Please Help - desperate situation

[Dribble]

The problem is pretty simple - instead of a powerful explosion resulting in an impressive squirt, there is a powerful explosion and a big dribble. The quantity is fine, but I can't squirt. Now when she is expecting a blast to the back of the throat and gets a soggy mess on her tongue, or instead of hoping it will clear the carpet she wonders how she got it all over her hand...well, as you can imagine my confidence is zero and as a result my sex life. So what can I do to get some squirt? Any and all help and advice, suggestions etc are needed and will be appreciated.

In a new relationship and am quite honesty terrified of the look on her face when things don't happen as expected - and honestly, I am expecting fear-induced impotency anyway...so come on pixies, please help me.

(ps I am a regular user, just using a phantom nick - come to your own conclusions)

Thanking you all in advance.

[boilergirl1]

Firstly I think that projecting how someone else will react or feel is non productive. that said I can't speak for other women but as for myself it's not the big squirt that i look forward to but the intensity of the heat and above all the taste.(which can be aided by eating the right foods the night prior, ie;no brocolli or cabbage or cauliflower ) some foods make it taste sweet and others make it so bad that you want to gag and spit it out anyway i don't know if any of this has helped but i am hungry now(for cock) so i guess it's off to the fridge for me. good luck an don't worry so much

[WildIrish]

i am hungry now(for cock) so i guess it's off to the fridge for me



You keep a cock in the fridge? :eek:

"I'll be right back...I'm just gonna go crack open a cold one." :D


Ok enough fun and games. Well, actually I can't promise I'm done. Dribble...have you always had strong orgasms with short ejaculations? Or is this a new development? In my personal experience, I've noticed that being well hydrated makes my spoo thinner and much more apt to shoot farther. When I haven't had much water, or I've recently had an orgasm, I don't get the "shoot for distance" cumshot. Maybe it's that easy? Either way, don't sweat it. If a woman you're with thinks less of you because of your cumshot...she may not be a good match. How will she react to the important stuff? Just my humble opinion, of course. And remember, I'm just some goofball on the internet.

[PantyFanatic]

..... I'm just some goofball on the internet.
He’s not just “some goofball on the internet”. He the one Little Bow-Peep put out the bounty on. :rolleyes:



While a mass, distance, time formula may not quite apply here, …. “squirt” and “dribble” can be a little ambiguous. As mentioned above, a lot of factors can affect the event of an orgasm. One that I’ve seemed to notice over the years is aroused time before the finally. When there has been a slow buildup, it seems she has packed more powder in the charge.;) Even with “remote control”:rolleyes:, it will make a difference if I get a wet towel or have to wash my beard after.

:cool:

[Aqua]

Sorry Dribble, I can't help much as far as the squirt factor goes... (and I have my own issues with quantity, I think I've about emptied both barrels).

But I will offer this advice. Communicate with your partner and make sure you know her feelings. I can tell you from personal experience that assuming you know what someone else is thinking or feeling can lead to a serious problem. One much larger than a less than forceful orgasm. My wife squirts (sometimes) when she cums and was sure it would turn me off so we had some issues when we first started having sex. When she finally fessed up she found out that not only did I not mind the squirting, I was turned on by it.

The long and short, talk about it regardless of whether or not you can find a way to increase your shooting power. Good luck!

[rockintime]

As they say in the New Orleans French Quarter, "laissez les bon temps rouler"...or...Let the Good Times Roll. Do what feels right and have fun doing it and I doubt this will really be a problem. If it turns out to be, as others have mentioned, talk with your S/O about it or get some medical advice. Mainly...ENJOY!!!!

Now:
*runs to refill boilergirl's refrigerator*

[sodaklostsoul]

Being female I would say if it bothers YOU that much then seek medical advice, maybe it would put your fears to rest. And as a female, I'm not in it for the squirt or the quanity, I just want him to cum so he feels good. :o)

[osuche]

Volume and or velocity matters not to me anyway. Besides....he's usually cumming in my mouth, and it's not like I take a titration or anything... LMAO

Relax and have fun, assuming you feel well in all other respects

[WildIrish]

titration \ti-tra-shen n : a process of finding the concentration of a solution (as of an acid) by adding small portions of a second solution of known concentration (as of a base) to a fixed amount of the first until an expected change (as in color) occurs.


:confused:

Sounds like she's bragging that she can make spoo change color in her mouth. :D

[sodaklostsoul]

titration \ti-tra-shen n : a process of finding the concentration of a solution (as of an acid) by adding small portions of a second solution of known concentration (as of a base) to a fixed amount of the first until an expected change (as in color) occurs.


:confused:

Sounds like she's bragging that she can make spoo change color in her mouth. :D
Change color? Is that when she added the pop rocks!!

[cowgirltease]

Maybe you need to see a urologist?

[Cheyanne]

Maybe you need to see a urologist?


My thoughts too! I am not a medical professional...

Is this normal for you? If it isn't you should see a doctor. I have known men who have had an enlarged prostrate that would have difficulty urinating and ejaculating.

If this is a normal situation for you, then you will have to accept what mother nature gave you. I have read different articles that claim that exercising the PC muscle in men will allow them to ejaculate stronger and have better control. You might ask your doctor about that too...

.......and on the flip side - I would much rather have a "dribble" than a rocket launch, especially during oral... lol - I don't much like to gag!

[scotzoidman]

My guess is this may be another case of Porn Expectations, wherein the young & inexperienced believe what they see the pros do is the norm...actually there is no "norm", except what's normal for you...I only have an "impressive squirt" on very special occasions, usually after a lengthy exciting bout with the S/O, usually my orgasmic efforts just dribble down the knuckles...I seriously doubt any lady partner would be let down because you don't have to wipe down the walls & ceiling afterward.....

[LixyChick]

My guess is this may be another case of Porn Expectations, wherein the young & inexperienced believe what they see the pros do is the norm...actually there is no "norm", except what's normal for you...I only have an "impressive squirt" on very special occasions, usually after a lengthy exciting bout with the S/O, usually my orgasmic efforts just dribble down the knuckles...I seriously doubt any lady partner would be let down because you don't have to wipe down the walls & ceiling afterward.....
I was gonna say that! Well, not exactly...but something similar.

I don't care to guess who you are dribble...but may we know your age and sexual experience?

I was thinking, if you are young and fairly inexperienced except for being a film buff, your expectations are way too high. It's like watching a Superman movie and claiming, "I can't fly and I wanna know why". The differences between everyone is what makes the world an interesting place. How boring it'd be if we were all the same!

If you've previously been able to shoot to the moon, and now you suddenly can't in this new relationship, go see a doctor (urologist). If it's always been the norm to ooze, alone or with someone else, well...then...that's the norm for you. It's not the biggest issue in a relationship...unless you make it so! Some women wouldn't even think it unusual unless you pointed it out. And still, maybe even not then but only for the concern factor...concern for your concern. Each and every one of my lover's was different in the "cum shot" aspect. I never even thought of it till now, and I just took it as...that's the way they do it.

If you keep making mountains out of molehills, she might be scared away fore thinking she is inadequate and cannot stimulate you enough to make you shoot.

[mba_student]

do u dribble when u pee?
if ur pee is normal, then ur simply holding back during ejaculation.
Just let go and don't even look at it.
don't hold back. let it do the way it is supposed to and everything will work fine.

if it still does not, and ur are still dribbling, see either:
1. an urologist
2. a shrink