Popping her cherry

[dark2400]

I'm currently 19 years old and met this sweet girl, who is 18, but she has never had sex before. What would be the easiest way to break her in?

[SexKittten_18]

Break her in? =/ Buddy... if you think that something that can be painful and sometimes not very pleasurable for a girl (especially if it's her first time) is 'breaking her in'... you need to rethink having sex.

Sorry if this is harsh, but that kind of thinking is just aggravating IMO

[Fangtasia]

She aint a horse *LOL*

Remember this can be rather painful (not always though) for a woman.....you need to have the patience to ensure she is very aroused and comfortable with the whole thing...you need to ensure it is special for her....take your time....there will be plenty of time for your share of 'you' moments later

[WildIrish]

/me puts away the saddle and riding crop. :(





Unless someone else is interested? ;)

[Lilith]

You be the pony first :D

[Aqua]

Lil, are you talking to dark2400 or WI? :p

[Lilith]

Yes:D

[WildIrish]

:eek:

[Lilith]

Giddy Yup ;)

[wyndhy]

^^^^^^ahahahaha.....yeee-hawwwwww


I'm currently 19 years old and met this sweet girl, who is 18, but she has never had sex before. What would be the easiest way to break her in?

as long as she's willing:
talk. relax her. sex up her mind, as well as her bod. use lube and stretch her with gentle fingers first. using your fingers to make her cum and pushing your cock in right when she's orgasming may take the sting off of it, but keep in mind after you've broken her hymen, you may need to stop if she's in pain. speaking of stopping, stop if she asks you to whenever she asks you to, you won't be doing her any favors by just getting it over with. and remember that just because her hymen is broken, that doesn't mean that the next time it won't hurt. most of all though, make sure she's ready emotionally as well as physically to lose her virginity; if she isn't willing to give it to you, you can't have it.

[dark2400]

Sorry for my crude terms, not very good at finding the best words to describe my intentions. I've heard that it can be very painful, or hardly felt at all, some I've heard to keep going if it hurts, because the pleasure will overcome the pain ect. and the opposite. Should it be just dependant on the situation?



As for Lilith, go watch Discovery channel, the only thing tamed hoses get to do is hump a god damned metal post :S

[Mercury_Maniac]

ok first you need to run break-in oil for 500 miles, then change the oil and filter.......oh wait a minute its not a brand new car ;)



Not very knowledgeable on the subject, but one of the best things you can do is use lube and let her make all the moves, you on bottom and her on top, that way she can control the speed of penetration and how far she wants it to go in.


and no need to get angry with the long-time members, they are just joking and mean well ;)

[Lilith]

They all buck a bit when you first put the bridle on ;)

[WildIrish]

^^^ The Hunk Whisperer :D

[wyndhy]

Should it be just dependant on the situation? exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

[AngelicVampires]

Your first step in this thing should be to make sure that you are BOTH mentally prepared for such a decision. Things can go wrong and you need to make sure you discuss all the possibilities before you actually have sex. If you both talk everything out first and are absolutely without-a-doubt sure that are ready for it, take it slow. There is a big difference between "I'm sure I'm ready" and "Yeah, I think I'm ok with it." It can be EXTREMELY painful not only the first time but also for the next few times. I would suggest some gentle fingering first (and don't be afraid to use lube because dryness = friction = owww). Listen to her. If she says stop, STOP. Ask her what feels good and what doesn't. Learn everything you can while fingering her (with her permission of course). Remember, you are stretching flesh that is not used to being stretched and that can lead to tearing. Just go slow and be on your toes about her comfort and thoughts.

MAIN POINT: "No" and "I'm not ready yet" = NO