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Lilith
01-25-2005, 07:03 AM
Got a preference?

cherrypie7788
01-25-2005, 07:05 AM
I prefer to GIVE blowjobs :D love the taste, feel of the cock in my mouth, looking up to see his face etc.

WildIrish
01-25-2005, 09:05 AM
Whichever you're in the mood for is fine with me. ;)

Ok, seriously.

Each is great in their own way. Oral is stimulating and sexy, soft and sensual, and the feel of a tongue swishing over and around the head of my cock, flicking at that little spot underneath before swirling all around it again. Oh my. It's really quite nice.

Yet, a handjob is so primal. I enjoy a good forceful grip and my eyes glaze over when you tug it like you mean it. It takes a lot longer for me to have an orgasm from a handjob though. Hope your wrists are strong. :D

BIGbad
01-25-2005, 09:34 AM
Either would be fine, when should I expect you to pull up in the driveway? :drive:

rustler
01-25-2005, 10:47 AM
Both are great. However, if I must make a choice, I will have to choose a good Blowjob. For a long time, I couldn't get off orally, but I finally figured it out. I need a firm grip by mouth, not a bite with teeth, but a firm grip and steady action. When I do a handjob, I also use a firm grip so it is the same.

Pinot Noir
01-25-2005, 10:58 AM
I prefer a blowjob also... nothing quite as erotic as your lover looking up at you as she slowly licks you..........mmmmm~!

gekkogecko
01-25-2005, 11:39 AM
Somehow the idea of 'moist' is linked with the idea of 'warm'. Tehreofre, a mouth is preferable to a hand. Though I certainly wouldn't turn down a hand job in the shower.

Daft
01-25-2005, 02:17 PM
BJ with a bit if hand mixed in every now and again.

Sharni
01-25-2005, 04:11 PM
Blow job is goooooooood!!

Aqua
01-25-2005, 04:52 PM
Blowjob...

for sure.

Pita
01-25-2005, 05:12 PM
I prefer to do a little of both at the same time. Give some blow job until my jaw hurts then switch to my hand until my wrist hurts then back to the blow job. :D

DangerousPet
01-25-2005, 05:17 PM
I must admit that before meetin Playful1 I really wasn't into blowjobs, I didn't have any confidence in myself. I meen, granted it is kinda hard to mess up but I never liked doing them. But the reaction from Him was so amazing the first time... it's like a drug. I love when he gets all excited, and I like knowing that I did it!

BJ all the way ;)

jay-t
01-25-2005, 05:38 PM
theres nothing that feels like a blowjob!

Playful1
01-25-2005, 05:53 PM
I have to say I have never met anyone who can give a BJ like DangerousPet. It's a mixture of tounge, mouth and hand all in one.

But I have to agree that a hand job in the shower is just pure erotica.

If I have to pick I gotta go BJ though.

Cobalt
01-25-2005, 06:01 PM
no question, BLOWJOB, WooHoo!

TinTennessee
01-25-2005, 06:41 PM
Well my preference is a lot of blow job and a little hand...Mmmmmmm damn...I should have skipped this thread! LOL

musicman
01-25-2005, 09:15 PM
bring it on - together - I love the combination of both.....

osuche
01-25-2005, 11:29 PM
Depends on the guy....I prefer to go all mouth if I can take him.....but if he is anything over about 6" I give a combination....and I hear that's nice too. ;)

Hand job alone? Never done one successfully to completion. Maybe my technique sucks....all I end up is needing more lube.....fortunately when using my mouth I have an endless supply...

Mercury_Maniac
01-25-2005, 11:37 PM
I prefer to do a little of both at the same time. Give some blow job until my jaw hurts then switch to my hand until my wrist hurts then back to the blow job. :D



well it would definitely be nice if we could get together and get some "hurting" going on :D :devilish:

scotzoidman
01-26-2005, 02:40 AM
Geez, did ya really hafta ask? Blowjob...the anytime anyplace treat...ask for it by name...


'course, maybe I'm prejudiced because I've never had a really satisfying handjob...except from myself...

Wildeye
01-26-2005, 07:11 AM
Like both!! usually together, prefer to come in her mouth or on her face/tits.

If I giving I do both, but prefer to have a cock in my mouth and coming too.

wildeye

Galatea
01-26-2005, 01:06 PM
To me they're the same thing...my handjobs are blowjobs and my blowjobs are handjobs....its all to do with what technique you use on what part...if I use my hand along with my mouth and tongue. You just have to work up a lot of saliva to make your hand slide too and then you can move your mouth other places besides just his cock.

flutelady
01-28-2005, 11:55 AM
Whichever he prefers is my pleasure, whatever he's in the mood for. I love them both.

I love blowjobs. To feel his cock in my mouth as it grows harder and larger. To hear his breathing and soft moans, and to feel his body tense, to feel his need and want. The taste and scent of him. And his orgasm... OH YES! Makes me wet thinking about how much I love sucking him.

I also love handjobs. The feel of his hard and eager cock in my hand, so alive and soooo hot. Yeah, it does feel primal and I like that! I like watching and feeling him shoot... it absolutely turns me on.

Prophet Reality
01-28-2005, 12:11 PM
I like both myself. I lvoe it when I am getting a blowjob and she wraps her hands around my cock.

JustSomeGuy
01-28-2005, 12:54 PM
Blowjob.

A great blowjob is an art-form. And I'm fortunate to have married a great artist!

silentsoul
01-28-2005, 06:12 PM
I never get either one

blkcat
01-28-2005, 06:35 PM
BJ no1,but a TJ is very pleasurable

bigmike01
01-29-2005, 06:40 PM
without a doubt blowjobs

darogle
01-29-2005, 08:33 PM
Start with the blow-job, then finish me off with the hand-job.

SuzyQ
01-30-2005, 07:34 PM
Blow jobs for me..gives me a feeling of control...and I like using a combination...

rabbit
01-30-2005, 08:57 PM
I prefer blow but she won't, so it's Mr. Hand for me.

*sigh*

Jax
01-31-2005, 07:26 AM
Blow..with occassional hand thrown in...

Mark Vieth
01-31-2005, 07:57 AM
Blow job all the way for me. Hand and blow is a good start to get it up, but the creme de la creme is blow job.

Action_Jay
01-31-2005, 12:02 PM
A good blow job is definitely an art form. you hafta work the whole package. Explore with the tongue, mix it up... user yer fingers and tits to tease it, too. Just like a gal's not likely to cum if you just do the same damn motion constantly, a gal's gotta be constantly working my cock different ways. I nearly died the first time I felt a gal's tongue go exploring around my balls. And that lil bit of flesh behind em? I never knew I had a spot so sensitive I couldn't bear for her to keep on it!

Now looking at handjobs... sure I've cum to em... but it doesn't have the same psychological connotations as the blowjob. When you've got a gal sucking your dick you feel ecstatic. she's doing everything under her power to give you utmost pleasure. A handjob on the other hand, is like pity. Like 'alright... let's get you off and continue with our day already.'

But the one thing I really don't like about handjobs... they almost always get at ya from some awkward angle, and there'll be that one pump of her wrist that hurts like hell. Fuck I hate that!

DangerousPet
01-31-2005, 04:59 PM
A handjob on the other hand, is like pity. Like 'alright... let's get you off and continue with our day already.'


i dont agree with that at all! i'm big on closeness... i like to be able to kiss him and snuggle while i give a handjob. that doesnt by any means make it less erotic, or less meaningful. i am not the type to give a handjob out of 'pitty' or with the menatlity ok lets get you off so i can get on with my day... i would venture to say that most women don't just give a hand job , or a blow job, for the hell of it.--at least i don't.

*psstt... ladies, a little back up if you please?

and guys just so you know... as much as you like blowjobs and as much as i enjoy giving them ya gotta understand that our necks are not designed to do that for very long. the best thing Playful1 has ever done is rub my sholders and neck while i gave him a blowjob...

Action_Jay
01-31-2005, 05:07 PM
I love to massage a gal while she's down there too :)

A little cock fondling while kissing and snuggling is nice, for sure. it's not what I picture when I think handjob specifically, so I stand corrected on that sense. My bad. mwah!

DangerousPet
01-31-2005, 05:09 PM
*muah*

back at ya hun!

dicksbro
02-05-2005, 09:28 AM
Guess I'm partial to blowjobs, but handjobs are nice, too. :)

VaBeast
02-05-2005, 11:18 PM
Definitely prefer getting a good blowjob. Is there such thing as a bad one???

ScottWaz
02-07-2005, 05:36 PM
i would prefer a blowjob if i had the choice...although a hand job is fun and hot when your someplace that a BJ isnt possible...

PalaceGuard
02-09-2005, 05:21 PM
Handjobs for me!

rumrunner
02-10-2005, 02:01 AM
Blow Job.....

divot109
02-10-2005, 08:54 AM
That's like asking a woman, "Do you prefer to be fingered or eaten?" They each can be very pleasurable and erotic in their own way...definitely very stimulating. But, give me the choice and BJ all the way.

wrestlemark
02-10-2005, 11:59 AM
To me they're the same thing...my handjobs are blowjobs and my blowjobs are handjobs....its all to do with what technique you use on what part...if I use my hand along with my mouth and tongue. You just have to work up a lot of saliva to make your hand slide too and then you can move your mouth other places besides just his cock.


^ wow nice description^

either one for me ... feeling a hand or hair brushing against me along with a tongue or her sexy hand grabbing me rubbing licking mmmmmmmmmm nice :lurv: