Interesting 3sum!

[PashkinThePanther]

My significant other, (who is a member here but hasn't posted yet....) is someone who, by her admission, doesn't care whether she gets her fun from man or woman. Well we are discussing a 3 sum with another Pixies member who's 95% lesbian (as she puts it). Different huh?

So what does the massed minds of Pixiedom make of it?

At least my SO has no worries about me having full sex with the other woman, cos she don't do it with anyone. Something for all parties, I suppose. So thats a straight guy, a lesbian, and a woman that goes either way, what a combination!

We're all still thinking it over...

[nikki1979]

sounds fun go for it as long as there will be no jealousy issues during or after :D

~nikki

[PashkinThePanther]

Well I hope not either, which is why I've put the two of them in contact with each other, so they can get all these issues sorted out and I gather they've been exchanging emails. Plus I've known them both for a long time, my SO for about 3 yrs seriously and about 15 yrs on and off. The other since about 1989 and have met her on a number of occasions, most recently a couple of years ago, here, in this room.

[gekkogecko]

When multiple relationships work, they work because, well, people work at them. Much in the same way you're already working. Way to go.

[cowgirltease]

Would you be comfortable just watching if they asked that of you?

[PashkinThePanther]

Would you be comfortable just watching if they asked that of you?

I'd be perfectly fine with it, CGT. I wouldn't feel left out at all. Whether the fact that I've known them both for a long time has anything to do with that, I don't know...

[PashkinThePanther]

When multiple relationships work, they work because, well, people work at them. Much in the same way you're already working. Way to go.
Have to admit, gekko, that as both of them were friends of mine anyway, it made things a bit easier. As my S/O has uncovered my wild sexual side, it was an idea I'd been rolling around in my head for a while... As they're talking to each other, hopefully between them, they will clear up any problems. Nothing like two women to get the practicalities sorted out! Plus as my lesbian friend lives in a small town, she's not getting as much as she would like, so she might like the idea.

Actually having a night out with a woman that doesn't want you for your penis means you have to learn other ways to pleasure them, its practically educational!

Nothings been arranged, yet, like I said, its still being thought over. If it were to ever happen then I guess it would probably be the summer, but we'll see.

[osuche]

Good luck either way...sounds like you're thinking it through in the right way

[PashkinThePanther]

Good luck either way...sounds like you're thinking it through in the right way

Thanks osuche. I like to keep my friends, so what better thing to do than to get them talking, then if it happens then they'll know each other a bit and not be total strangers. Even if it doesn't happen, at least then they'll be able to swap tales about me, behind my back...

[Teddy Bear]

Have fun & keep us posted.

:)

[Lilith]

Well I hope not either, which is why I've put the two of them in contact with each other, so they can get all these issues sorted out and I gather they've been exchanging emails. Plus I've known them both for a long time, my SO for about 3 yrs seriously and about 15 yrs on and off. The other since about 1989 and have met her on a number of occasions, most recently a couple of years ago, here, in this room.


You need to consider your own possible feelings of jealousy should the two of them grow close.

[PashkinThePanther]

You need to consider your own possible feelings of jealousy should the two of them grow close.

I have considered it, and its one of the things, that if it happens, happens, Lil. I can't say that it won't, I just don't think it will. Chances are I might be wrong, after all, trying to guess events when emotions are involved is chancy, as I'm sure everyone can bear testimony to. But if the two of them do get close, then we'll work around it. However, I know my s/o has given up all of her male friends for me, (which amazed me, I hadn't asked her to) and her current plans involve just me, it'll need a massive shift to change it. I'm not saying it won't happen but I think it'll be unlikely, and thats not my male ego talking either.

I'll mention it when she gets back from her break with her parents and daughters on friday night...

[imaginewithme]

That is one of my fantasies too, but in reality, I know that I'd end up being jealous of how he felt about her, etc. Both of you be sure this is what you want....communication is the key.

Just even discussing it together is probably a turn on.

Have fun!!!

[PashkinThePanther]

You need to consider your own possible feelings of jealousy should the two of them grow close.
I just had a welcome phone call from her (apparently the phones have all been vandalised in the site where they're staying) on her mothers cellphone, and I put it to her, after saying seriously how much I missed her.

The response was strongly negative on the matter of the possibility of the two of them growing close....!! But she thanks you for your concern, Lil! :thumb:

In fact when she's here next week, I'll get her to log on here and you can ask her yourself while I'm busy doing shower type things!

[cbass1976]

good luck and have fun