embaressed need advice

[jdcjrc]

What do you do when someone you know stumbles onto the site and you have pics you wish he had not seen. He has made comments of seeing them but we wish he had not and not sure how to respond or what to do. Any advice will be great.

[Sharni]

What do you do when someone you know stumbles onto the site and you have pics you wish he had not seen. He has made comments of seeing them but we wish he had not and not sure how to respond or what to do. Any advice will be great.
What advice are you requiring?

You have to grin and bear it naturally....you have put your pics on a public access site the chance of someone you know seeing them is very real...as you have found out...

How would you respond to anyone else viewing your pics? I'm sure you've had other comments about your pics...This person you know should be different? Why? They can admire them just as much as a stranger

However, having said that....if this person you know has in anyway been threatening in their comments or nasty...please forward the offending PM's/Emails to Lilith or myself...and we will look into the matter

If you want the pics removed then notify Lilith or myself

[jdcjrc]

We knew that there was a chance of someone seeing them. It's just that we wished that he would have kept his comments annomous and not told us personally. We do enjoy in participating with this site but right now it's just akward knowing for a fact that someone we know is seeing these and its possible that others may know before too long.

[PantyFanatic]

The OFFICIAL word. ----^^

What do you do when someone you know stumbles .......
Stumble my ass! :mad: Nobody “stumbles” thru the thousands of pics posted on here unless they were HAPPILY surfing along. If they did happen on yours, it’s because they found something they very much liked and it happened to be you. Now they can either express their admiration for your beauty, courage and forthrightness or a snide, hypocritical remark that you can respond to with.. “Thank you.:) I’m looking forward to your contribution.:)“, or “I understand .... some only have the taste, instead of the balls for these things.”



:D

[Lilith]

Summer and I have had the awkwardness of knowing each other's spouses have seen our pics. It really has become a non-issue. We all knew we were all highly sexual creatures so it's not really a big deal.

[Glyndwr]

I have to agree with PF, nobody who browses this site can do so by 'accident'. Therefore they must know that they will see nudity in all it's greatness. The fact that they have recognised you and don't seem to have been very subtle suggests to me that they don't have the maturity to be viewing this type of site.

As long as you are both comfortable with what you are doing this third party needs to be told to show more consideration.

[Sharni]

Can i add

Let this be a lesson to all that post pics...

It CAN happen....posting pics online makes you vunerable to being identified (which is why most do not post their face!)

Now i dont mind removing them....but understand it does take time and effort on the Mods behalf to search out and remove your threads and individual pics in other threads.....the more pics you have posted the more effort is required to remove them

If you post pics....please understand the implications of doing so

[OzKristin]

i had the same thing happen to me...it is awkward, but u just have to smile and continue on with your life...it's not really all that bad to be honest....perhaps you can look back on it and laugh w/ this person later on...I still talk to the person who stumbled onto my pics here, it was just a little awkward at first....we did however make a pact not to ever discuss it

[WildIrish]

Posting the pictures I do, and making the comments I make are part of who I am. If someone I knew discovered that their friend was "wildirish", I'd like to think they would enjoy my posts, even if they don't appreciate my pictures. But if not, or if they didn't respond kindly to what I do here (something I enjoy tremendously, btw) they can feel free to express their opinion to me. And I will be more than happy to tell them that much like TV and Radio...they have the freedom not to look. If they carry it any further, I will undoubtedly tell them that it takes a better person than they to judge me.

Then I'll dickslap them and post a picture of the red spank mark. :D

[PantyFanatic]

..... the person who stumbled onto my pics here, .....
To borrow an expression:) ... I still say FROG SHIT! :shake: lmao

[Sharni]

FROG SHIT!
Oi.....thats mine!!

[osuche]

You know, I've often considered how I'd feel if people I knew in RL saw my pictures. I think my biggest concern was what would happen if someone who worked for me saw them....and whether I would lose their respect. I've also thought some day I may run for political office....and I suspect my Pixies addiction may come to haunt me.

I the final analysis, here's where I have come out:
* No one wants to know someone who is uni-dimensional....and osuche is just one of the facets of my personality
* We're too sexually repressed in our culture...the world needs strong women who can be sexual and successful ~ I do NOT want to stop being feminine
* If I live my life worrying about what others think, I'll never get where I want to go....and I'll tie myself up in knots getting where I do end up

So....I've posted...in all my glory :rolleyes: ~ and the consequenes be damned.

[Lilith]

You know, I've often considered how I'd feel if people I knew in RL saw my pictures. I think my biggest concern was what would happen if someone who worked for me saw them....and whether I would lose their respect. I've also thought some day I may run for political office....and I suspect my Pixies addiction may come to haunt me.


So....I've posted...in all my glory :rolleyes: ~ and the consequenes be damned.
As your running mate I think I can make the whole messy thing disappear....isn't that what running mates are for ;)

[osuche]

Ah...but then we couldn't run on the Smart~n~Slutty platform :p


Lil ~ thanks for the offer, but I doubt I'd take you up on it. I made a considered decision when I posted them....I wanted to share a little bit of me with the Pixies people I love.

[Lilith]

Ah...but then we couldn't run on the Smart~n~Slutty platform :p



which one am I? :p

[osuche]

I think we're both a bit of both....but you can be the smart one. :D

[Lilith]

I think we're both a bit of both....but you can be the smart one. :D
drats ;)

[WildIrish]

As your running mate I think I can make the whole messy thing disappear....isn't that what running mates are for ;)


As a member of the voting public...I'm pretty sure my role in all of this is to make messy things APPEAR! :hot:

[Aqua]

As a member of the voting public...I'm pretty sure my role in all of this is to make messy things APPEAR! :hot:
*walks in with the popcorn*

I think we can all manner of messy things appear... ;)

[WildIrish]

*walks in with the popcorn*

I think we can all manner of messy things appear... ;)


Hey buddy!


Want a cookie? :D

[OzKristin]

To borrow an expression:) ... I still say FROG SHIT! :shake: lmao

lol um ok but i don't know what you're all frog shitting at lol

[PantyFanatic]

lol um ok but i don't know what you're all frog shitting at lol
see post #4 :rant: in this thread.



;)

[Scarecrow]

then we couldn't run on the Smart~n~Slutty platform :p


I'll vote for that ticket :sex:

[boilergirl1]

this person needs to be told immediatly that his/her comments are making you uncomfortable and asked to stop. beyond that there's little you can do.
if he/she is any kind of a human being at all they'll understand and drop it.

as for this vote now you know lil has mine! :grope: