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Lilith
07-14-2005, 11:28 AM
Hearing it's Mr. & Mrs. WildIrish's 15th wedding anniversary ( Happy Anniversary! :cake::hump::cake: ) I started wondering when you hear people have been together for _____ many years does it make you think..."geez that's a long time"??? In today's climate of serial monogamy what is a long length of time for a realtionship, from your point of view?

jseal
07-14-2005, 11:29 AM
Lilith,

A lifetime.

Steph
07-14-2005, 11:31 AM
Two nights! :jester:


Congrats to you and the saintly missus, WI! :cheers:

And Irish and his wife just celebrated 40 years of wedded bliss in May!

WildIrish
07-14-2005, 12:02 PM
I used to think that about ten years, then fifteen, now it's twenty. I raise it so I don't have to think about "damn have I been married a long time!". ha ha

Oldfart
07-14-2005, 12:47 PM
Isn't long when it's been longer than you can bear?

My 18 years with my ex went like a bullet.

WildIrish
07-14-2005, 12:48 PM
Is it a good idea to eat chili for lunch today? :yikes:

GingerV
07-14-2005, 01:18 PM
I always figured 5 years was a long time, till I got there...now it's 10. (We're nearly at 9).

But it raises a question I've always had...when you say you've been together for a long time, how do you count it? Dating? Sleeping together (if different, <blush>)? Living together? Married?

wyndhy
07-14-2005, 01:33 PM
......about as long as a piece of string :p


happy anniversary to WI and his beautiful wife
here's to many more.... "a life of years, free of tears..." :wine:

WildIrish
07-14-2005, 01:53 PM
......about as long as a piece of string :p


happy anniversary to WI and his beautiful wife
here's to many more.... "a life of years, free of tears..." :wine:


As long as we're having sex...she'll be crying. Lmfao


TY wyndhy. :x:

jseal
07-14-2005, 02:39 PM
WildIrish,

Congratulations, sir! Here's to you and yours and many more! :wine:

Aqua
07-14-2005, 03:49 PM
All I can say is...

Happy Anniversary to you and the Missus WI!!! :wine:

WildIrish
07-14-2005, 03:50 PM
Thanks Jseal...and thank you Aqua

We'll hoist a few for you tonight.

LixyChick
07-14-2005, 04:12 PM
I just recently (a few weeks ago) heard the sweetest story about just this subject.

A couple in England, by the last name of Aerosmith (yoooohooo!) were documented by the Guinness <sp?> people as being the oldest living married couple on the planet. The reason the story had aired is because, at 104 y/o, Mr. Aerosmith had died after 80 years of bliss with Mrs. Aerosmith. She is 102 y/o...and I am saddened to think that she'll not last much longer after losing the love of her life...and everyone else's life who had come and gone before them!

He'd given a statement as to the longevity of their marriage..."I say Yes Dear a lot"!

Everyone say...Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

Happy Anniversary WI and Mrs. WI! May the next 65+ years be as wonderful!

dm383
07-15-2005, 03:27 AM
Congrats on 15 years WI! :line:

This is REAL spooky y'know; I got married to my Ex on the SAME day as you and Mrs WI tied the knot - July 14 1990.
In my case, I've thought for a while now that it being "Bastille Day" in France was quite appropriate for us, given how often we fought!!

Anyhow, I digress - hope you two had a fuck-tastic day/night...... and here's to many more years together!!

Cheers.

DM

east
07-15-2005, 01:07 PM
my grandparent where together 60 years before they died, that is impressive to me. my parents i think have 30 years, seems so long but seems to go so fast.

FussyPucker
07-15-2005, 01:19 PM
Congrats to Mr. & Mrs. WildIrish!!!!

Can you believe that Lou n I have been together for 2 years and 6 months oh and about 4 days, 7 n half hours.........ish :D

WildIrish
07-15-2005, 01:27 PM
Gracias Lixy! Leave it to you to find a story about a guy named Aerosmith. lmfao

Thanks DM...and coincidentally enough, the cards I get for Mrs. WI aren't anniversary cards. I give her nice cards that express my feelings for her, and at the bottom I write in "Happy Bastille Day".

East - My grandparents were married 62 years when my grandfather passed away. I agree with you, it is remarkable isn't it?

Fussy - thanks for the congrats! I love how much you and Lou love each other. It's great to see.

fireman20
07-15-2005, 01:49 PM
Congratulations,
I hope you have many more years together. Lixy got me to thinking. I say"Yes dear" alot too, 13 years isn't bad for two kids married while one is in high school and the other shipping overseas for the first year of marriage.

osuche
07-16-2005, 12:48 AM
How long is long? It's only "long" when you find you're no longer excited to come home to him/her.

I -- personally -- am hoping for eternity. Mr. Osuche and I have been dating now since September 1994 -- just under 11 happy years.

(((((WI)))))) congrats

scotzoidman
07-16-2005, 10:36 AM
My 30th anniversary passed by rather quietly back in March...certainly seems like a long time to me, considering that we're both very different people now than when we were pronounced by the judge...also, in light of a recent developement, just re-established contact with an old friend/bandmate, who had married just a year before me, tells me how his divorce just became final...

Scarecrow
07-16-2005, 02:02 PM
Congrats Mr. and Mrs. WI

How long is long, is 29 long enough?

cherrypie7788
07-16-2005, 02:47 PM
Forever is a long time