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souls_cry2000
09-01-2006, 05:53 PM
In a healthy long term relationship what are some things that you shouldn't fantasize and masturbate to?
alspals69
09-01-2006, 06:05 PM
The Sabre Dance by Khachaturian
A risk assessment must be carried out at the very least before hand.
Loulabelle
09-01-2006, 10:00 PM
I believe that masturbation and fantasies are a matter for you, your head and your hand. I would not want to label any fantasy as 'wrong' since they rarely reflect on any real life feelings towards your partner.

Attaching guilt to fantasies is probably very unhealthy, however being aware that certain fantasies should always remain in that realm is healthy, sensible and moral.
Lilith
09-01-2006, 11:55 PM
It's all good.
rockintime
09-02-2006, 01:55 AM
Don't worry about what you fantacize about. There enough other things to obsess about. Fantasies are your mind's way of playing. They're fantasies, not actualities. Enjoy.
PantyFanatic
09-02-2006, 06:51 AM
yep, yep, yep. What they ^^^ said. :sad:
Pita
09-02-2006, 08:55 AM
I agree with my fellow posters on this one.
osuche
09-02-2006, 10:30 AM
Child porn. Animals.

Everything else is good
rabbit
09-02-2006, 12:48 PM
Child porn. Animals.

Everything else is good


What she said plus anything with killing or maiming in it.
Teddy Bear
09-02-2006, 02:34 PM
What she said plus anything with killing or maiming in it.

I agree!!! BUT......

those are our limits. Can we impose them on someone else?

Everybody has thier own kink..... personally I'm not into silky panties but hear some people are.
Teddy Bear
09-02-2006, 02:36 PM
In a healthy long term relationship what are some things that you shouldn't fantasize and masturbate to?

I think anything goes.

Just keep fantasy seperate from reality!

They don't always mix well. ;)
jseal
09-02-2006, 08:34 PM
souls_cry2000,

Fantasize about anything you wish.

Don't confuse fantasy with reality.
souls_cry2000
09-02-2006, 10:26 PM
Jseal, I never confuse the one with the other. I however find certain images disconcerting at times. Especially considering my deep love and affection for Sexychrissy
jseal
09-03-2006, 05:36 AM
...I however find certain images disconcerting at times. ...
souls_cry2000,

Fair enough; don't fantasize about those images.
Teddy Bear
09-04-2006, 02:38 AM
souls_cry2000,

Fair enough; don't fantasize about those images.
Your fantasy is yours and yours alone. It should be everything you want it to be. You create it to please yourself and only you.
jseal
09-04-2006, 06:20 AM
..You create it to please yourself and only you.
Teddy Bear,

Exactomundo!
dicksbro
09-05-2006, 06:16 AM
Bunch of smart PIxies, here. You betcha'! ;)
scotzoidman
09-05-2006, 09:59 AM
I however find certain images disconcerting at times.
That's when it's time to change the channell...
Jude30
09-05-2006, 05:59 PM
Jseal, I never confuse the one with the other. I however find certain images disconcerting at times. Especially considering my deep love and affection for Sexychrissy

I guess I'm confused. Are these images being masturbated to being viewed by you or her? If it's you don't use those images. If it's her it's her fantasy and you're approaching jealousy of you're trying to tell her what she can and cannot look at and be turned on by. This is bad.

Fantasizing about anything is pretty much OK as long as they remain fantasies. There are of course fantasies that should never ever be acted on.
jennaflower
09-10-2006, 01:07 AM
Ex's.... cuz if you are... there are issues that may need to be addressed... just my opinion.
Oldfart
09-15-2006, 08:30 PM
Baby harp seals?

Fantasies are meant to be comforting, not confronting.

Any Red Dwarf fan will remember Rimmer's fantasies always turned to shit because that was his expectation.