osuche
09-03-2006, 02:28 PM
OK....So here's a poll question for ya.
When I was younger, I believed firmly that the first orgasm was just to get things moving along. After the first time he came, he could focus on me better and we could have some *really* hot sex. ;)
Typical scenario: I'd tease him with my tongue for a bit, then I'd slide on top of him and ride him hard to an orgasm. Since it takes a while for me to get in the groove, his first orgasm was a good way to get me all tingly and ready for more. THEN the good stuff could happen ~~ more licking, teasing, exploring, and (eventually) cumming. By the end of a night of good sex, I expected him to have cum 2 or 3 times and me the same. But it always started with him having an orgasm.
However....as we age, I find that I sometimes get gypped in this scenario. After orgasm #1 he has very little energy left and basically the night is over. I feel frustrated and somewhat sad. I think I need to change my routine to something that doesn't involve him cumming first. :( But it takes so long for me to cum without that first hard ride that we both get frustrated.
So......what do I do?
Poll question asks if you like having a good hard orgasm first before a longer session. But I'd also like you to weigh in with comments about what works for you. :D
:corn:
When I was younger, I believed firmly that the first orgasm was just to get things moving along. After the first time he came, he could focus on me better and we could have some *really* hot sex. ;)
Typical scenario: I'd tease him with my tongue for a bit, then I'd slide on top of him and ride him hard to an orgasm. Since it takes a while for me to get in the groove, his first orgasm was a good way to get me all tingly and ready for more. THEN the good stuff could happen ~~ more licking, teasing, exploring, and (eventually) cumming. By the end of a night of good sex, I expected him to have cum 2 or 3 times and me the same. But it always started with him having an orgasm.
However....as we age, I find that I sometimes get gypped in this scenario. After orgasm #1 he has very little energy left and basically the night is over. I feel frustrated and somewhat sad. I think I need to change my routine to something that doesn't involve him cumming first. :( But it takes so long for me to cum without that first hard ride that we both get frustrated.
So......what do I do?
Poll question asks if you like having a good hard orgasm first before a longer session. But I'd also like you to weigh in with comments about what works for you. :D
:corn: