How much does size matter?

[fish4life2002]

My girlfriend has a LOT more experience than I do. She's my second and I'm her...well she just tells me she's had a lot. Anyway, she has told me that I'm her "smallest" and that its good when we have sex but mainly because I'm good at oral sex and such. I want to please her both orally and when we have intercourse. I'm currently taking Extagen capsules for male enchancement but I want to know if there's anyone out there that has actually increased their size? And also, ladies, does the size matter so much that guys should go to desperate lengths to increase it? I love my gf and would do anything for her, and I want to please her. Help me please Pixies patrons! I greatly appreciate it.

[Mercury_Maniac]

well i dont' really have any experience.....but for some it does matter and for others it doesn't

[lonelyarmywife]

size matters. anyone who tells you it doesn't is full of fibbery. The question is, how much does it matter, and I think that varies from person to person.

I've been with big guys and with small guys. There IS such a thing as too small. There is also, contrary to popular belief, such a thing as too big, at least for me.

How long have you been with this chick? Cause if you are in a serious relationship, then I say she needs to accept you as you are and not make you feel like you have to change. That's the only way relationships work. Besides, if she is in love with you, sex will be more about connection and less about penis size.

and if it's not serious and she's just a happy fuck, then I also say don't change it unless you want to becuase what she says shouldn't matter.

And so I've done everything EXCEPT anser your question. Does size matter. A little. But it shouldn't. :thumb:

[Mark Vieth]

Does it matter at all? Well that is the question dear Watson.

That was a parody from Sherlock Holmes. Anyway onto the question at hand. There have been other threads posted on the same issue here, and as my other replies will also detest too, size isn't the issue here. There are some guys like myself you are blessed with a rather large tool for the job. Now it is actually also our curse. You see there are quiet a few girls who will not even let a 9 1/2" penis anywhere near them. Now I am not that big but big enough. Also note that it is not the length that is important, moreover the girth or thickness if you will. The vagina is a hornets nest of nerve endings. Now if you have a penis that is long and thin, much like a sausage, and you and your partner build up quite a sweat, it can get to the point where she can get so wet that she won't be able to feel you inside of her. If however you have a thick and (say just for the sake of argument here) a 8 1/2" penis then I can assure you that it will be more than enough.

Now just to do a flip here for a sec, and I am sure that some women and even some of the guys may or may not agree with me on this, but just hear me out.

Have you ever considered to ask a women if she thought her tits were too small or too big? It's the same sort of question as your issue with penis size. Now women don't get hung up about whether or not they have a good size bust or not. Not to be sexist here, but the first thing any guy or girl notices about a girl, is their bust. Now if we put the shoe on the other foot for a minute here, what if our penises were out for everybody to take notice of?

Now of course it would be morally wrong to see some rather impressive "hardware" but nonetheless comparing sizes whether it be breasts or penises is much like comparing apples with bananas. Yes the are both fruits but are completing different from one another.

Each is unique in their own way. You just have adjust your train of thought a little. After that you shouldn't have any issue with the topic at hand. Taking tablets or using a penis pump isn't going to change anything. It's all in the head, and no not the one down below. It's a mind thing. As I said you have to change your thoughts on it.

Hope this helps.

[lizzardbits]

LAW has good points :D:D:D

but my thinking is....is she too big or too long? That may sound odd, but as with each penis, a vagina may have different langths and widths.

Ok, from personal experience, my honey hole is not very long, so anything longer than 6 inches ramming my cervix and back vaginal wall can sometimes be a bit painful. I have had to end up taking a little bit more control in sex sessions so that i only let it be the "feel good" kind of hurt.

Women also have the slight advantage of doing Kegel exersizes to make their pelvic floor muscles toned and thus doing so, making her feel tighter as she flexes (Yes i know that guys can use their pelvic floor muscles work too, i love it when they make their dicks dance!) Maybe your gal can do some toning up...she'll feel smaller whilst you are in her and you will feel bigger?

Another technique, and a bit on the kinky side, but i like it, is while you are inside her, reach down, massage her clit and then insert a finger in her at the same time you slide in and out. Or have her do it. The sensations are just out of this world!

But whatever you guys do, remember, it is truely about pleasuring and being pleasured, and enjoying each other's body, and the emotional bond that is there.

[lonelyarmywife]

But whatever you guys do, remember, it is truely about pleasuring and being pleasured, and enjoying each other's body, and the emotional bond that is there.

lizzardbits is a genius!

seriously, though, this point about the emotional bond can't be stressed enough...

[fish4life2002]

Thank you everyone for your input. Lizzardbits you have some great ideas and I will have to give them a try next time I get a chance. Mark you are right on and I'm working on the whole self esteem thing about the issue. LonelyArmyWife, thanks for the input! I am using it all to sort things out (or at least trying to). The girl just asked me if the pills were working because before I was horny and hard all the time due to taking them (now I'm much tamer!) and I told her she was the judge and if she wanted me to take them more and see then it was up to her! I'll post a reply after the next time I see her and let ya'll know what she thinks. Keep the ideas coming though cuz I want to do everythin in my power to keep this girl!

[Mark Vieth]

Tell this girl that you and her should really take some time to take it slow. If the r/ship revolves around sex then it will die very quickly. You should build up a friendship first and go from there. Now I don't know the full story, you may have known this girl since kinder or something. If that is the case then you have that at least. If not, I would be more inclined to get to know her as a person rather than as a sex object. Now the same should also be said from her point of view towards you.

So I think that the two of you should be working on this more, instead of working on pleasuring each other so much. I am not saying that isn't want you haven't or are not already doing. No, I am saying it's what you should be doing more of.

Now from seeing what you have said here already, she likes guys who are big. Now if that is all she wants and she expects you to fit into the same catergory then it will not work with you two. You would be best to end it and move on. If she is willing to accept you for who you are and what you have to offer, then it will work. There needs to be a common ground somewhere that is laid down by you. If she wants you to be something that you are not, then it will only make you unhappy.

[Sharni]

For me size does not matter in the least (and no....i'm not a fibber thank you very much!!)

[grkbabigurl]

its not how big... but how you use it

[fish4life2002]

Tell this girl that you and her should really take some time to take it slow. If the r/ship revolves around sex then it will die very quickly. You should build up a friendship first and go from there. Now I don't know the full story, you may have known this girl since kinder or something. If that is the case then you have that at least. If not, I would be more inclined to get to know her as a person rather than as a sex object. Now the same should also be said from her point of view towards you.

Mark,
Thanks for the comments. To answer a couple of your "assumptions", We've known each other only since the beginning of this year and have both stated that we want to become better friends and such as well as g/f and b/f. We've been doing a lot to get to know each other and its going along very well. She understands that there isn't much I can do and tells me that she's OK with things now, it took her some getting used to but the 'ole saying NEVER dies: "It's not how deep you fish, its how you wiggle your worm!" Sorry, I'm a huge angler. Anyway she's told me that she doesn't care now about my size because I still please her other ways. She knows that I care about her as much more than a sex object and would do anything for her. OK yes I am whipped but I'm damn happy about it people! There isn't anything I wouldn't do to keep her and everyone that knows me and her says we get along well. Attached there is a picture. Thank you for your comments and your concern, as I said after I see her again and we have a chance to be "Intimate" I will let you know what she says about my progress. Any other ideas / situations or just wanna talk...keep them coming, Thanks Pixies!

[lizzardbits]

awww you guys are a really cute couple! thank you for sharing your sexy selves

[txgrneyes]

Well speaking from experience...I too have had big and small for me. And to be honest...it really doesn't matter. It is how I feel when I am with the guy that matters to me. About a year ago I finally told my best friend that I LOVED him. Once I did that it was the best love making session I have ever had. And he is the smallest I have ever been with. Like I said before...women are emotional creatures. Make us feel like we are the only woman that matters and size wont matter.

Just my opinion...

Natalie

[Mercury_Maniac]

wow thats a good answer :D

[fish4life2002]

Well the ballots are in...the results? My gf and I had a long lovemaking session over the weekend and she complimented me on my "size and technique"...She said the pills have been working and she can tell a difference and that I am good in bed, yeah I have a bit to go but she said I'm doing well. Thanks Pixies and guys if your thinking about taking a supplement, try extagen...its working for me! i'll keep ya updated and who knows, maybe post some pics! Take care ya'll and happy lovemaking!