Swinging

[whimsical muse]

This is my first time posting here, just wanted to say hello and that I'm an admirer of the site: it's a testiment to the power of open minded adults all over the world. I'm in the south west of the UK by the way, if there's any others from here out there.

Also wondering if I could pick your brains about something... I broke up with my ex just recently, and I wanted to try some open minded no strings attached fun with other willing people for a while. I know people are out there wanting to try this also, and while I'm sexually confident, it isn't in me just to ask people straight out, even if i suspect they are interested... I thought swinging sites etc might be an idea, but they all charge the earth... Any ideas?

Much Appreciated xx

[Lilith]

You can join swinging groups and attend their "parties" but here in the U.S. they charge single males more to attend.

[Fangtasia]

Australia is the same....single males are charged more

Maybe try your local Adult store? My local one has a free contacts book

[whimsical muse]

Thanks for the advice guys. To be honest I think I'm probably being a little hasty, something'll come up eventually... :D

[Steph]

Welcome to the posting world!

Sorry to hear about your break up. I hope some fun, kinky times are in your near future!

In Canada, men have to pay a lot more, too.

[whimsical muse]

Thanks!

I'm getting this thing now, I suspect barking up the entirely wrong tree. I'm just looking for like minded groups of people and individuals looking to experiment and try things. I have no desire just to meet strangers and simply get my end away and be done with it, I could go to any rubbish bar/club and do that if I desired, but it's hardly mind-expanding stuff...

[Casperr]

Thanks!

I'm getting this thing now, I suspect barking up the entirely wrong tree. I'm just looking for like minded groups of people and individuals looking to experiment and try things. I have no desire just to meet strangers and simply get my end away and be done with it, I could go to any rubbish bar/club and do that if I desired, but it's hardly mind-expanding stuff...

Try something along the lines of Adult Friend Finder or the like. There's all sorts of people on there looking for all sorts of things - from relationships, swinging partners, fuck-buddies, one night stands. Get yourself set on a site like that, you can pick and choose plenty.

How long ago did you break up? Make sure you know what you're doing, emotionally, if you're looking for rebound-sex....

CasperTG