
After a long trip my baby has arrived safe and sound in my arms. I worried over her first flight cause it was delayed BIG time... like almost 3 hours and that would have meant a sprint to catch the next only to find out, when she arrived here, that she actually caught an earlier one.. See check in staff are helpful sometimes.
The re-union was everything we hoped it would be. We are both very tired right now, me after waking at 4am GMT and never getting back to sleep and her after a long trip.. We will both sleep well tonight... eventually.
sodaklostsoul
11-30-2006, 04:22 PM
:thumb:
PantyFanatic
11-30-2006, 04:41 PM
.....her first flight cause it was delayed BIG time... like almost 3 hours and that would have meant a sprint to catch the next only to find out, when she arrived here, that she actually caught an earlier one..
She only did that so I'd be watching the wrong little plane blip across my screen.:hair:
Glad to hear you two are back in each other's arms! :)
Loulabelle
11-30-2006, 09:10 PM
Yay! Welcome to Blighty Lizz! I've been keeping it warm for you....OK, so maybe not warm exactly, but the welcome is!
PantyFanatic
11-30-2006, 10:03 PM
OK smarty panties! So you picked the right day (http://www.nbc5.com/news/10434721/detail.html).
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