Anyone here go to a strip club with their s/o?

[phelan]

I've always wanted to goto a strip club with my g/f but i'm kinda of leery of bringing up the idea with her because visiting sex shops is one thing together, but having a exotic dancer dance for you is a whole different thing. I can't imagine "couples" in a strip club to be too common, but hey just curious.

I'm just a little worried about her being uncomfortable with the whole idea as I never brought it up but I have always wondered...so have any other pixie members done this? and how was your experience?

I'm very interested in hearing from the ladies perspective on here as I'm sure most guys on here would be like, 2 times the ass oh yeah!! lol.

[Sharni]

They have couples nights here...

Bilbo and i have been to a few of em....they have both male and female strippers

Also went to a female strip place....while i wasn't uncomfortable the strippers were *LOL*

[JustSomeGuy]

My wife has gone with me 2 different times. Actually, it was her and I and one other couple. We did it mainly because the girls were feeling frisky (aka drunk) and wanted to watch someone dance for us.

I think alcohol had a lot to do with it. It sure was nice being sober for the experience though...especially when I paid for a couch-dance for my wife. HOT HOT HOT!

[Galatea]

Took my husband to a strip club for our 1st anniversary. I'd never been to one and I thought it would be fun....there was this one hot little brunette with big tits:slurp: ....I got him a lap dance from her...omg...that was so hot. and she was totally 'our type'. And, no I wasn't drunk....I may have had 2 beers once I got there.

[DangerousPet]

Playful1 took me over christmas break to a female strip club with a few of his friends. it was um... interesting. while i didnt watch him get a lap dance or anything, the pole dancing was the interesting part to me :)

oh oh and one of the strippers asked to make out with me :) lol crazy girls!

i dont know if i'd go again, i guess if he asked me to i would but i felt like everyone was lookin at me (i know they were lookin at the dancers more but still... was self concious i guess).

[BlondeCurlGirl]

We have plans to go together soon...spring break!

[Pita]

We went years ago with another couple. I remember it being great fun. I was really impressed with the way those girls could work a pole. I bought hubby a lapdance and that was great fun watching. :devilish:

[WildIrish]

I'm sure I'd get quite a charge out of seeing Mrs. WI get a lapdance. Hell, she would probably get quite a charge out of it too. Unless they get to talking about kids. :rolleyes2

[Stolen Kisses]

I have only been to see hot men stripping twice in my life- Both before I met my husband. Given the fact that I was never with anyone at the time- it made me nervous. I had a hard time putting the money into their ...well you know! LOL

Dh went a few times with friends I am told. Once was for his bachlor party. He came home drunk and horny. I didnt mind. :devilish:

But I dont think there will ever be a time when we'd go together.

[dicksbro]

I took my wife one time to see male strippers, but it was a bit disappointing. High cost; one went to a g-string/thong but another only removed his shirt. May have been more later, but we decided to go out and have a nice dinner instead of staying.

I've gone a couple of time with people I used to work with to see female dancers but that's been a long time ago and was not as a couple.

[cherrypie7788]

I've never been to a strip club at all, but if the person I was married to wanted to go to one, I'd say sure!

Some women wouldn't feel the same way of course. Sometimes it's not a matter of comfort, but of security :)

[osuche]

Strip clubs are an occupational hazard for me....so I have to go a couple times a year. I don't dislike them...although I am really picky about the women I am attracted to.

I've gonewith Mr. Osuche once....offered to buy him a lap dance, but he refused. Says he didn't enjoy the experience....too easy. :rolleyes:

[phelan]

Hmm I think i've decided i'll bring up the idea with her sometime whenever it feels right. But how much is it usually as I've never gone to a strip club before. If it's way out of my league well *sighs* oh well must wait lol.

Like is there a door fee? Lap dances cost how much? $10-$20 for 5mins or per song? Also what's the difference between a lap dance/table dance/ vip dance? as i checked out a few websites advertising a vip room or something like that for $10 for all night or something or rather?

this is kinda of getting kinky, i'm pretty sure my s/o would enjoy it as she's bi herself lol :)

[Frenum]

My angel and I have been to one local strip club 2 or 3 times and plan on another visit very soon. The first time it was a bit nerve recking for the both of us. We are both farily conservative people so being there did put us on edge at first. I was nervous due to the fact that there were beautiful women all around in naught but their stielettos. She was nervous because she was the only girl, aside from the dancers. Well after about a half an hour we both relaxed a bit and began to enjoy it. I even got to buy her a lap dance. One cute latin girl asked my girlfriend if she wanted a dance so into the side room we went. Now I can not even begin to explain how hot this scene was. My misleadingly innocent looking girlfriend in a very thin and form fitting outfit being fondled by a sexy, naked girl,,,,,,,drools,,,,,. It was well worth the $20 lap dance fee. It was a shame that this place only ran songs for 3 min. I ended up paying $60 bucks for three songs and totaling 9 or 10 min. But those ten minuets will be in both of our memories for years to come.
The second time we went was noteworthy as well. This time it was spring/summer time. The weather permitted her to wear this cute little sundress that I so love on her. Well before we got to the club I told her to take her panties off and she most willingly complied. Once we got to the lap dance room, a dancer who took a particular intrest in my gf got to work. Being that my gf was in a dress without panties, she coyly (is that even a word?) warned the dancer that she was without her skivies. The dancer simply smiled and ran her leg under my girlfriends skirt for a while. Oh yes, we must return soon.

[Playful1]

Costs change from place to place and while it's not always the case, the more expencive ones tend to have better looking dancers. The ones by me are usually $15 cover.

Lap dances are $20 for about 5 minutes, if you want to sit at the table thats were the singles come in. Never been to one with a VIP room.

And you all have no idea how much we prodded DP to make out with that dancer...oh I nearly lost it at the thought....We (my friends and I) actually got together the money for a lap dance but the girl ended her day and headed home before we could :(

[VeryLonelyMan]

I know a couple that she would live there if she could. He likes them but she likes them so much more. And she says she is not bi or anything. Go figure that out.

VLM

[tullymars]

I took one former gf to a strip club twice. I suppose the best way to broach the subject is when you're already out for the evening, and near a nice club. Maybe just ask her if she's ever been or ever thought of going. I think just about anyone would go once. Once your there, things get easier. Splurge on champagne and make her comfortable by not acting like a frat boy. Then, pay attention- the dancers will pay special attention to her and help put her at ease- remember which one she seems to connect with the best- and offer a more private experience. Most dancers between performances will give lap dances for about $30-$40. This is money well spent. Sit back, relax, and watch.

[imaginewithme]

I have seen the male dancers a couple times but no, never been to see the female dancers. I would like to tho, but know I'd probably like it too much.....or get jealous. Depends on my mood probably.

[phelan]

thnx for all the replies guys/gals...needless to say i went with her a little while ago and she enjoyed it ;) She now wants to go every month lol, the only problem i see is a. financially lol, 20 a song ain't cheap! and b. the smoke...man the place is so hazy at times it reminds me of a few vegas casinos with poor air circulation

[BadChicken]

Good for you!! My S/O and I have gone to 'em for several years now. Believe it or not, she's actually talked a couple of the dancers to come home with us on occasion.

Keep in mind, you never can tell what the future holds.