Am I big enough?

[Leon1280]

This is my first post on pixies so im hopin for some help but be gentle :P

Ive had some bad experiances where after sex the girl I was with went round telling everyone that my penis was too small. That hurt the confidence but my long term girlfriend now has always said theres no problem and up until recently our sex life has been great. But recently shes went totally off sex completely so thats set of my confidence issue again.
So i put it too the pixes audience opinion , am I too small or too thin or have u had worse or is it just fine etc etc
Ive measured and im between 6 1/2 7 inch long
Please be honest u wont hurt my feelings ive head it all before lol

Cheers
Leon

[Lilith]

Well it looks like more than a mouthful to me.

Dick size is sooo irrelevant....tell me how big your heart is.

[Leon1280]

Thanx lilith trust me if it was based on heart size there wouldnt be a problem lol but unfortunatly not all the ladies out there are as nice as you :P

[Mercury_Maniac]

the girl was probably just angry with the way the relationship ended and wanted to spread rumors.

i wouldn't worry about it. you've got more then i do.

[grkbabigurl]

well, its not really how big you are, its more about how you use it. in the long run, size really doesnt matter. as for your ex, i wouldnt worry about it too much.

[bugaboo]

Like the others have already said size isn't the only thing its how you use it. If its all you use then that would be an issue with me, there are many wonderful ways to get your partner off. Are you being creative when making love? Creative sex overcomes size and other issues. Don't give your ex a second though its over and time to move on. I would ask your current why she chose to end sex though, it may have nothing to do with your size. I went though a phase of feeling a relationship was all about sex and figured if we stopped it I could find out if he really loved me or my body.

[Leon1280]

Thanx for the feedback :D

Ive tried to ask my girlfriend wot the problem is and she just says that shes not been in the mood which is fair enough but weve had sex twice in 3 and a half months so from a womens point of view could u not be in the mood for that long? Apart from sex she loves gettin oral and I luv giving so normally weed b doing that allll the time i mean shed get the urge and just want it all of a sudded lol which was fine by me but now even thats stopped.
I dunno maybe its just me bein paranoid cause i luv her to bits just miss being able to show it that way.

[lazaruslong]

Dude, you say you want honesty? Well here it is....

Wanna trade?

[grkbabigurl]

well, maybe she truly hasnt been in the mood.. im in the mood 24/7 so i cant really say anything about that.. but maybe shes just been busy or preoccupied with work or school or whatever else she is involved in.

*idea* why dont you take her out to a nice dinner.. or make her a dinner at home with candles on the table.. just something romantic.. maybe shes feeling down, and that is definetly a good way to cheer her up

[Cobalt]

You have nothing to worry about in the size department. If they think that you are to small then they must like horse sized cock.

[lonelyarmywife]

It must be National Worried about your Weiner Week. This is the second post I've read in two days about member size.

Darlin, let me tell you exactly what I told Mr. Fish. It isn't the size of your friend. It really isn't even how you use it. It's the connection the two of you have together. (you and your girlfriend, not you and your penis :p ) If there's no connection there, then not even switching members with John Holmes will save you.
You need to make your self feel special. And often times the best way to do that is to make someone you care about feel special...it all kinda rubs off. :x:

P.S. that being said, I absolutely do not think you are too small...you have nothing to worry about.

[Sharni]

Looks great to me!

[osuche]

There must be a reason she's off sex....and it's not the size of your cock.

Maybe she has a lot of stress in her life? Lots of recent changes? Has she been having her periods (maybe it's a hormanal thing)? Is she getting enough exercise? All of these things can impact your sex drive....

[nikki1979]

ive gone thu times where my drive is nill , once it lasted for about 4 or 5 months, mine was because of depression, if i get really really down i dont want to be touched and only time and understanding works. dont pressure her , make her feel loved for who she is not what she can do fo ru give her time and she will get it back. and BTW when i came out of my 4month funk i was so horney hubby got some about 3 times a day for awhile , until i threw his back out and had to calm down neways LOL

ur cock is fine dear stop worring

~nikki

[txgrneyes]

Sweetie,

Judging by the pics...you look good enough to enjoy anyway possible...

But as far as your girlfriend, Be patient with her. She may be going through something that she cant put into words or doesn't feel comfortable discussing right now.

Not to get onto me but I recently went to the doc cause things just don't feel right. Emotionally and physically...well now I find out that I might have to have surgery. My desire for sex....vanished (and I am only 33). Even a guy that I would "play" with noticed.

So what I am trying to say is women are emotional creatures. It could just be something she has to work through. Be there for her anyway you can or she needs.

Things will work out.

[Cindy Kim]

Backing up some other thoughts - most often when a girl is off sex, it has nothing to do with your dick. It's usually something that she's going through independent of you, or something about your relationship with her.

I think that it's sometimes hard for guys to get that the desire for sex, or lack thereof, isn't necessarily about how it feels for women. I mean, that can certainly affect sex drive. But frequently we aren't in the mood because we're stressed, tired, worried, or feel something in the relationship is off. Similarly, frequently we're horny as anything because we're feeling secure, relaxed, happy, and well loved.

Don't worry about your dick. The only time penis size has ever put me off was when it was too LARGE, and even then there's a wide range of wonderful size. Take the time to examine your relationship with her and her emotional state instead.

[Leon1280]

got my cam workin so heres a better pic :p

[ManOMan]

The average male is between 5-7 inches. So says the medical folk.

If it's been three times in nearly four months, and it's not medical, then check around her mind a bit. Watch out what you find, though.


ManOMan

[Dubblz]

Through "extensive research",(lol) I've found that sometimes women just aren't in the mood..Not a big deal,as it's been said in here that once the drive cums back..Happy Days Are Here Again!!.If she is complaining though,then maybe look at the approach..A nice dinner out alone together does wonders..In the past,and I'll be really honest about this,I was just moving too fast,and she wasn't getting what she needed,so I needed to slow down,learn to use massage oils,and things like that to enhance the mood for her,too..Actually found out that doing things like that,made it more pleasureable for me,too.
A womans g-spot is about 1 1/2 inches in,so unless your smaller than that,you shouldn't worry..Making it love making session instead of a fuck,made a difference..Can't keep that puppy in there for an hour and a half,but you can make HER cum that long with the right research,lol..
Be more secure in yourself too..If you know that you did all you could to make it better for you both,then,it's time to talk about it,and see where things can be done differently..

[jay_ba]

Dude, I'm just a little over 7.5inches, and I have had girlfriends where certain positions were painful. If you get in there and happen to poke her cervix.....let's just say it isn't pleasant.