Has your attitude towards sex changed?

[campingboy]

As we get older, many of our views, ideals, dreams, and expectations change. How has your thoughts, dreams, and hopes towards sex changed.

[rtctfield]

Most definitely! As with most, opportunities for sexy activities were greatly diminished when our new baby came. Sex might be less frequent, but it is 100 times better.

[Lilith]

I was a prude until I hit 30. No anal, rarely oral, very close minded about fetishes, and certainly not comfortable enough to talk to others about issues so private.

Now, well ummm, I'm a porn princess.

[lizzardbits]

well, porn princess sounds a bit pink and fluffy. I still say....

Lilith is a Sex Goddess!
http://www.metroactive.com/papers/metro/04.11.02/gifs/sprinkle-0215.jpg

[dicksbro]

She is that, Lizz, she is indeed.

I think the biggest change is that I'm probably much more accepting of my wife's feelings. I'm not sure when we first got married that I really understood that her like/desire for sex may not match mine. But then, we were both young and for each, the other was our first. Took a while for me to better appreciate her feelings and points of view. But, that was also part of the joy of learning about each other.

[Lilith]

It's all good but that snake scares the b'jeezus out of me :D

[mildy kinky cpl]

hi there....we're newbies to the forum.
when hubby & i were younger we were pretty closed minded & stayed away from alot of the sexual taboos. we have grown together as a couple & our relationship has gotten stronger too. as we have matured we have learned to be open minded and have changed our views. hence being here right now, lol.

[Lilith]

welcome mildly kinky couple! :wave:

Quite possibly you will graduate to outlandishly kinky couple from hanging out with the pervs here ;)

[Re]\[egade]

actually when i was younger was pretty much get in...get off.....now that i'm older i love to try new things and take my time and see what happens...

[osuche]

I go through peaks and troughs in my sexuality. I have never been a prude (always loved anal, bondage, threesomes, public sex, etc) but some times I feel sexier than others.

About a year and a half ago I was at my apex...I couldn't get enough and I was thinking about sex all the time. Now....recently, at least, I haven't been in the mood much. Who knows why. Hormones? Stress? Just focused other places?

I think the thing that's happened over the past 5 years is that I am more reserved in public than I ever used to be, and I flirt less with strangers. However, I am still very confident in myself and my sexuality...and I still believe I am a pretty good "catch" in the bedroom, and outside it too. ;)

[pool929]

Im 54 now and i wonder if ill be able to preform well enough to keep my wife happy. we both enjoy sex. but i dont have the staying power i had at 30. But im still chugging along. just worry thats all.

[txgrneyes]

Yes it has. I was like Lilith until I hit about 30 and met some fun people. They showed me that sex could be fun. My ex always talked about doin things but when it came down to it he wouldn't and I was to shy to bring it up. Plus was brought up beleiveing that sex was just between you and your husband and he is always in control in the bedroom. So what you want was not important. Well since then I have started speaking up and being quite vocal about my wants, needs and desires. After all a woman wants what a woman wants. And she wont rest till she gets it.

[Cjack]

It's when you get an "empty nest" that it gets better.

[NirvanaJane]

I used to be much wilder.. more slutty, when I was younger.. had lots of sex with different partners (still, my number of lovers isn't THAT high), and did crazy things... now, I've been with the same man for five years.. (almost)... his sex drive has never been high.. it took a lot of me calming down, for me to stop being focused on how much sex we WEREN'T having, and to focus on how wonderful the sex we WERE having, was... the sex is fabulous.. I am completely satisfied every time... and no other man has ever satisfied me before.. it's fabulous.

[flutelady]

I started to awake sexually at age 43, and I'm pretty much wide awake now. There are a couple of things I'm not into, and I don't see that changing... but I wouldn't call myself inhibited, MUCH unlike I was in my 20's and 30's.