lonelyarmywife
04-24-2005, 07:54 PM
Background
My best girlfriend got divorced about a year ago. i won't go into all the reasons for that, but she was very justified in leaving the marriage. since she left her husband, she has had a string of about 4 guys, all of which have either not lasted or been total and complete psychotic fuckups. She is having some pretty shitty luck, so her m.o. now is to just let things go. She isn't planning on getting serious with anyone, she jsut wants to date, have a good time, make friends.
the dilemma. she has met this dude that she really wants to ask her out. he has said some things that make her think he is into her, but it's been awhile since she really had a "crush" on someone and is not sure how to proceed at this point. she came to me for advice, but I've not dated in almost ten years and have no idea to start.
here's where you come in. How does she proceed from there. she's interested in the dude, and she wants him to know it, but she also wants him to know she doesn't want to get serious. she's also too old fashioned to just ask him out, she wants him to do the asking.
Plus, there are some conflicts that she's dealing with - first and foremost, it's her mom's boss.
help a sister out!
My best girlfriend got divorced about a year ago. i won't go into all the reasons for that, but she was very justified in leaving the marriage. since she left her husband, she has had a string of about 4 guys, all of which have either not lasted or been total and complete psychotic fuckups. She is having some pretty shitty luck, so her m.o. now is to just let things go. She isn't planning on getting serious with anyone, she jsut wants to date, have a good time, make friends.
the dilemma. she has met this dude that she really wants to ask her out. he has said some things that make her think he is into her, but it's been awhile since she really had a "crush" on someone and is not sure how to proceed at this point. she came to me for advice, but I've not dated in almost ten years and have no idea to start.
here's where you come in. How does she proceed from there. she's interested in the dude, and she wants him to know it, but she also wants him to know she doesn't want to get serious. she's also too old fashioned to just ask him out, she wants him to do the asking.
Plus, there are some conflicts that she's dealing with - first and foremost, it's her mom's boss.
help a sister out!