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[mr_tim_sr]

Im a 60yr old man in n.c. im happly married but i like sex iwould like to fine a lady to have sex on the side is this wrong like i like the fell of something diff.been maried for 21 yr have only did it 1 time to someone else dose anyone else feel like this? you see i like oral sex a lot but my wife dont like to do me i like a woman who can take it all the way down and thak the cum if anyone feels this way please email me at [email protected] so we can talk

[cowgirltease]

Is it worth ruining 21 years? I think you need to talk to her. Tell her how you feel.

[osuche]

I'd doubt you'll find many Pixies ladies who will encourage you to stray... We have all observed how a bit of communication about sex with one's partner does a lot to remedy these situations. Try talking to her about it ~~ and perhaps trying a few new techniques on her to "motivate" her ~~ and see if that will work first.

Good luck!

[OzKristin]

I gotta agree with the ladies on this one...even though I've had my thoughts about straying....simple conversations expressing your needs and desires do a world of good.

[Lilith]

I agree with the beautiful and intelligent women above.

[wyndhy]

i second the ageement of the beautiful and intelliget lady above me who agreed with all the beautiful and intelligent ladies above her. i'll bet you're wife is also beautiful and intelligent. why don't you talk to her?

[PantyFanatic]

… 60yr old man… happly married … i like sex … sex on the side…. is this wrong … something diff... i like oral … my wife dont …

Being too close to your place in life, I thought you may want to hear from a guy. (Well maybe not :rolleyes: ) lol

You can see the parts of your statement that caught my eye. ^^ It’s not about sex of any kind being right or wrong for anybody but you. Your situation involves another person and has to be looked at from there. How does any activity, sexual or otherwise, affect being “happily married”? Sometimes it may be something you can enjoy together. When that isn’t the case, you look for something you can be pleased the other is enjoying without you being involved. Whether it’s sewing dresses, building race cars, bowling or blow jobs, if it is truly unacceptable to your partner, it will affect the “happy” part of your relationship. Now you have to decide the value to you of 21 years of being happily married. What is it your partner enjoys? Can you really enjoy it with them? Can you be happy having your partner enjoy it without you? These are important questions any partnership has to answer….. especially in your bedroom.

Good luck pal,:) and I hope your discussions with the only one that counts, takes you to places you both can be thrilled about.













I guess I have to agree with the ladies :( ……………………….. again. :mad:


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