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BehindTheWheel
06-11-2001, 12:38 AM
Hello all. I am new here and let me take this opertunity to say hello and thanks in advance for all the advice and insteresting talk I am sure to get from you all.

Now on to my problem.

I have been viewing harcore porn for the last 8 or 10 years now. I do this secretly because I think my wife would get offended at this. I masterbate at least once a day when I'm alone and my favorite image is the cum facial. I love my wife very much and want to expand our sex lives deeper but Im not sure how to approace her with this. I have tried to cum on her face before and was succesful once or twice but she only gets upset saying its "too messy". What I find unusual is that she would rather I cum in her mouth and she swallow than let me cum on her face.

I guess my question is, Is the "facial cum shot" something thats only done in the movies and not in real life? I read an article in Playboy saying that women really dont like it? I would think that if I was a woman I would love to get "showered with my lovers seed".

I have even cum on my own face once or twice while masterbating and I thought it was very erotic.

How can I convice her to let me cum on her face becuase I find it really erotic and not trying to make a mess of her or anything?

Are they any women out there that DO enjoy it?

I also would like to experement with anal for both her and myself but thats another post.

AmourNow
06-11-2001, 09:31 AM
It all depends on the mood. But there nothing like having your man jack off all over your face....To see him kneel on top of you, mmmmmmm.. Ohhh....what a view!!!...Then to feel warm semen squirting on your face....mmmmm.. It's a turn on!! Licking my lips now thinking about it!!

rackemup
06-11-2001, 12:07 PM
I think you have to accept the possibility that she just doesnt like it ...
I think it can happen but you 2 will have to try something a little more involved to get her in the mood to explore so many different avenues of pleasure.
And about tha anal thing ,it is very erotic and if she will try it she will like:cool:
I personally love to give facials but some women just dont like the mess.
So explore different scenes and turn ons for her to try and bring the wild side out...
I have found someone to bring the sexual beast out in me and that was amazing .so good luck man

Mind_Blowing
06-11-2001, 07:34 PM
You know that impulse to wipe something off your face when you feel it? Imagine that being something warm and slippery...doesn't do it for me even if I know what it is.

I prefer to have a guy unload on my tits where I can see everything that is going on and really enjoy the warm ooze down my chest. MMMMM.

my 2 cents!

nutworld
06-12-2001, 11:16 AM
I know what you are saying.

I too like to view a woman with a load of hot cum on her face..but my wife would much rather have it inside her pussy or sometimes(mostly not) in her mouth.

I believe that the facials are mostly done in the movies. I have yet to run across a woman that actually likes it.

I would have to say that AmourNow is in the minority, but I'd love to give you a contribution if you'd like Amour ! :)

AmourNow
06-12-2001, 11:33 AM
Just say when Nutworld!!!!!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!!!

nutworld
06-12-2001, 11:54 AM
When!


:)

there I said it.

BehindTheWheel
06-12-2001, 06:11 PM
Hey, AmourNow I started this thread, what about me:(

Glyndwr
06-12-2001, 07:15 PM
Here's my input. The facial shot is something no self respecting porno flick would be without, and as most of the films are made for a male market it can be viewed as a dominance/submissive act. Generally the woman is on her kness or back with the man looming over her depositing his cum.

However, if both participants are willing there is nothing like watching your warm sticky fluid trickling from a set of full lips across high cheekbones.

Dude
06-12-2001, 08:27 PM
The most sexiest thing is to see a woman with cum all over her face. :D

My suggestion, tell your wife that it is a reall turn on for you, do not be too pushy, but bring it up occasionally.
That's how my wife and I got into swinging. Little by little and until finally we both to the step over that line.

Of course, that same way that she let's you do that, try and find out what pleases her that she won't talk about, and explore that with her.

Dude.

AmourNow
06-12-2001, 09:44 PM
Ahhhh I am so sorry BehindTheWheel... didn't mean to offend you... but you never offered...Nut did!!! ;) But nothing wrong in getting 2 facial a day no is there???? ;)

John_L
06-24-2001, 04:22 PM
BehindTheWheel,

In porno's the main reason you see facials is to prove that the guy has cum. Thats the same reason you see guys pull out of a wonderful pussy (or ass, or mouth) before they blow their wad.

For some reason, many viewers don't get as turned on by seeing a big, hard cock pounding into a womans ass as they do by seeing that cock shooting on her back/chest/face.

I'm not sure WHY that is (Personally I prefere watching a couple fuck) but thats the reason for all the cum shots.

Duggary
06-29-2001, 05:31 AM
my GF did thesame thing and i know how frustrating it can be.heres my advice: most girls dont like the facial thing for the same reason that lots wont swallow. this is because they have grown up thinking that it is disgusting. you say that she swallows your cum so she's allready pretty at ease with the white stuf. she is probably self concious because people can see her face. sounds silly dosnt it. anyway, try having sex with her and pulling out in time to shoot your load on her stomach. then gradualy move up to her tits. try getting her to wank you off over her tits, so that she feels in control. then "axidentaly" let some splash on her face. But, dont sit there all smug because you hit your target, slowly wipe it off for her, nice and sensual like. or if you can handle it, lick it off, she swallows, why shouldnt you
also, give her a reward, slowly lick her tits and stomack. the insides of her thighs and then eat her out. Over time she will associate the cum on her face with pleasure and loose her inhabitions.

Pussy Willow
06-29-2001, 07:12 AM
Sometimes this is a good alternative if I don't want him to cum
in my mouth. Sometimes I can't get enough, sometimes I'm not
in the mood. I actuallly enjoy it better than having him cum in
my mouth. I seems more erotic, nastier if you will.

I also love it when he cums on my breasts and then massages
it over them. I'm getting hot just thinking about it.

JennyD
06-29-2001, 08:43 AM
I've never tried it, or considered it much, but the way duggary explains it makes me want to seduce my boyfriend into it. I find the idea of cum on my body very arousing, but not an all the time sort of thing. My boyfriend doesn't seem to into the idea though. Or he's just never shared the fantasy with me.

~Jenny

Glyndwr
06-30-2001, 04:25 PM
Hi Jenny

If I was your boyfriend and you took my cock in your hand and started rubbing and stroking it I wouldn't stop you. Then if you were to put my cock between your tits and massaged them up and down the shaft until you made me cum on your body I wouldn't object. Finally if you slowly rubbed my juices into your tits while looking me straight in the eyes I'm sure I would get into to it very quickly. Try it and perhaps let us know how you get on.

Sickz
06-30-2001, 06:01 PM
Some women just need to get with the 90's... LoL

SicKz

Salacious
08-31-2008, 07:18 AM
Can't say it's happened much with me... I tend to fall into that "swallower" category.

Wicked Wanda
08-31-2008, 12:17 PM
While I have loved the feel smell and TASTE of cum for most of my life, it has recently become a much bigger part of my life.

This has been one my most intense fetishes. One of my favorite, nastiest memories, from about ten years ago, was allowing three strangers to cum on my tits during Mardi Gras.
I love to relive the memory, squatting down on the sidewalk on Dumaine, just a few feet from Bourbon Street, hidden in a crowd too wild and drunk to notice as I pulled my top down and waited for these men to stroke themselves, (GOD I was so turned on!) until they each deposited their cum on my neck breasts. After the third one came I rubbed their cum into my skin, pulled up my top, and accepted my reward, three sets of blinking Mardi Gras beads!

Simply put, I LOVE cum!(semen, spunk, juice, whatever you want to all it,) I LOVE it and have since the first time I saw it.

Facials are becoming a bigger and bigger part of my sexual existence... having cum sprayed anywhere on my body is a HUGE erotic thrill for me, a turn on that I can't describe. Feeling cum on my face, boobs and ass is a very intense sexual thrill, especially when applied by more than one man.

An almost equally intense variation for me is keeping cum sprayed across my face, neck and breasts, and leaving it there for hours and hours.
When you add the exhibitionism factor, walking about with cum on my boobs, left for hours, visible to anyone who looks carefully, especially when I am dressed appropriately, say in a low cut top, I become aroused and STAY that way.

I love to slowly run my hands over my body, feeling the hot thick liquid slowly cool, I spread it thinly over my neck and breasts, over my nipples, sometimes when there is enough, I massage it into my skin down and across my tummy...

I can close my eyes and imagine the feel of hot cum landing on my skin, slowly becoming only warm, running, dripping down my body, cooling, drying until it feels tight on my skin, my nipples, like a skin mask...

Sometimes I touch the dried semen, peel bits of it away, the feeling makes me shiver.
DAMN!
I have managed to get turned on just by writing this.


uhhh... what was the question?

:sperm: :boobs:


Wanda

Teddy Bear
08-31-2008, 02:53 PM
my GF did thesame thing and i know how frustrating it can be.heres my advice: most girls dont like the facial thing for the same reason that lots wont swallow. this is because they have grown up thinking that it is disgusting. you say that she swallows your cum so she's allready pretty at ease with the white stuf. she is probably self concious because people can see her face. sounds silly dosnt it. anyway, try having sex with her and pulling out in time to shoot your load on her stomach. then gradualy move up to her tits. try getting her to wank you off over her tits, so that she feels in control. then "axidentaly" let some splash on her face. But, dont sit there all smug because you hit your target, slowly wipe it off for her, nice and sensual like. or if you can handle it, lick it off, she swallows, why shouldnt you
also, give her a reward, slowly lick her tits and stomack. the insides of her thighs and then eat her out. Over time she will associate the cum on her face with pleasure and loose her inhabitions.

Is this young man still around? I don't recognize the name. But wow! I like his way of thinking and he can "reward" me any day!!! ;)

To answer the posted question... I don't mind cum on my face but I'm not crazy for it and would prefer it anywhere else. He likes it so it will end up there from time to time. Maybe more if he follows Duggary's ideas. :D

scotzoidman
08-31-2008, 08:43 PM
While I have loved the feel smell and TASTE of cum for most of my life, it has recently become a much bigger part of my life.

This has been one my most intense fetishes. One of my favorite, nastiest memories, from about ten years ago, was allowing three strangers to cum on my tits during Mardi Gras.
I love to relive the memory, squatting down on the sidewalk on Dumaine, just a few feet from Bourbon Street, hidden in a crowd too wild and drunk to notice as I pulled my top down and waited for these men to stroke themselves, (GOD I was so turned on!) until they each deposited their cum on my neck breasts. After the third one came I rubbed their cum into my skin, pulled up my top, and accepted my reward, three sets of blinking Mardi Gras beads!

Simply put, I LOVE cum!(semen, spunk, juice, whatever you want to all it,) I LOVE it and have since the first time I saw it.

Facials are becoming a bigger and bigger part of my sexual existence... having cum sprayed anywhere on my body is a HUGE erotic thrill for me, a turn on that I can't describe. Feeling cum on my face, boobs and ass is a very intense sexual thrill, especially when applied by more than one man.

An almost equally intense variation for me is keeping cum sprayed across my face, neck and breasts, and leaving it there for hours and hours.
When you add the exhibitionism factor, walking about with cum on my boobs, left for hours, visible to anyone who looks carefully, especially when I am dressed appropriately, say in a low cut top, I become aroused and STAY that way.

I love to slowly run my hands over my body, feeling the hot thick liquid slowly cool, I spread it thinly over my neck and breasts, over my nipples, sometimes when there is enough, I massage it into my skin down and across my tummy...

I can close my eyes and imagine the feel of hot cum landing on my skin, slowly becoming only warm, running, dripping down my body, cooling, drying until it feels tight on my skin, my nipples, like a skin mask...

Sometimes I touch the dried semen, peel bits of it away, the feeling makes me shiver.
DAMN!
I have managed to get turned on just by writing this.


uhhh... what was the question?

:sperm: :boobs:


Wanda

:faint:

she got to me again...

:lurv:

:x:

Jax
09-02-2008, 08:00 AM
Facials...Hmm... Well, I've never given one, and frankly I'd like to give one. At least one time. As for the why, I don't know why. I suppose it's like anything else related to fooling around with your partner. Would like to try. I don't think it is a dominance and submission thing. If it was, so would swallowing I suppose.

On her side, I don't know as she would be that interested. I mentioned the subject once, and she gave me comments along the line of it had never occurred to her before and why would anyone. We moved on from there. But it wasn't a no. So that's something.

The only other thing...is that when she and I get that far along in being naked and fooling around..well there are so many wonderful spots to play with and things to do that well.....it's all good whatever happens at that point, and facials lose some of the allure.

And there you have it.