A Ex GF

[kitana]

Hi Everyone,

My s/o has this ex gf who once a time ago started alot of trouble caused by her and him ( mainly him). She was moving to Maylaisia last November for her studies.

Now a few day's ago my s/o and I were doing our weekly shopping at the supermaket, and we saw some that very much so resembled his ex gf. My s/o and I had a laught about and a few jokes that she never went back home and she was lying about the whole thing, and then forgot about it.

Now today he received a email from her staing that she wanted to be friends again and that she didn't want to start more trouble but just to chat...

I am not really sure what to think about all of that, I mean what are her intentions with this email. It's not that I don't want them talking I just don't want to go through all the same problems before as it nearly split my s/o and I up.....

Any one can help?!?!?!? :o :(

[Lilith]

Isn't you S/O a member here?

[kitana]

Hi Lilith,
No he isn't a member he doesn't even know I use this site..

Why do you say that? :confused:

[LixyChick]

With bonifide experience behind this response, I offer this...

If you and you boyfriend are "SERIOUS" about one another. If this is the love of your life and he's told you that you are his. If you have MAJOR plans and expectations for a future together (move-in, marriage...the like)...trust that he'll NOT persue a correspondence with the ex. If he insists that he must, needs to keep a line open for her...try to imagine a three way. She's hedging her bet that she still has a piece of his heart. She ISN'T thinking of your feelings (if, indeed, she knows about you through him).

If he hasn't told her about you...smack him upside the head and MAKE HIM tell her about you!

More info needed to make a more appropriate response...ya know?

[kitana]

what other infomation would you like I am not sure sorry

[Mark Vieth]

Well I think that you have done the right thing here. I would also talk to him about this and make sure that he understands how you feel. Once you have done that and you know for a fact that he no longer wants to talk to her, then I suggest that either you or him writes her an email back telling her to go "sniff" around some place else. The last thing the 2 of you need is someone else causing unnecessary trouble.

[Lilith]

Wow! You two have remarkably similar avs???? and Mark didn't you have a girlfriend from that area as well??????

I suppose you'd be able to give her some amazing insight.

[Mark Vieth]

Wow! You two have remarkably similar avs???? and Mark didn't you have a girlfriend from that area as well??????

I suppose you'd be able to give her some amazing insight.

Let's not get into that now Lil. I ain't getting into that one again! Man what a can of worms that was. I also noticed her avatar as well, more than likely she got it from some site or a friend sent it to her. Either way it looks good.

[Lilith]

THUD!
























sorry that was just my ass falling off a turnip truck.:D

[jbh3]

I'm sorry...I think I wandered into my son's room by accident...is this AIM chat???