Swinging

[Bluetigertone]

We are currently playing with the idea of joining a swinging site and was wondering if any of our fellow pixies could enlighten us? This is something we have thought and talked about for along time, we have a very strong relationship.

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[WildIrish]

Always hang on with one hand. :dizzy:

Sorry I'm no help...never did the swinger thing but always wanted to.

[Galatea]

Remember who you are coming home to at night. Discuss with your spouse/s.o. what you want to do, what you don't want to do, what you want them to do and what you don't want them to do. And let them do the same. Also, discuss your expectations FAR ahead of the bedroom with those you may be inviting in. Communication isn't just important, it is a NECCESSITY!

And don't jump into something with the first couple that comes along just to say you've done something. Remember that anything you are doing with your swinging partners, you are sharing with your s.o. So its a matter of not only protecting yourself from diseases and unwanted pregnancy like it was when you were single. You have to worry about someone else too and if you love them this means you'll worry about them more than yourself as well.

Be safe. Be careful. Be sensitive. Be a good listener. Be a good communicator. THEN be a good lover.

[LixyChick]

The grass always seems greeneer somewhere else...so make sure both you and she can handle the mowing!

Virtual reality and actual reality can coexist or take over. You have to decide. You say you want to join a site. Is it to talk about the possibility...or to meet other like couples and eventually join them? How far are you willing to go? Thinking you can share and actually sharing are far and wide two total different emotional subjects. It's the difference between fantasy and reality...and reality can come back and bite you in the ass if it doesn't live up to your fantasy!

That aside...it is sooooooooooooo very erotic in the right mental state (I say this cause there are times of the month for me when I don't want to be involved) to see your lover with another as you are doing or being done by his/her mate. To watch them as another is pumping you is a phenomenon I can't explain it in type. It has to be experienced. But in the right state of mind?...OMG!

There's a lot of tension at first. Is she/he enjoying this more with him/her than she/he does with me? But when you realize the "no holds barred" for either person, and then trust that it's an experience that you can archive and still go home with your respective loved one...the pleasure outweighs the tension and you'll relax and enjoy!

So since the inception of this thread...how's it going?

[Bluetigertone]

Thankyou kind people for your constructive comments. :x:

[Steph]

I was going to go to a swingers club earlier this year but dayum, it was way up there in the suburbs! :eek:

The couples I spoke with who were encouraging me to go were really laidback people and just saw it as a kink that made them happy. I would have preferred to go as a single gal because I don't know if I'd be able to swing with someone I loved, however, a lot of those couples were in the swinging scene for years and seemed to have really strong relationships.

[Fangtasia]

Remember who you are coming home to at night. Discuss with your spouse/s.o. what you want to do, what you don't want to do, what you want them to do and what you don't want them to do. And let them do the same. Also, discuss your expectations FAR ahead of the bedroom with those you may be inviting in. Communication isn't just important, it is a NECCESSITY!

And don't jump into something with the first couple that comes along just to say you've done something. Remember that anything you are doing with your swinging partners, you are sharing with your s.o. So its a matter of not only protecting yourself from diseases and unwanted pregnancy like it was when you were single. You have to worry about someone else too and if you love them this means you'll worry about them more than yourself as well.

Be safe. Be careful. Be sensitive. Be a good listener. Be a good communicator. THEN be a good lover.

^^^^ Very sound advice!

[maddy]

School? Swinger Club? (http://www.nbc5i.com/irresistible/4995787/detail.html)

If you are near Muncie, Indiana .... might want to stop by your old school and check out the scene ;)

[Cjack]

Just step in slow and know what you want before you go. :jump:

[Bluetigertone]

:line: Yep we did IT :line:

It was soooo good cant wait for another liaison!!!

Thankyou again fellow pixies for all of the sound advice!!! :x:

Highly recommended

[necodemus]

Swinging is....off the chain. lol. Watching my wife pleasure another man was one of my fantasies. And his wife made it very hard for me to concentrate on the show...

[sweetcum34]

We are currently playing with the idea of joining a swinging site and was wondering if any of our fellow pixies could enlighten us? This is something we have thought and talked about for along time, we have a very strong relationship.

:3:

My partner and i, have been swinging(grrr,hate the word swinging) more like av some extra fun for a while now.Bout 2yrs i think. Not an age but long enough to of ad some mind bending times.(good ways).

We made the plunge after so much convo about it left just a feelin of do it,just do it and eh,if not for us then.hey ho.

I took control 1 nyt, i messaged a women off a site were on. Well we still are on tbh.Free too.50/50 Good/bad as you'd imagine fa a free site.Relatively small site in its defense and better that way or it wud be knobs are us.lol

Are you to go alone or as a couplemay we ask? Couple then draw lines, bounderies and yeah's or neah's you both air out. We only wanted ladies to begin with,mff 3somes.A confidence builder until we were ready for 4some with couple and poss a full swap with partners. We tend not to swap tho,our choice as we enjoy more teasing each other as well as the other couple.Long story short,we loved it,still do so treat ourselves now and again too.lol

We do on our terms, no hassel,non pushy and expect the same back or its a "shut the door behind you pls".lol

Harder if ya single blue and good luck you will need as well as trust,alot of.

Just do it and say "oh yes,that was amazingly different" or "no no no,not for me,us etc".

1 Other thing i look at too as the male of us, or the 4 when we av a meet,i love the feel of a swap.feeling the wet pussy of another lady,someones wife/girlfriend.Tight, loose wet, soaking. Whichever that pussy is.It fucks,get fucks and make me realise and love my ladyminx's lady bits all the more..No beating home cooking,takeaway a distant 2nd...lol

If ya seriously gonna try,let me know.I got 2sites which will stand you rite in you beginnings and they are ok.Not seedy or letchy. Has forums,loads a chat rooms all with live cams of male,fem,couples etc up to no good.lolFREE.

Let me know and il pm you the sites if ya want them.

happy swinging...