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jonjon
12-11-2005, 04:04 PM
I no this may sound strange...

Which sex dislikes performing oral sex the most... ?

Tell me what you think and what your sex is to get an idea...

Thanks

jonjon

TinTennessee
12-11-2005, 04:12 PM
OMG What is there to dislike?!!!!!

jonjon
12-11-2005, 04:51 PM
Just trying to figure if i met the only woman in the universe who doesn´t like to do it or have it done...

Me... nothing i like more than to suck a pussy. well maybe there is something i like more but sucking pussy is a close second.

jonjon

The Master™
12-11-2005, 05:50 PM
Okay, are we talking giving or receiving???

I've given oral to all the women (but one) that I've had dealings with... But that was because her husband came home before I could get started... ;)

As for them doing it to me, only two have tried it but didn't like the idea of me cumming in their mouths... The others almost sucked me dry!!! :D

wyndhy
12-11-2005, 08:25 PM
both and neither.

there are people who just don't. gender has nothing to do with it

1nutworld
12-11-2005, 08:37 PM
My Ex sure didn't like giving it, but it was mostly due to a jaw problem of her's...well thats how the story went anyway.

She also had her moments when it came down to MY giving it to her as well, which to be honest....I just did NOT understand.

OK..you don't want to have sex and that dissapoints me but you don't want me to go down on you when I WANT To??? wtf??

Enough about her, I love doing it to my partner, and like it when it's done to me.

txgrneyes
12-11-2005, 09:33 PM
Me personally ....I LOVE IT>>>GETTING AND GIVING.....So I just dont understand why anyone would dislike it.

Although, maybe it is a TX thing.... but I do have trouble finding guys round here that like giving to the girl but dont have a problem with receiving it.

The Shadow
12-11-2005, 09:49 PM
Me personally ....I LOVE IT>>>GETTING AND GIVING.....So I just dont understand why anyone would dislike it.

Although, maybe it is a TX thing.... but I do have trouble finding guys round here that like giving to the girl but dont have a problem with receiving it.


WELL I guess you have never been to my part of TEXAS !!!

Navarre
12-11-2005, 10:06 PM
I'm with jojon on this one. There's only one thing better than my sucking on a pussy. :D

Her sucking me dry is just simply a requisite.

Loulabelle
12-12-2005, 02:59 AM
Well in our household, I probably give it more often than I receive it.....that's to say, if I feel like it, I'll do it, any time and place, whereas he only feels like it when I'm fresh out of the bath and shaven smooth that day.

Having said that, it's virtually impossible to make him cum from giving him oral, where as it's virtually impossible for him to get away from me until I've cum when he's doing it to me!

Fangtasia
12-12-2005, 03:34 AM
Personally i enjoy getting my puss licked...but only after i've showered...i just cant relax enough otherwise

As for sucking...well i enjoy it...but i don't like doing it ALL the time either

looloo
12-12-2005, 04:52 AM
Well, I am a firm beleiver that females dislike oral the most.
Most of the girls I have known in my time have hated giving oral, but ALL the males that I have known love it.
I myself personally, I am not a big fan of giving oral, I haven't given oral much in my time, and don't plan to again.

SexKittten_18
12-12-2005, 05:13 AM
I love getting oral, it's one of my most favourite things when it comes to foreplay =D And as far as I'm concerned, right now, I would give anything to have him in my mouth, moaning and running his fingers through my hair as I keep him pinned back against the wall...mmmmmm...I think I need a shower now ^^ I never liked giving oral... but I think it was because I didnt like the smell and I felt that it was viewed as something owed. So I rarely did it. But I have a new outlook on it and cant wait to try with someone new =D

Oldfart
12-12-2005, 06:01 AM
If you can't talk about sex, what can you talk about?

Loulabelle
12-12-2005, 07:38 AM
I'm a bit like you sexkitten_18...I didn't used to enjoy it because my ex always whined and nagged me for it.

I love to give oral, but I don't like to be asked for it....if I wanna do it, then I'll do it, if I'm not in the mood, then I won't. I've learnt that it's the best way to put him in the mood though, and since I'm generally hornier than him, I often use it as my no-fail seduction technique....he doesn't seem to mind though. ;)

WildIrish
12-12-2005, 11:31 AM
I've often said "I'll give you oral anytime, anywhere...at the drop of a hat." Mrs. WI knows I enjoy performing cunnilingus but I still don't think she's grasped the depths of my love of it.

As for her giving oral to me, well, she'll do it now and again. I know it's not her favorite thing to do, for whatever reason, and though I'd like it more often...it's not an issue. I appreciate it when she's in the mood for it.

That having been said, I don't know if it's a gender thing. I think it's a personal preference.

Jax
12-12-2005, 12:19 PM
I would have to say that women are more the victim of the stereotype than men. Not sure if there is merit to that or not. Fortunately at my house it is on both her menu and mine!

imaginewithme
12-12-2005, 02:33 PM
I give it to him almost every time we're going to have sex.... I don't always ask to have it done to me, would rather just get down to business most of the time.
Nothing like feeling him grow harder and harder just by the touch of my tongue.

Coaster
12-12-2005, 02:40 PM
MMMMmmmmmm..... I'm an equal opportunity giver and receiver!

txgrneyes
12-15-2005, 12:13 AM
WELL I guess you have never been to my part of TEXAS !!!

Well hell, then when are you getting back to TX....

Do you consider it cheating if we are just going to "eat out"?

jonjon
12-28-2005, 12:15 PM
Well I guess I should refrase the question...

Who (which sex) doesn't like to get oral sex done to them.

And from opposite sexes opinion... why?

I mean I like to do it... I find it super hot to do I mean I get very hard just doing it... and I love to have it done to me as well but I don't understand then (no reciprocation implied, demanded or expected) how she doesn't like having it done...

Is this common among woman... How many women can say the don't like to receive oral sex from a man...?

Jonjon

SexKittten_18
12-28-2005, 01:28 PM
Maybe it hurts her? Some women are very very sensitive down there, and it might hurt when someone goes down on her. -shrugs- just my 2 cents =)

Loulabelle
12-29-2005, 07:25 AM
I lurrrrrve to receive it but only if it's done right.

I had an ex who used to use way too much saliva and it used to drip down to the cheeks of my behind, causing them to get sticky and, after a short while, sore. It hurt like hell and was very unpleasant. He used to deny it was his fault and say it was my juices, but it's never happened with anyone else but him, so I know he was wrong!

Very difficult when you try to direct someone to do something differently and they just ignore you....trust me, it happens more than you might think.

jonjon
12-30-2005, 08:09 AM
I don´t know if she really has given me a chance to perform badly... in 23 years we have had 1 69 and I think i was allowed to suck on her panty covered pussy 2 or 3 times...

Not much to judge from I think

Anyway thank you all for your comments... just trying to understand the woman I am married too... hoping to improve the relations...ship.

for now hugs
jonjon

Jude30
12-30-2005, 04:28 PM
Why is it so hard for people to ask their partners about sex? If I want to try something new I talk to my wife about it.

It really is that simple. Sit her down and ask, "honey, what do you have against me performing oral sex on you?" I imagine the problem is she was raised in a family where sex was dirty, and you just didn't touch the naughty bits. She has this so ingrained in her that she is uncomfortable with you getting up close and personal with her vagina. She can't relax and she can't understand what you can possibly get out of wanting to lick on something she has spent her whole life convinced is dirty and nasty.

Hell my wife love love loves for me to go down on her but only AFTER she's bathed. If she doesn't feel she's clean down there she has a hard time relaxing enough to get any pleasure from it.

dicksbro
12-31-2005, 03:19 AM
I enjoy giving and receiving ... and, to a lesser degree ... I think my wife does also. I think the difference is, the very thought of oral sex almost always puts me in the mood ... whereas I think it takes the right mood for her to really think about it.

Jax
01-02-2006, 12:53 PM
At my house, we both enjoy giving and receiving. Although I will tell you that I think my wife goes through the times where she'd rather not recieve as she doesn't feel clean enough or something. Not exactly sure. But we make do just fine in all cases.

Myst
01-07-2006, 10:29 AM
I love giving and receiving. I'll go down on my husband any time, any place and I love it...but I don't want him to go down on me if I don't feel clean...just because I'm thinking of him. Of course, he sometimes ignores my feeble protests, and who am I to complain when it feels soooooo good? :D

I've had some friends, both male and female, who don't really enjoy giving...but I don't know anyone who doesn't enjoy receiving it. I'm with those of you who say that it isn't a gender thing...it's a personal preference thing.

denim
01-11-2006, 08:58 AM
I love getting it and giving it but only after a shower. Being uncut I am worried about my cleanliness even after a shower. Also when I receive it, although I love it, I feel guilty that I am not giving as much pleasure.

When I give it I have a short tongue and feel as though I have to keep coming up for air. So being single, I need someone to practice on. Any offers....

lizzardbits
01-25-2006, 09:56 PM
I love getting it and giving it but only after a shower. Being uncut I am worried about my cleanliness even after a shower.....

Lucky you that you are uncut!!!! being cut doesn't make you cleaner, daily hygene habits make you cleaner. I love my Honey's Yummo uncut cock! MMMmmhhummmmm!

Mark Vieth
01-26-2006, 04:51 AM
I love to give oral to my partner. She doesn't like to do it at all and I don't ask her anymore. I did try to ask her why she didn't like doing it, but she didn't want to talk about it. But she loves when I do it to her and she can't get enough. It's also my favourite way of waking her up in the morning from time to time. :D