Prostate Orgasm

[LixyChick]

I was discussing this in another thread from jeannieO and a "pushy broad" (her words...NOT mine!...lol) said I should open a new thread so that more Pixie's can answer my query.

A few weeks ago, Mr. Lixy and I were fooling around for just a few moments. We hadn't done anything hot and heavy as yet. I was stroking him with one hand and, as I usually do, I was stimulating his anus with the other hand. I probed with one finger...then went a bit deeper than I usually go...and began to "wiggle" my finger inside. Suddenly, with no warning, he ejaculated.

He wanted me to stop but knew there was no stopping the orgasm. And, the problem is he "wasn't ready" for the orgasm. He said that it just suddenly happened without any of the bells and whistles that come beforehand and without the afterglow following a regular orgasm. It was an empty orgasm. I thought all orgasm's were good for men. Matter of fact, I didn't know there was such a thing as an "empty orgasm". He said there was no mental work up, no anticipation of release, no ohhhhhhh or ahhhhhhh feeling afterward...just the ejaculate left on his belly to know he had cum.

Is this usual with prostate stimulation (G spot)? Have any of you guys experienced this before? Has any s/o of the ladies here expressed this opinion? I'm curious because now, whenever we get to kissing and fooling around, he'll warn me, "Now, don't go probing so early because I don't want to cum so soon".

[Oldfart]

You're confusing an ejaculation with an orgasm.

They are different, though normally simultaneous, phenomena.

I have read of ladies who can quench an ejaculation without diminishing the orgasm.

I still wish to meet one of these talented creatures.

You have pushed Mr Lixy's trigger without the lock/load/prime/aim/consider stuff.

[Lilith]

Rubbing Mr. Lil's prostate has never actually caused him to get off......it may help get him there but does not happen the way you describe Mr. Lixy's.

[osuche]

Never had this happen...although it's certainly interesting. Every guy I've been with merely says that massaging the prostate increases stimulation.

Lixy ~~ was he able to cum again soon, or did the hair trigger response finish off the evening? I'm wondering because even though I am not a multiple ~~ I can have one "unsatisfying" orgasm and have another in about 5 min.....not sure if Mr. Lixy managed the same?

[WildIrish]

Though I've had orgasms that included prostate stimulation, they've never been as you've described. Even the first time, when it was so "taboo and dirty", and I spoo'd quite readily...I still felt the buildup.

Great...now I have something to shoot for. Uh...so to speak. :D

[jeannieO]

[QUOTE=LixyChick]I was discussing this in another thread from jeannieO and a "pushy broad" (her words...NOT mine!...lol) said I should open a new thread so that more Pixie's can answer my query.

Were you saying I was a pushy broad ? Lord I hope I didn't come across that way. lol

[Scarecrow]

jeannieO, after you have been around here for awhile you will know who she was referring too.

[jeannieO]

jeannieO, after you have been around here for awhile you will know who she was referring too.

Ok, as long as I didn't come across that way to anyone I am content.
Since I haven't been around awhile I guess I will remain in the dark, but thats ok, I usually spend a lot of time there. :sun:
Thanks Jeannie

[flutelady]

JeannieO, dunno who Scarecrow was referring to, but I'm the "pushy broad" Lixy was talking about. After reading her post in your thread, I PM'd her and told her that I knew I was being a pushy broad, but I'd really like to see that topic have it's own thread.

I think it's a very interesting subject and would like to hear what everyone has to say about it.

[Lilith]

JeannieO, dunno who Scarecrow was referring to, but I'm the "pushy broad" Lixy was talking about. After reading her post in your thread, I PM'd her and told her that I knew I was being a pushy broad, but I'd really like to see that topic have it's own thread.

I think it's a very interesting subject and would like to hear what everyone has to say about it.
HA HA and I bet some of you thought is was me :D

[mbrio74]

I could see how that could happen, however unusual. The mind stimulates nerves that cause the muscle to react. manually stimulating the muscle could cause it to open and let some through.

[LixyChick]

First, please let me say to jeannieO...OMG hun! I'm sorry you got the impression that I was talking about you. What I said was merely a joke between myself and flutelady...should she want to come forward and say so...which she did! I guess I should have worded that differently. Again...I'm sorry and I'll try and be more careful in the future! If you'll check your intro thread in this forum...I did start to mention this subject there, and soon thereafter flutelady PM'd me and this is how this thread was born.

(((jeannieO)))


OK...well wow! Such diversified answers here.

Oldfart...Yes! I guess, even at my age, I've a lot to learn about men...and this is a good thing, for sure. I like that Mr. Lixy and I haven't yet explored all there is to one another...though you'd think after all this time there wouldn't be much else to learn. I don't think he even knew that this kind of ejaculation could happen because it shocked us both. I'll be more aware next time and try not to overstimulate anything before he is stimulated!

Lilith...In all our years together and in all the old and new ways we've experimented with...this has never happened before either. It's not like I haven't "fingered" him before. I'm guessing it was a fluke...though I dare not try it again before we've played and played and he's hot and ready!

osuche...As I recall, it took a while to regroup but he was able to have a "normal" ejaculate/orgasm later. I think the shock and disbelief of what had happened had a slight effect on the next...but he is back to normall now!

WI...I'm not so sure this is a good goal to "shoot for"...lol! The disappointment on his face didn't lead me to believe this was something he'd been hoping to achieve in his lifetime. It truly had no ooomph for him...and I'm sure he missed the ooomph!

Scarecrow...Nope...wasn't Lil I was referring to...LOL!

mbrio74...Interesting nic...and Welcum to Pixies! TY for your reply. That's about as technical as the experience was for hubby. Cut and dry! Yep...TY...it explains a lot!

Looking forward to more responses!

[scotzoidman]

I had a doc once do that to me during a physical, just stimulate the prostate to get a semen sample from me...when I ejaculated, he put a drop on a slide to check it out...he was checking out the growth I have had on my right testicle since my teens...I guess he was checking to make sure it wasn't cancerous or something...about 1 1/2 years ago a urologist told me it was prob a cyst formed from an unejaculated sperm packet, & nothing to worry about...in any case, I can confirm that it is possible for a man to squirt without getting off, there was nothing the least bit sexually stimulating going on at the time...I mean, I liked the doc I was going to at the time, he'd been stitching me up since I was 8, but he really wasn't my type at all...

ok, Lixy, was that TMI or what? ;)

[jeannieO]

[QUOTE=LixyChick]First, please let me say to jeannieO...OMG hun! I'm sorry you got the impression that I was talking about you. What I said was merely a joke between myself and flutelady...should she want to come forward and say so...which she did! I guess I should have worded that differently. Again...I'm sorry and I'll try and be more careful in the future! If you'll check your intro thread in this forum...I did start to mention this subject there, and soon thereafter flutelady PM'd me and this is how this thread was born.
(((jeannieO)))

No problem, I was not sure if you were refering to me or not. But I wanted to make sure I didn't step on anyones toes. Jeannie :)

[WildIrish]

I think I've heard of what scotz is referring to. It's been called "milking the prostate". I don't know if it induces a squirt of spoo or it squeezes some out, but I have heard of the concept.

[Cobalt]

/me raises hand and volunteers for Lixy to practice on so she gets it just right! :moon: :lust:

[scotzoidman]

I think I've heard of what scotz is referring to. It's been called "milking the prostate". I don't know if it induces a squirt of spoo or it squeezes some out, but I have heard of the concept.As I recall, it just oozed out...the prostate is not well understood by the public in general, but it's really the main source of semen...yes, sperm is produced in the balls, but most of what you see on your keyboard :p is what I would call "inactive ingredients"...

[SuzyQ]

Just took this off another Forum

But in short the prostate is located behind the pubic bone and is most easily accessed by sticking a finger in the rectum and several inches in feeling toward the front, toward the pubic bone. There will be a walnut sized gland that you can feel and mashing it between your finger and the pubic bone is what is called a "prostate massage". Milder stimulation of the prostate and some of the penis before mashing down to milk it will produce in most a discharge of semen without ejaculation or the sense of orgasm.

I didn't do the research but there are some web sites who might have further information:

http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/
http://www.leatherquest.com/main.htm
http://www.sexuality.org/index.html
http://www.frugaldomme.com

[imalikalotapuss]

I guess maybe everyone is a little different, i have had this happen and able to have an orgasm right away. Both where intense, so maybe i am the exception. But it was enjoyable!

[LixyChick]

scotzoidman...I had a doc once do that to me during a physical, just stimulate the prostate to get a semen sample from me...when I ejaculated, he put a drop on a slide to check it out...he was checking out the growth I have had on my right testicle since my teens...I guess he was checking to make sure it wasn't cancerous or something...about 1 1/2 years ago a urologist told me it was prob a cyst formed from an unejaculated sperm packet, & nothing to worry about...in any case, I can confirm that it is possible for a man to squirt without getting off, there was nothing the least bit sexually stimulating going on at the time...I mean, I liked the doc I was going to at the time, he'd been stitching me up since I was 8, but he really wasn't my type at all...

ok, Lixy, was that TMI or what?
It'd been TMI scotz, if you had told me that the doc had both of his hands on your shoulders when he "milked" you! Oh...BTW...Was his name Dr. Ben Dover? ROFLMFAO! TY for the info hun! *kisses*

Cobalt.../me raises hand and volunteers for Lixy to practice on so she gets it just right!
Practice makes perfect! TY for the sacrifice sweetums! I'll be gentle and take the time to make it right! *hugs*

SuzyQ...Just took this off another Forum

But in short the prostate is located behind the pubic bone and is most easily accessed by sticking a finger in the rectum and several inches in feeling toward the front, toward the pubic bone. There will be a walnut sized gland that you can feel and mashing it between your finger and the pubic bone is what is called a "prostate massage". Milder stimulation of the prostate and some of the penis before mashing down to milk it will produce in most a discharge of semen without ejaculation or the sense of orgasm.

I didn't do the research but there are some web sites who might have further information:

http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/
http://www.leatherquest.com/main.htm
http://www.sexuality.org/index.html
http://www.frugaldomme.com
TY for the info and the links SuzyQ!


TY everyone...for putting this all into perspective!

[WildIrish]

As I recall, it just oozed out...the prostate is not well understood by the public in general, but it's really the main source of semen...yes, sperm is produced in the balls, but most of what you see on your keyboard :p is what I would call "inactive ingredients"...


Cookie crumbs and the orange stuff from Cheetos are inactive? :confused:


/me runs off to check the bags

[acepen]

Sometimes i can have multiple orgasms if i am getting prostate stmulation and oral sex.

[bare4you]

I can't say that I've ever had the pleasure - would love to give it a try though. :shake: